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I Lack Self-confidence. Why? by Daughterzion(f): 6:24am On Nov 06, 2014
This has been my major problem especially among guys. Sometimes when i see a handsome guy that i like i would not even think of him talking 2 me because i feel he may not want 2 associate with someone lile me since i know that there must be some much more better girls who like him and i can never think of him even lukin at my direction. Is this nrmal? Plx i need help
Re: I Lack Self-confidence. Why? by Nobody: 6:26am On Nov 06, 2014
My dear its normal...... Can u speak in public gatherins...i mean to giv a talk
Re: I Lack Self-confidence. Why? by pasqal09: 6:26am On Nov 06, 2014
Hmmm, then you are lacking self esteem
Re: I Lack Self-confidence. Why? by Daughterzion(f): 6:46am On Nov 06, 2014
Cutehector4u:
My dear its normal...... Can u speak in public gatherins...i mean to giv a talk
yes brother i can but i make sure i do not look at my crush when doin dat. Am an expert in dat
Re: I Lack Self-confidence. Why? by Daughterzion(f): 6:47am On Nov 06, 2014
pasqal09:
Hmmm, then you are lacking self esteem
is there any solution plx
Re: I Lack Self-confidence. Why? by Nobody: 6:49am On Nov 06, 2014
Daughterzion:
yes brother i can but i make sure i do not look at my crush when doin dat. Am an expert in dat
lol dats cool.. Wel as for dat too, it happens t me buh i just ignore d feelin... I knw dah i can talk to any girl i want to if only i am very interested in her...
Re: I Lack Self-confidence. Why? by Daughterzion(f): 6:51am On Nov 06, 2014
Cutehector4u:
lol dats cool.. Wel as for dat too, it happens t me buh i just ignore d feelin... I knw dah i can talk to any girl i want to if only i am very interested in her...
lol u re lucky then. As for me i can never
Re: I Lack Self-confidence. Why? by Nobody: 6:58am On Nov 06, 2014
Daughterzion:
lol u re lucky then. As for me i can never
lol..thr was this girl i used to like in the past, she was crushin on me and i was crushin on her but we neva told each other...we wr so afraid of wat would be the outcome..nd we neva told ourselves...but we wr frnds ooo..very close frnds... Den one fine day, we decided to do a truth or dare game, den i asked her, who was her first crush, she stated my name in capital letters,...i was so dumbfounded...i ddnt knw wat to say again...i even told her dsame and we just laffed at our stupidity and dullings....buh we hav gone our seperate ways....we knew dat if we wr togeda, we would hav made a very good couple....we ddnt hav any oda option dan to let go
Re: I Lack Self-confidence. Why? by merit12(f): 7:01am On Nov 06, 2014
My dear It sometimes like that

But you know?no one can intimidate you except you encourage them.

First love your self..

Smile and laugh when possible(free your self)

Let people see happiness in you

Enjoy your life like no ones business,be confident.

Go to places ,meet people

Try starting a convo with neigbour,friends.maybe stranger sometimes. By asking a questions that can lead to other

Maybe in a bus
You - excuse me bros,please how much is the bus charging?
Him- if he reply
You - but don't you think it is expensive

Him. Reply
Then you find words to continue before you know .you have a perfect art of convo


Learn to be polite also
Say please,thank,etc when possible.

Work on this

I will be giving you more tips
Are you black?

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Re: I Lack Self-confidence. Why? by Suresh08: 7:04am On Nov 06, 2014
Read ''the ultimate secret of total self-confidence by robert anthony''
Re: I Lack Self-confidence. Why? by Daughterzion(f): 7:06am On Nov 06, 2014
merit12:
My dear It sometimes like that

But you know?no one can intimidate you except you encourage them.

First love your self..

Smile and laugh when possible(free your self)

Let people see happiness in you

Enjoy your life like no ones business,be confident.

Go to places ,meet people

Try starting a convo with neigbour,friends.maybe stranger sometimes. By asking a questions that can lead to other

Maybe in a bus
You - excuse me bros,please how much is the bus charging?
Him- if he reply
You - but don't you think it is expensive

Him. Reply
Then you find words to continue before you know .you have a perfect art of convo


Learn to be polite also
Say please,thank,etc when possible.

Work on this

I will be giving you more tips
Are you black?
aunty thanks a lowt i will try sha but dats goin 2 b hard cos am an introvert. Wel am d chocolate beauty type of gal

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Re: I Lack Self-confidence. Why? by brightballer(m): 7:07am On Nov 06, 2014
merit12:
My dear It sometimes like that

But you know?no one can intimidate you except you encourage them.

First love your self..

Smile and laugh when possible(free your self)

Let people see happiness in you

Enjoy your life like no ones business,be confident.

Go to places ,meet people

Try starting a convo with neigbour,friends.maybe stranger sometimes. By asking a questions that can lead to other

Maybe in a bus
You - excuse me bros,please how much is the bus charging?
Him- if he reply
You - but don't you think it is expensive

Him. Reply
Then you find words to continue before you know .you have a perfect art of convo


Learn to be polite also
Say please,thank,etc when possible.

