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Cure To A Broken Heart! by Naslala(m): 5:03pm On Aug 03, 2006
Why cry?Why decide to take it out on every other person you come across?The secret i want to let you know bout a broken heart is that i goes deeper and hurts more because you want it to,hey forget him or her afterall he or she didn't create you,move on,its your life,its your world at least you have now realised that you were both fantasing over something that never existed!U were never meant to be and you might start asking your self why you fell so cheap.The secret to a great relationship is to grow up in love 2gether,learn to accept each others flaw,and don't go around discussing your love affairs with your friends cos they might worsen some situations.he\she is your most loved flower the way you water and take care of it is the way it will grow and bloom to your satisfaction don't be so anxious to find love,it will come to you just pray that you would recognise it when you feel it.Enjoy!!

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Re: Cure To A Broken Heart! by Busta(f): 5:08pm On Aug 03, 2006
is this a cure to broken heart cos i need one but
it is more a tip to a successful relationship! sad
Re: Cure To A Broken Heart! by PTBNaija(f): 8:13pm On Aug 03, 2006
Stuff that I would use:

1.) Food (but just not too much)
2.) Movies
3.) Music
4.) Jogging (clears my mind, and the endorphins from it don't hurt)
5.) Writing your feelings about it down

#3 and #5 are probably the best bets, those help me when I'm feeling sad. Hope that helps undecided
Re: Cure To A Broken Heart! by iice(f): 7:46am On Aug 04, 2006
There was a thread on this awhile back, I have never experienced this, but here's what i think, find something 2 occupy ur mind most of the day, spend time with the ppl u knw love u (Family, friends) so u dont feel like ur totally unloved(Some ppl think that way) As PTBNaija said, music and having a journal, it will help u progress in the healing also it helps give a clearer perspective.
Re: Cure To A Broken Heart! by Adetutu211(f): 3:21pm On Jan 30, 2007
Keep away from the other person and with time the pain will lessen also try and cut all forms of communications that will really help
Re: Cure To A Broken Heart! by Maneater1(f): 4:35pm On Jan 30, 2007
The cure to a broken heart is getting a re-bound guy/chic.

theres nothing better than having someone to hang out with that is giving you alot of attention to take your mind off the hurt of an ex.

I dont mean jump in bed with the person as that will only make you feel empty and dirty and the satisfaction from that does not last.
You need someone who cares about u and will be your best buddy. and it doesnt hurt to be attracted to this other person.
Maybe a few kisses here and there but not goin to bed.
Re: Cure To A Broken Heart! by seunwiz: 6:35pm On Jan 30, 2007
just let ur hair down,free ur mind n throw some makeup on n FLIRT , FLIRT, FLIRT kiss
Re: Cure To A Broken Heart! by amaikama(m): 5:26pm On Jun 17, 2008
Just take a glass of water and go to sleep and when you wake up you will feel much better than before.

Try it, it works.
Re: Cure To A Broken Heart! by gabelogan(m): 10:39pm On Jun 17, 2008
CURE TO A BROKEN HEART??

SEE A DOCTOR, HE'LL PRESCRIBE THE MEDICATION FOR U
Re: Cure To A Broken Heart! by whitelexi(m): 10:52pm On Jun 17, 2008
The greatest cure to a broken heart is to go out dressed to kill with money in your pockets, enough confidence whether or not u spend it!
U will forget the misfortune very fast when u are in a position to choose from a variety of females who will replace the evicted housemate grin
Re: Cure To A Broken Heart! by Esss(m): 10:57pm On Jun 17, 2008
Cure to a broken heart for me;

1. Cry my eyes/heart the Bleep out. It's the first and most important step.
2. Smoke weed and drink myself to stupor
3. Pass-out and wake up hung over
4. Call up my home boys, life goes on.
Re: Cure To A Broken Heart! by HRhotness(f): 10:59pm On Jun 17, 2008
My cure for a broken heart

~ Fall inlove with yourself, get a kiiler new look, go out, flirt and have a good time. . .  have meaninless sex on your terms (note that this option is not for the faint hearted  grin)

~ Hook up with your girlfriends and have man bashing sleep overs, girly nights out and make overs.

