bustyhelen: There are some girls that you should just never date. These girls are either too bossy, too possessive or total psychos! However, when it comes to the subject of dating virgins, men are undecided.
Most men, at least Nigerian men actually want to date girls who are virgins. They get a certain sense of security from knowing that their girlfriend is chaste.

So, what if we told you that you must never date a girl who is totally chaste? Don't pick up the brick bats, we can prove it with logic that there are many disadvantages of dating a virgin girl. And as the disadvantages outweigh the benefits, you must never date a girl who has not lost her virginity.

1 Chastity is a state of mind: Girl may be a virgin physically but that does not mean that her heart is chaste. She may have loved before and lost her chastity emotionally.

2 She does not have a benchmark: Well she cannot compare you to her abusive ex-boyfriend. So she will not understand when you compare her with your psycho ex-girlfriend. She will be jealous of your exes because she has no similar experience to set precedents. It can put you in a difficult spot because most of us like to be on friendly terms with our ex-girlfriends. That is the sign of matured relationships.

3 You have to be her guardian: Dude you are getting into a relationship, you are not signing up for adoption. Girls see their father in the men they love. So if your are going to start dating Daddy's virgin girl, then you will have to start behaving like her dad. Trust me, it is not a nice feeling.

4 You have to commit to her: Most guys try to date virgin girls only when they want to marry them. However, this approach interferes with the natural progression of a relationship. You meet a girl, fall in love and then think about marriage. What if you commit to the girl and then don't think she is the right one later?

6 She will have romantic ideas about making love:

Most virgins think that making love is like an 'end of the world' experience. They don't realise that it is a normal human activity like bathing or eating. So you may seriously disappoint her and bear the brunt for it.

6 You may not get lucky: If no one else has managed to get lucky with her then odds are not in your favour. If you are dating a virgin girl just to maneuver her into the sack, then it is a very bad idea. Never date any girl with such intentions.


These are some of the reasons for which you must never date a girl who has not lost her virginity. What is your opinion about this?

missyhorlah: Just simply say u aint a virgin nd u wanna beef 'em virgins

solomonbrown64: ....Wats wit dis virgins or no virgins stuff....na wa oh...
anyway, You are right in Point 2 and 6.......dating a virgin and hoping to have carnal knowledge with her , and not willingl to marry her is a recipe for disaster....I have witnessed such before, and it wasnt funny at all....

chimerase2: re u a virgin?

Crocz: And yet another virginity thread but this time from "BUSTYHELEN!!!!!!!"


Nobody told you to give your own virginity to the wolves o

missyhorlah: Just simply say u aint a virgin nd u wanna beef 'em virgins

question for d gods

deb6:
Ah!! Nobody force you to give yours out o, so stop hating on em virgin. Afterall u can still be a secondary or tertiary virgin.

bustyhelen:
There are some girls that you should just never date. These girls are either too bossy, too possessive or total psychos! However, when it comes to the subject of dating virgins, men are undecided.
Most men, at least Nigerian men actually want to date girls who are virgins. They get a certain sense of security from knowing that their girlfriend is chaste.

So, what if we told you that you must never date a girl who is totally chaste? Don't pick up the brick bats, we can prove it with logic that there are many disadvantages of dating a virgin girl. And as the disadvantages outweigh the benefits, you must never date a girl who has not lost her virginity.

1 Chastity is a state of mind: Girl may be a virgin physically but that does not mean that her heart is chaste. She may have loved before and lost her chastity emotionally.

2 She does not have a benchmark: Well she cannot compare you to her abusive ex-boyfriend. So she will not understand when you compare her with your psycho ex-girlfriend. She will be jealous of your exes because she has no similar experience to set precedents. It can put you in a difficult spot because most of us like to be on friendly terms with our ex-girlfriends. That is the sign of matured relationships.

3 You have to be her guardian: Dude you are getting into a relationship, you are not signing up for adoption. Girls see their father in the men they love. So if your are going to start dating Daddy's virgin girl, then you will have to start behaving like her dad. Trust me, it is not a nice feeling.

4 You have to commit to her: Most guys try to date virgin girls only when they want to marry them. However, this approach interferes with the natural progression of a relationship. You meet a girl, fall in love and then think about marriage. What if you commit to the girl and then don't think she is the right one later?

6 She will have romantic ideas about making love:

Most virgins think that making love is like an 'end of the world' experience. They don't realise that it is a normal human activity like bathing or eating. So you may seriously disappoint her and bear the brunt for it.

6 You may not get lucky: If no one else has managed to get lucky with her then odds are not in your favour. If you are dating a virgin girl just to maneuver her into the sack, then it is a very bad idea. Never date any girl with such intentions.


These are some of the reasons for which you must never date a girl who has not lost her virginity. What is your opinion about this?

Elantracey:
I totally disagree with you