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Why Do Men Hit Their Wives/gf by pearlzy92(f): 9:02am On Nov 08, 2014
Why do men hit their gf's/wives
Re: Why Do Men Hit Their Wives/gf by ijechikky(f): 9:06am On Nov 08, 2014
Anyman dt hits his wife/Gf is a Beast...

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Re: Why Do Men Hit Their Wives/gf by Nobody: 9:11am On Nov 08, 2014
Hitting ur wife/gf is just a waste of energy just leave her in d house wen she's shoutin(guys mak sur ur car keys are in ur hand)if she didn't c anybody to shout wit she we com back to her senses

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Re: Why Do Men Hit Their Wives/gf by SirHouloo(m): 9:15am On Nov 08, 2014
Because they are not sane men.

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Re: Why Do Men Hit Their Wives/gf by xynerise: 9:17am On Nov 08, 2014
Well, I don't

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Re: Why Do Men Hit Their Wives/gf by PANDOGARI: 9:21am On Nov 08, 2014
Not all but some foolish ones among men

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Re: Why Do Men Hit Their Wives/gf by EfemenaXY: 9:33am On Nov 08, 2014
pearlzy92:
Why do men hit their gf's/wives

Full story please.

Why did he hit you? And did you mean to ask some men or all men?

I've never been hit by one though...
Re: Why Do Men Hit Their Wives/gf by pearlzy92(f): 9:42am On Nov 08, 2014
EfemenaXY:


Full story please.

Why did he hit you? And did you mean to ask some men or all men?

I've never been hit by one though...

EfemenaXY:

Full story please.
Why did he hit you? And did you mean to ask some men or all men?
I've never been hit by one though...
It did not happen to me. I went somewhere and while waiting two women close to me were talking and I overheard their conversation. One telling the other to be calm and be patient with her husband. That she should jst endure and be praying he will change
Re: Why Do Men Hit Their Wives/gf by Nobody: 9:47am On Nov 08, 2014
I don't encourage it...
....but some women deserve it.

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Re: Why Do Men Hit Their Wives/gf by EfemenaXY: 9:48am On Nov 08, 2014
pearlzy92:


It did not happen to me. I went somewhere and while waiting two women close to me were talking and I overheard their conversation. One telling the other to be calm and be patient with her husband. That she should jst endure and be praying he will change

Well then, perhaps you should have listened some more to find out what really happened between them, because your question to us on here, is too generic.

Having said that, not all men hit their wives or girlfriends.
Re: Why Do Men Hit Their Wives/gf by pearlzy92(f): 10:03am On Nov 08, 2014
EfemenaXY:


Well then, perhaps you should have listened some more to find out what really happened between them, because your question to us on here, is too generic.

Having said that, not all men hit their wives or girlfriends.
Aii.
Re: Why Do Men Hit Their Wives/gf by Oyodebomide: 10:05am On Nov 08, 2014
Re: Why Do Men Hit Their Wives/gf by pearlzy92(f): 10:10am On Nov 08, 2014
Justosaus:
I don't encourage it...
....but some women deserve it.
I dnt think anyone deserves it no matter what
Re: Why Do Men Hit Their Wives/gf by ogaofficer(m): 10:14am On Nov 08, 2014
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Re: Why Do Men Hit Their Wives/gf by Nobody: 10:16am On Nov 08, 2014
Op, Not all men hit their wives/girlfriends. The ones that do were either brought up in violent/dysfunctional families where their fathers would hit their mothers or are not mentally o.k in the head or were not properly trained and have no control over their tempers/emotions. In the end, we ladies have been given the power of choice; to make good choices of the men we date/marry. Any woman who allows such abuse should be ready to die.

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Re: Why Do Men Hit Their Wives/gf by lilmax(m): 11:37am On Nov 08, 2014
Don't hit a woman, any man that hits his wife or girlfriend is a beast

This is what we see everyday in this section, yet no woman has ever explained what transpired

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Re: Why Do Men Hit Their Wives/gf by selena(f): 4:10am On Nov 09, 2014
Those kind of men are considered weaklings
Re: Why Do Men Hit Their Wives/gf by mcdokwe(m): 8:35am On Nov 09, 2014
pearlzy92:
Why do men hit their gf's/wives
well I once did and will always regret it. Before that fateful day, she used to brag that I don't hit her and I had always wanted to keep a clean sheet. Well a lot got into her head and she was bent on getting me frustrated, I tried leaving the house but she bolted the door and stood on my way out. Everything happened so fast in my bid to get her under control and the rest is history. Needless to say we made up the hours later and the sex that followed was great, but I wish I wasn't at home that day.

