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| Nairalanders! Is It Right To Be A Bestie With An Ex/exes? by Tarteenah: 10:05pm On Oct 18, 2014 |
Hello people, pls I had this argument with my very good friend,is it right to keep in touch with your ex, or let's say u guys ended the relationship on a bad note, den after a while, he comes to apologise and asked u to forgive him, then asking u guys to be friends  ? Is that okay? Also is it right to be a bestie with him? Like tell him your new chykers and the issues you hav with them? Is that normal? I tried advising her that she shd stop (it's my business, she is my friend)I just want to know if that attitude is normal! |
| Re: Nairalanders! Is It Right To Be A Bestie With An Ex/exes? by chijoy7(f): 10:11pm On Oct 18, 2014 |
Question for the gods |
| Re: Nairalanders! Is It Right To Be A Bestie With An Ex/exes? by vizkiz: 10:11pm On Oct 18, 2014 |
I can foresee another heartbreak on the way  |
| Re: Nairalanders! Is It Right To Be A Bestie With An Ex/exes? by tosyne2much(m): 10:16pm On Oct 18, 2014 |
It depends ooo OP |
| Re: Nairalanders! Is It Right To Be A Bestie With An Ex/exes? by manutdadex(m): 10:22pm On Oct 18, 2014 |
it depends on aw mature both of dem are! Anytin can happen btw both parties,if one of dem still av feelin for d oda , but there is ntin bad in keepin in touch wit ones ex |
| Re: Nairalanders! Is It Right To Be A Bestie With An Ex/exes? by CuteMaro(m): 10:22pm On Oct 18, 2014 |
In same deep shit with my ex, calls me like crazy, wants me 2 cum c her & stuffs, sometimes I wonder if she's really moved on... I know it wn't end well, but I dnt know hw to stop her. |
| Re: Nairalanders! Is It Right To Be A Bestie With An Ex/exes? by Bootybuttchic(f): 10:40pm On Oct 18, 2014 |
noooo,.....my ex is my ex.....no going back,why break up in d first place to become freinds....no way........would only kip u dere to witness my success shikena 1 Like |
| Re: Nairalanders! Is It Right To Be A Bestie With An Ex/exes? by boboLIL(m): 10:41pm On Oct 18, 2014 |
If we ended t on a rough lane,,,issoryt... |
| Re: Nairalanders! Is It Right To Be A Bestie With An Ex/exes? by Tarteenah: 11:05pm On Oct 18, 2014 |
| Re: Nairalanders! Is It Right To Be A Bestie With An Ex/exes? by Tarteenah: 11:07pm On Oct 18, 2014 |
manutdadex:Personally, I think maturity has nothing to do with things of the heart! |
| Re: Nairalanders! Is It Right To Be A Bestie With An Ex/exes? by Tarteenah: 11:09pm On Oct 18, 2014 |
Bootybuttchic:Oshey, it hz always been like dis! Oshey! |
| Re: Nairalanders! Is It Right To Be A Bestie With An Ex/exes? by Vivly(f): 11:09pm On Oct 18, 2014 |
| Re: Nairalanders! Is It Right To Be A Bestie With An Ex/exes? by Tarteenah: 11:10pm On Oct 18, 2014 |
CuteMaro:U better flee! (that's if u feel nothing for her tho) |
| Re: Nairalanders! Is It Right To Be A Bestie With An Ex/exes? by Sarimah(f): 11:18pm On Oct 18, 2014 |
No way...my ex is in my past! |
| Re: Nairalanders! Is It Right To Be A Bestie With An Ex/exes? by chibwike(m): 11:24pm On Oct 18, 2014 |
I dont knw |
| Re: Nairalanders! Is It Right To Be A Bestie With An Ex/exes? by manutdadex(m): 11:35pm On Oct 18, 2014 |
Tarteenah:maturity is nt abt age but takin a decision and b able to live wit it or by it. |
| Re: Nairalanders! Is It Right To Be A Bestie With An Ex/exes? by tosyne2much(m): 11:35pm On Oct 18, 2014 |
