: ,.I will be 30 by next year that is when am probably goin for NYSC.have not been working or find any means of income,my parents still give me money but brothers am tired of loneliness,right now am d only one living in 3bedroom bungalow with big palour,the question now is can I get married without any means of personal income,or can any responsible lady date me without any work or somethings doing,though I have flings that I rush to incase any serious urge,but I want a serious lady.pls advice not to scold me.

dancok: : ,.I will be 30 by next year that is when am probably goin for NYSC.have not been working or find any means of income,my parents still give me money but brothers am tired of loneliness,right now am d only one living in 3bedroom bungalow with big palour,the question now is can I get married without any means of personal income,or can any responsible lady date me without any work or somethings doing,though I have flings that I rush to incase any serious urge,but I want a serious lady.pls advice not to scold me.

Chai! Women have suffered oo......in case of any serious urge
Well, you MIGHT get a lady that will date you but getting married without any source of income is not adviceable. Would your parents be taking care of your wife too? And kids?
Get a job before thinking of women, biko
poverty ain't fun

You are 30, jobless, still collect "chop money" from parents and you want to get married? Not even cos of any other thing but loneliness? You haven't even done your NYSC yet.

Is your sole aim of coming into this world to come and get married? No other ambition?

These are the kind of men that will abscond when they hear their wife gave birth to triplets.

My friend, park well and re-prioritise!

Chaii, this ur opinion is really candid



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Phema: You are 30, jobless, still collect "chop money" from parents and you want to get married? Not even cos of any other thing but loneliness? You haven't even done your NYSC yet.

Is your sole aim of coming into this world to come and get married? No other ambition?

These are the kind of men that will abscond when they hear their wife gave birth to triplets.

O'boy, park well and re-prioritise!

go to states like zamfara or bornu where there is scarcity of husbands 4 ur service, dem full throway

So because you live alone in a 3 bedroom flat means you should get married? Guy,abeg go and do your NYSC first!

Rent out the 3 bedroom flat, use part of the money to rent a self contain and then invest the rest into Business.


#my 2cents

dancok: : ,.I will be 30 by next year that is when am probably goin for NYSC.have not been working or find any means of income,my parents still give me money but brothers am tired of loneliness,right now am d only one living in 3bedroom bungalow with big palour,the question now is can I get married without any means of personal income,or can any responsible lady date me without any work or somethings doing,though I have flings that I rush to incase any serious urge,but I want a serious lady.pls advice not to scold me.

Op don't be in a hurry to get married. Chill out with your babes until you become independent. If you marry like this it is the woman that will start giving you stress about being a man of your own.

No be only loneliness ,beta talk true,your "incase of any urge" chicks don dey request for money and you no get shishi so you don dey find permanent "incase of any urge" caretaker....Hang your cloth for where your hand go reach,get a flatmate..

You even sound really lazy,I bet there wouldn't be much difference if you have served.You don't need a wife,you need a sugar mummy.

justi4jesu: Rent out the 3 bedroom flat, use part of the money to rent a self contain and then invest the rest into Business.


#my 2cents

I love your opinion

Odilafta: No be only loneliness ,beta talk true,your "incase of any urge" chicks don dey request for money and you no get shishi so you don dey find permanent "incase of any urge" caretaker....Hang your cloth for where your hand go reach,get a flatmate..

You even sound really lazy,I bet there wouldn't be much difference if you have served.You don't need a wife,you need a sugar mummy.

bro I just don't how it happen,am not so lazy but I be kind jaiye orimi boy.

justi4jesu: Rent out the 3 bedroom flat, use part of the money to rent a self contain and then invest the rest into Business.
#my 2cents

Or he could as well rent out two of the bedrooms and stay in one. See money making venture, the OP is busy collecting pocket money from his parents and the only reasonable thing he can think of is to marry. I wonder what he intends to use to take care of an entire human being when he is still depending on others.
OP, what other money spinning skills do you have apart from your degree that you almost can't gain an employment with without NYSC certificate?
Please OP re-prioritise your life o.
Cheers