~ keep busy, don't give yourself time to think or dwell, have as much retail therapy as u need, a sexy pair of heels can mend a broken heart in my book.

~ get more aggressive with men and ask for what u want, it'll feel soooo good when u see how impressed they are, walk over to the cute guy next door and ask him out on a date
Re: Cure To A Broken Heart! by tope2000(f): 11:00pm On Jun 17, 2008
I hear you
Re: Cure To A Broken Heart! by Nobody: 11:02pm On Jun 17, 2008
@Hotness
Let me write this down o. . .
Re: Cure To A Broken Heart! by Esss(m): 11:05pm On Jun 17, 2008
HR.hotness:

My cure for a broken heart

~ Fall inlove with yourself, get a kiiler new look, go out, flirt and have a good time. . . have meaninless sex on your terms (note that this option is not for the faint hearted grin)

~ Hook up with your girlfriends and have man bashing sleep overs, girly nights out and make overs.

~ keep busy, don't give yourself time to think or dwell, have as much retail therapy as u need, a sexy pair of heels can mend a broken heart in my book.

~ get more aggressive with men and ask for what u want, it'll feel soooo good when u see how impressed they are, walk over to the cute guy next door and ask him out on a date

DAMN!!! I'm lovin these points
Re: Cure To A Broken Heart! by HRhotness(f): 11:06pm On Jun 17, 2008
4Her:

@Hotness
Let me write this down o. . .

My dear I've been thru that shit so many times, i'm an old pro  grin



@ post

~ take pole dancing lessons, a quick way to burn fat plus u feel sexy as hell, if not learn salsa or some other latin dances, they make a woman feel sexy
Re: Cure To A Broken Heart! by Nobody: 11:09pm On Jun 17, 2008
If I might add. . .Flirt!
Flirting without any intentions. . .
Re: Cure To A Broken Heart! by tope2000(f): 11:10pm On Jun 17, 2008
another good point
Re: Cure To A Broken Heart! by onyinye2(f): 11:19pm On Jun 17, 2008
Well yesterday i had my heart broken so this is what helped me get through it
1. My music
i pulled out my Tupac and started jamming. it cleared my head and i let the beats and rhymes flow through my head.

2. Work out
I ran two miles on the track to clear my head. when i run i forget anything that is around me and let my mind run and heart speak. Them i went to my belly dance class and it put my mind into a different perspective.

3. My mirror
i stared at myself for a long time. this helps because i see the pain im in and it makes me remember who i truly am.

4. Acceptance
When i finally accepted the fact why my heart was hurting. By understanding this i was able to calm down to help myself find a solution to the problem that would make me happy.
Re: Cure To A Broken Heart! by tope2000(f): 11:24pm On Jun 17, 2008
onyinye2:

Well yesterday i had my heart broken so this is what helped me get through it
1. My music
i pulled out my Tupac and started jamming. it cleared my head and i let the beats and rhymes flow through my head.

2. Work out
I ran two miles on the track to clear my head. when i run i forget anything that is around me and let my mind run and heart speak. Them i went to my belly dance class and it put my mind into a different perspective.

3. My mirror
i stared at myself for a long time. this helps because i see the pain im in and it makes me remember who i truly am.

4. Acceptance
When i finally accepted the fact why my heart was hurting. By understanding this i was able to calm down to help myself find a solution to the problem that would make me happy.