I think women cause over 90% of home related violence, when a man decides not to, they have their way of pushing him. You ladies can help us. I also know there are guys who see it as normal to hit the ladies, but then...

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Re: Why Do Men Hit Their Wives/gf by desiree(f): 10:11am On Nov 09, 2014
Sophyrocks:
Op, Not all men hit their wives/girlfriends. The ones that do were either brought up in violent/dysfunctional families where their fathers would hit their mothers or are not mentally o.k in the head or were not properly trained and have no control over their tempers/emotions. In the end, we ladies have been given the power of choice; to make good choices of the men we date/marry. Any woman who allows such abuse should be ready to die.

I agree with you. Men learn violence from their fathers. If a man hit you once and you do nothing to put a stop to it he will hit you again.

Also" boys" claiming to be men that were in cults and street gangs in their past tend to live off this power that can do as they like. They need to be thought a lesson and no woman should put up with such violence.
Re: Why Do Men Hit Their Wives/gf by 5minsmadness: 5:06pm On Nov 09, 2014
ijechikky:
Anyman dt hits his wife/Gf is a Beast...
***rolls eyes****
Here we go again...




Meanwhile: 3 bitterness and guile-free days of staying off family section! cheesy
Yayyy to meeee grin
Re: Why Do Men Hit Their Wives/gf by 5minsmadness: 5:27pm On Nov 09, 2014
lilmax:
Don't hit a woman, any man that hits his wife or girlfriend is a beast

This is what we see everyday in this section, yet no woman has ever explained what transpired
Am telling u my brother.
Na to post self-righteous comments them sabi.
"Any man that does it is a beast"
"Any man that does it is a weakling"


Yet no one will answer the question.

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Re: Why Do Men Hit Their Wives/gf by pearlzy92(f): 6:12pm On Nov 09, 2014
5minsmadness:

Am telling u my brother.
Na to post self-righteous comments them sabi.
"Any man that does it is a beast"
"Any man that does it is a weakling"


Yet no one will answer the question.
I have been trying to figure out the kind of answer u want to hear because irrespective of what the woman does she should nt get hit. And yes women tend to push their husbands too far but I don't think anyone deserves such in this life
Re: Why Do Men Hit Their Wives/gf by undisputedk: 8:04pm On Nov 09, 2014
Because they are animal in human clothing. ;(
Re: Why Do Men Hit Their Wives/gf by undisputedk: 8:10pm On Nov 09, 2014
pearlzy92:

I have been trying to figure out the kind of answer u want to hear because irrespective of what the woman does she should nt get hit. And yes women tend to push their husbands too far but I don't think anyone deserves such in this life

I do always tell my friends; don't say I'LL NEVER HIT MY WIFE, rather say MAY GOD HELP ME NOT TO HIT MY WIFE.
Women can be so frustrating at times, one needs God's help in cases like that.

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Re: Why Do Men Hit Their Wives/gf by pearlzy92(f): 8:19pm On Nov 09, 2014
undisputedk:


I do always tell my friends; don't say I'LL NEVER HIT MY WIFE, rather say MAY GOD HELP ME NOT TO HIT MY WIFE.
Women can be so frustrating at times, one needs God's help in cases like that.
I agree wf u totally
Re: Why Do Men Hit Their Wives/gf by 5minsmadness: 10:09pm On Nov 09, 2014
pearlzy92:

I have been trying to figure out the kind of answer u want to hear because irrespective of what the woman does she should nt get hit. And yes women tend to push their husbands too far but I don't think anyone deserves such in this life
Then the question shouldn't be asked.
The op starts a thread 'why do men hit their wives?' Its a question. If they don't want the answer they can label the thread 'let's abuse men who hit their wives' or something like that instead.
Re: Why Do Men Hit Their Wives/gf by 5minsmadness: 10:11pm On Nov 09, 2014
We go around receiving ourselves that these things shouldn't happen; well they do and the sooner we find out the reason instead of cussing them out the closer we'll get to solving the problem.

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