1. The girl you date does not want to meet
your family or friends, she wants you all to
herself.The woman you marry wants to know
your family and friends. She knows without
them, you would not be where you are, and
who you are today.
2. The girl you date is overly worried about
her nails been done all the time, her
eyelashes looking in a certain style, and being
beautiful for her peers. Her physical beauty is
important to her.The woman you marry is not
overly worried about her nails being done.
Instead, she is worried about being beautiful
for her man, even if that means wearing no
makeup. She focuses on her internal beauty
and character building, because she knows
real beauty comes from within.
3. The girl you date only cares about her
career and her vision for life. She comes
before the relationship, and does not make
her future plans with you in mind.The woman
you marry cares about your career and your
vision of life as well as her own. She knows
you also have a plan, and works together with
you to achieve the goals you both have. The
marriage is her priority.
4. The girl you date loves the financial cushion
you can
provide. She also expects something back
whenever she gives.The woman you marry
wants to build a financial cushion with you.
She believes that two heads will always be
better than one. When she gives, she does
not expect anything back.
5. The girl you date believes she knows
everything.The
woman you marry is open to learning
something new, and knows there is always
room for improvement.
6. The girl you date is scared to tell you her
deepest
secrets.The woman you marry will share her
deepest secrets with you, even if it means
losing you. She trusts you, and shares
everything with you. She knows honesty is
always the best policy.
7. The girl you date does not get excited
about marriage and children (even if she
wants to have some one day). The woman you
marry gets excited about marriage and
starting a family with you.
8. The girl you date shows her cleavage all the
time.The woman you marry is more modest
because she knows her attributes are for your
eyes only.
9. The girl you date is not concerned about
cooking for you.The woman you marry loves
not only to cook, but chooses delicious and
healthy meals. The way to a man’s heart is
through his stomach after all, right?
10. The girl you date is overly concerned
about how long you will be around, and how
she can keep you.The woman you marry is
not too concerned about keeping you because
she knows you want to have a future with her.
She is mature enough to know you can never
force someone to stay and that you each have
to choose each other every day, again and
again.
11. The girl you date is not willing to
compromise with
you.The woman you marry is willing to
compromise, and sees compromise as a
necessity for a healthy marriage
12. The girl you date thrives on constant
attention from you.The woman you marry
mirrors your affection and thrives on
providing you with the love, support, and
respect you need.
13. The girl you date tries to change who you
are and
compares you to her ex.The woman you
marry accepts you for who you are and will
not compare you to her ex. She knows you
are the best and that you cannot change
another person no matter how hard you try.
14. The girl you date has to be
entertained.The woman you marry is
someone you can have fun with, relax, do
activities, or do nothing together and still
enjoy each other’s company.

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@OP
the girl you date is "possibly" the woman you will EVENTUALLY marry......... marrying someone without dating her is one of the biggest mistake a man can do.

@OP. Well, you're very right. But you should also realize that both are totally different. Marriage and dating is obviously not the same. I hope you know this. In other words, getting married without prior dating is counterproductive because of lack of understanding. You need to know your future husband very well and your future husband needs to understand you too.

In addition, a woman who does not know how to handle pressure in life, may not withstand the test of marriage. These tests come in different ways. Notwithstanding though, we all need proper reorientation and focus.

All in all, I think the upbringing of a child plays important role in the process of adolescence. For instance, "The Nigerian Home Movies", The Ghanaian Home Movies, just to mention a few. Unfortunately, young people want to try out new things everyday.

Parents should train their kids properly. The media has been so delusional lately. They also should be mindful of what they project. Because juvenile delinquency brings a lot of moral degradation in the society. They should not lure young people into thinking that what they watch on television or read is morally right.