Work on this

I will be giving you more tips
Are you black?
She is not black, Ma


Seriously, you are VERY dark and I love the way you like your skin color. Hey daughterzion, that's some confidence!
Re: I Lack Self-confidence. Why? by Daughterzion(f): 7:08am On Nov 06, 2014
Cutehector4u:
lol..thr was this girl i used to like in the past, she was crushin on me and i was crushin on her but we neva told each other...we wr so afraid of wat would be the outcome..nd we neva told ourselves...but we wr frnds ooo..very close frnds... Den one fine day, we decided to do a truth or dare game, den i asked her, who was her first crush, she stated my name in capital letters,...i was so dumbfounded...i ddnt knw wat to say again...i even told her dsame and we just laffed at our stupidity and dullings....buh we hav gone our seperate ways....we knew dat if we wr togeda, we would hav made a very good couple....we ddnt hav any oda option dan to let go
dats my main problem i my have feelings for him bt i wil never tink he has for me cos i cnt cmpare 2 the gals afwta him
Re: I Lack Self-confidence. Why? by Daughterzion(f): 7:09am On Nov 06, 2014
brightballer:
She is not black, Ma


Seriously, you are VERY dark and I love the way you like your skin color. Hey daughterzion, that's some confidence!
wich type of confidence
Re: I Lack Self-confidence. Why? by Nobody: 7:10am On Nov 06, 2014
Daughterzion:
dats my main problem i my have feelings for him bt i wil never tink he has for me cos i cnt cmpare 2 the gals afwta him
lol den stop thinkn abt girls dat dont exist....
Re: I Lack Self-confidence. Why? by Daughterzion(f): 7:10am On Nov 06, 2014
Suresh08:
Read ''the ultimate secret of total self-confidence by robert anthony''
i have read mst of wthose buks bt am stil dsame
Re: I Lack Self-confidence. Why? by passionate88: 7:10am On Nov 06, 2014
Thank God o... So girls also feel this way too?. Wow.
Re: I Lack Self-confidence. Why? by Daughterzion(f): 7:11am On Nov 06, 2014
Cutehector4u:
lol den stop thinkn abt girls dat dont exist....
i knw there must be
Re: I Lack Self-confidence. Why? by Daughterzion(f): 7:12am On Nov 06, 2014
passionate88:
Thank God o... So girls also feel this way too?. Wow.
dawts for gals who have low self esteem
Re: I Lack Self-confidence. Why? by Emmysteve(m): 7:12am On Nov 06, 2014
merit12:
My dear It sometimes like that

But you know?no one can intimidate you except you encourage them.

First love your self..

Smile and laugh when possible(free your self)

Let people see happiness in you

Enjoy your life like no ones business,be confident.

Go to places ,meet people

Try starting a convo with neigbour,friends.maybe stranger sometimes. By asking a questions that can lead to other

Maybe in a bus
You - excuse me bros,please how much is the bus charging?
Him- if he reply
You - but don't you think it is expensive

Him. Reply
Then you find words to continue before you know .you have a perfect art of convo


Learn to be polite also
Say please,thank,etc when possible.

Work on this

I will be giving you more tips
Are you black?
Why do I always find your posts very boring even if you seem to be making sense. I normally skipped your post, don't know the reason.
Re: I Lack Self-confidence. Why? by Nobody: 7:14am On Nov 06, 2014
thought ii was the only one sha... so we're many?
Re: I Lack Self-confidence. Why? by passionate88: 7:15am On Nov 06, 2014
Daughterzion:
dawts for gals who have low self esteem
Re: I Lack Self-confidence. Why? by brightballer(m): 7:18am On Nov 06, 2014
Daughterzion:
wich type of confidence
Baby, u too dey ask kwetion oo...

wetin I mean be say that merit girl dey proud of her color and she no dey feel bad even when dem abuse am for NL.
Re: I Lack Self-confidence. Why? by Daughterzion(f): 7:19am On Nov 06, 2014
yhomz093:
thought ii was the only one sha... so we're many?
u re a guy na
Re: I Lack Self-confidence. Why? by adepiero: 7:20am On Nov 06, 2014
puff weed, take alcohol or just talk to the mirror every morning. one must surely do the trick
Re: I Lack Self-confidence. Why? by Daughterzion(f): 7:20am On Nov 06, 2014
brightballer:
Baby, u too dey ask kwetion oo...

wetin I mean be say that merit girl dey proud of her color and she no dey feel bad even when dem abuse am for NL.
am proud of my colour o
Re: I Lack Self-confidence. Why? by Daughterzion(f): 7:21am On Nov 06, 2014
adepiero:
puff weed, take alcohol or just talk to the mirror every morning. one must surely do the trick
na so u hate me?
Re: I Lack Self-confidence. Why? by pweedyuz(f): 7:22am On Nov 06, 2014
Daughterzion:
dawts for gals who have low self esteem
exactly his point .....
Re: I Lack Self-confidence. Why? by brightballer(m): 7:23am On Nov 06, 2014
Daughterzion:
am proud of my colour o
And she asked if you are black.

Are you?
Re: I Lack Self-confidence. Why? by adepiero: 7:24am On Nov 06, 2014
Daughterzion:
na so u hate me?
I gave you three options. the first two works fast but might have a devastating result while the last one takes time but it works eventually and it has no side effect.

the choice is yours grin
Re: I Lack Self-confidence. Why? by brightballer(m): 7:26am On Nov 06, 2014
pweedyuz:

exactly his point .....
Someone should please wake me up.

Am I dreaming?
Re: I Lack Self-confidence. Why? by pweedyuz(f): 7:28am On Nov 06, 2014
brightballer:
Someone should please wake me up.

Am I dreaming?
*wakes him up*
is it truly a dream??

wat occured?

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