Suppose you came across a friend who travelled abroad.and you both were happy to meet each other, both of you now went to a restaurant and had some drinks.you asked your friend if he was married and he told you he did, and bought out his phone to show you his wife and kids.and asked after your own wife and you did bring out your phone to show him your lovely wife, and your friend tells you that he new your wife and they have both had a relationship in the past, what will you do? know well they both had something in common before.will you snob what he told you and pretend like you never heard and move your relationship froward knowing that you guys have two kids, and you never tell your wife what happen, or will you call her and ask, just wanna know your views you folks in the house,

Simply ignore and move ahead with the relationship because there is nobody that doesn't have a past no matter what you become.