Good day room! Compliment of the day!
Sometime ago I posted a topic regarding my wife and her attitude towards from her family. It did not end there, the family of the girl and her self had to proclaim aloud that I am not the father of the child. They even went further to announce it both in the police station and before my families. My parent concluded that I should let go of them and the child since they have found as new father of the boy who they claim is richer than me.
Not long, they man decided to abandone them insisting that he can't go on in such madness. He looked for me to appologise for what they conspired against me. I told the man that I have forgiven him but as long as I live both in death and life, I will not have anythin to do with the lady and the child including any member of her family.
After a while, the lady started calling me on phone, but I don't pick her calls because I have peace and rest of mind in my new world and wont want any more problems in my life.
As a result of my redundancy, she decided sending text messages to me,  her last message read thus "Austin the women u are meeting are not better than me. u kant even call to ask of ur son"!
Well, I think I don't want sentimentality to lead me astray any more since she concluded and even signed in the police station that the child is not mine and now coming back to blab. Should I report back to the station or just forget about the madness for life. But one thing still remain certain, I still have strong feeling for my SON. But allowing their wickedness take me back to my past misrable life.
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Dear Austin,

I will advise u like my broda.

One thing is 4 sure, ur son is still ur son.

Pls don't take that woman back in ur life. A woman like that, cn kill u.

But, be a father to your son.

What does our heavenly father do 4 us? Do it 4 him.

Provide for him. Make arrangements to have him, if u cn, every weekend. Get to know him. This baby is innocent and was nt asked 2 be born by both of u. Don't punish him 4 his mother's mistakes.

Forgive ur wife so that, u cn move on with ur life.

If u don't forgive, unforgiveness tends to hold people in bondage and u might miss a good woman. Cuz u r still thinking all women r like ur wife.

To d women that, give ur children to d wrong father, there are consequences waiting 4 u in d future. It is one of d worst things u cn do 2 a man. U r laughing now but wait, we will c.

Austin, I pray God will heal ur wounds & give u d flesh of ur flesh and bones of ur bones. Amen!

before you go back and take the boy back go back to the police where she sign that you are not the father and report first, then take back your son , how old is he?,and if you are still single, go and re-marry that will help you forget the past but you have to pray very well for God to give you the right woman,pray by your self, and tell G od what you want, and b/live he will do it for you, GOOD LUCK

like abujabks s said,you cant deny or neglect your son on account of his mother's behaviour,the boy will never forgive you if you do so as the mother will have all the opportunity to poison his heart against you,ill advice you to act matured and dont let whatever she has done get in the way of you seeing your son being in his life, try and arrange weekend and holiday visits and under no circumstance should you rise to the bait if she tries putting you in an uncompromising position i.e the child wants you to sleep over or think of the child and let us get back or the child telling you he wants daddy to get back with mummy as she might teach him to say sturvs like that good luck man

All the advices u have heard befor mine are parfect, u just have to take ur little angel back, he needs u more than u know.

what will be bad is if u continue to ignore him becos of his mother, he knows nothing and can't take a decision of his own for now.

sure u can have another kid with another woman but no kid can take his place as nature demands.
But another woman can for sure take the place of ur wife.

So please think for him and him alone, try to forgive ur wife and forge ahead.

if taking ur son back will lead to ur death forget him and face a new world

let the boy be a big boy and explain to him make him have evidence when he is matured enough

forget about the ur ex-wife

but sometimes ur old memory will want to make u go back to her but dont try it control ur self

be cool i think all the advice on this thread is cool for u

my man,your son is your son.he is your seed.claim him even if it will cost your life but for your wife--uuuummmmmn no comment

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U've gotten alot of wise word from most of the posters already,. . . . . . .

I really understand how tough, and frustrating this must be for u, . . . . . .

and it isn't essentially what you would want to spend the rest of your life battling, having said that,

there is an innocent little child involved here, whatever you decide to do please let it be in the child's best intrest.

Good luck to you.

I really feel sorry for your son.

Austine, There is need to cater for your son.  But before you do that, it is my candid advise that you get a real wife.  Somebody to love and cherish and who will do likewise.  This advice stems from the fact that your former wife intends to come back and will stop at nothing until she does that.  If you replace her; then there will not be any room for you to think of taking her back.
Please brother, get a wife first before thinking of taking your son back.

I appreciate your concern, mature and brotherly/sisterly talk.Infact, You are all God's voice. Thanks alot and may you find anything that comes your way easy, May u also never encounter what I encountered! Remain Blessed! I LOVE U ALL!!!

a woman that denied you,will do that over and over again,pls take care of your baby,marry another wife and may god bless you.

The child is yours just take your child back and let her be don't ever accept such woman back because she will do something worse in the future and as for the family avoid them totally makes sure you report back to the station for her say the truth there and let it be in writing with a legal backing so she won't try what she did next time.