Tell aunty tope wat happened
Re: Cure To A Broken Heart! by onyinye2(f): 11:30pm On Jun 17, 2008
tope2000:

Tell aunty tope what happened

well long story short, me and my bf had a fight that was pretty bad. we were both hurt. but we made up. and lets just say we had a fun time making up. lol. it was a pretty romantic night.
Re: Cure To A Broken Heart! by tope2000(f): 11:31pm On Jun 17, 2008
onyinye2:

well long story short, me and my boyfriend had a fight that was pretty bad. we were both hurt. but we made up. and lets just say we had a fun time making up. lol. it was a pretty romantic night.
making up is alwayz the best part grin grin
Re: Cure To A Broken Heart! by HRhotness(f): 11:36pm On Jun 17, 2008
onyinye2:

well long story short, me and my boyfriend had a fight that was pretty bad. we were both hurt. but we made up. and lets just say we had a fun time making up. lol. it was a pretty romantic night.

That doesnt count as heart break

Heart break is when ur boyfriend who u've loved and trusted for 3 yrs suddenly turns on u and says the most horrible things to u, hits u and then walks out. . .  .

heartbreak is finding out your boyfriend has been sleeping with your best friends for 3 months and u've had o idea

heartbreak is when ur boyfriend, after 5yrs of bliss, calls u up out of the blue and tells u its over, no explanations, no fights, nothin. . . .  and cuts himself off from u completely. leaving u shocked, confused and alone
Re: Cure To A Broken Heart! by onyinye2(f): 11:38pm On Jun 17, 2008
tope2000:

making up is alwayz the best part grin grin

well yes and no. It was fun making up!!! but the next morning i had a huge hickey on the side of my neck. and no matter what i did i couldnt conceal it. so when i went to practice, my coach noticed it and was furious. i had to do an hour worth of punishment. but it was worth it. grin grin

@hotnes
heartbreak means different things to different people.
Re: Cure To A Broken Heart! by Nobody: 11:39pm On Jun 17, 2008
onyinye2:

@hotnes
heartbreak means different things to different people.
plz explain. .
Re: Cure To A Broken Heart! by HRhotness(f): 11:40pm On Jun 17, 2008
onyinye2:


@hotnes
heartbreak means different things to different people.

Just so u know,

don't go using terms like that, u have no idea what heartbreak feels like. . . wldnt wish it on anyone and i'm sure u wldnt want to knw what it feels like
Re: Cure To A Broken Heart! by Nobody: 11:43pm On Jun 17, 2008
HR.hotness:

Just so u know,

don't go using terms like that, u have no idea what heartbreak feels like. . . wldnt wish it on anyone and i'm sure u wldnt want to knw what it feels like
hon, it's ok smiley
Re: Cure To A Broken Heart! by onyinye2(f): 11:45pm On Jun 17, 2008
@hotness
well to you that is what heartbreak is because that is probably how you experienced or something. but to me that was heartbreak because well it was my fault of what happened to us the other day. and i had to deal with that because im not use to being wrong. and yeah im quick at the mouth. so i had to deal with what i did and wonder if i just throw away the one good thing in my life. You might be reading this and thinking that i have no idea what your version of heartbreak is, but this is mine. undecided
Re: Cure To A Broken Heart! by Nobody: 11:47pm On Jun 17, 2008
come why all dis argument sef ,i tot heartbreak is wen somebody breaks ur heart,whether with hammer ooooo or watever undecided

una too like argument
Re: Cure To A Broken Heart! by HRhotness(f): 11:48pm On Jun 17, 2008
heart break has no versions, .  it simply is!

you had a fight, u had to swallow ur words, ur ego got a bruising, thats it!

it seems u like throwing terms around, have fun, u'll soon learn
Re: Cure To A Broken Heart! by onyinye2(f): 11:49pm On Jun 17, 2008
HR.hotness:

heart break has no versions, . it simply is!

you had a fight, u had to swallow your words, your ego got a bruising, thats it!

it seems u like throwing terms around, have fun, u'll soon learn

whatever you say hotness
Re: Cure To A Broken Heart! by HRhotness(f): 11:51pm On Jun 17, 2008
jennykadry:

come why all this argument sef ,i tot heartbreak is when somebody breaks your heart,whether with hammer ooooo or watever undecided

una too like argument

who like arguement? u know me na jenny

no mind this pikin oh, coming to debase things that grown women hav gone thru, comparing it to silly fights with her boyfriend

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