Bootybuttchic:well, it depends on the circumstance that surrounded the break-up but nevertheless, I think it's only a shallow minded person that thinks all exes should be thrown in the bin.. Should we always throw our exes in the bin just because another person has occupied the vacuum space ? You sound as if you the circumstance that surround the break-up was at a gun point |
| Re: Nairalanders! Is It Right To Be A Bestie With An Ex/exes? by urcutecrush(f): 11:54pm On Oct 18, 2014 |
Oh i keep in contact with my ex we do ocassional chat,calls and all .if the break up is recent then u guyz can delude yourselves and say we are besties that is if no s£x is involed but with time each parties move on.its gud being friends mind u if no s£x involved but being besties is just anoda cute way of saying friends with benefit |
| Re: Nairalanders! Is It Right To Be A Bestie With An Ex/exes? by Juliaann(f): 3:29am On Oct 19, 2014 |
No never! 2 Likes |
| Re: Nairalanders! Is It Right To Be A Bestie With An Ex/exes? by Kunleskey(m): 7:25am On Oct 19, 2014 |
If I don't c any value in her i will rather let go of her.... If i really c any tangible reason to be her frd y nt.. |
| Re: Nairalanders! Is It Right To Be A Bestie With An Ex/exes? by Bootybuttchic(f): 7:49am On Oct 19, 2014 |
tosyne2much:and i think its a shallow person that wants people to support their opinion.....gun point or not,break up is break up,except u people dint love urself dat much,but me i wouldnt have anything to do with my ex,there is a reason why there werent and shouldnt be there.....my own opinion pls |
| Re: Nairalanders! Is It Right To Be A Bestie With An Ex/exes? by Bootybuttchic(f): 7:49am On Oct 19, 2014 |
Tarteenah:  |
| Re: Nairalanders! Is It Right To Be A Bestie With An Ex/exes? by tosyne2much(m): 8:38am On Oct 19, 2014 |
Bootybuttchic:Alryt ma |
| Re: Nairalanders! Is It Right To Be A Bestie With An Ex/exes? by Nobody: 10:49am On Oct 19, 2014 |
Sarimah:so u even get ex,no p ,sarimah ,I dream say we marry. |
| Re: Nairalanders! Is It Right To Be A Bestie With An Ex/exes? by Sarimah(f): 10:57am On Oct 19, 2014 |
Unibenstudent:dream well well... |
| Re: Nairalanders! Is It Right To Be A Bestie With An Ex/exes? by mizmeme(f): 10:58am On Oct 19, 2014 |
Yes |
| Re: Nairalanders! Is It Right To Be A Bestie With An Ex/exes? by Lordabas: 11:06am On Oct 19, 2014 |
Is there a law that says its wrong? sometimes you just become such a big part of each others lives it's hard to just cut them out of ur life especially if you started out as friends  1 Like |
| Re: Nairalanders! Is It Right To Be A Bestie With An Ex/exes? by Nobody: 12:19pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
Sarimah:so u dontt care to know how we did the wedding? |
| Re: Nairalanders! Is It Right To Be A Bestie With An Ex/exes? by Nobody: 2:15pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
Sarimah: Helo friend am folowin you puuhlease folow me bak. Am nt folowing you cos of your a*s o. Just that am recruiting friends to build a kinda friend cliq on NL And am recruitin only the best and i kinda love your coments. |
| Re: Nairalanders! Is It Right To Be A Bestie With An Ex/exes? by Chubhie: 3:22pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
You have to learn how to move on.but, it also depends on how matured both individuals are and if being friends will lead to old habits by all means, make a clean break. There are over 3billion humans on this earth so, detach, detox- physically,emotionally, psychically in a ritualised fashion so you make proper room for what's incoming. |
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