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Re: There's Nothing Sinful About Having A Caesarean Section! by Kimoni: 6:19pm On Nov 09, 2014
bukatyne:



Lol!

What if it is a Redeemed Church and it is just one branch?

Will you tell your folks to avoid RCCG all together? grin



Then he should tell me the parish naa, cuz personally, I know Redeeem has no such doctrine. Any pastor in Redeem that preaches that C/S is a sin should be reported.
Re: There's Nothing Sinful About Having A Caesarean Section! by dein77(m): 6:54pm On Nov 09, 2014
Kimoni:




Then he should tell me the parish naa, cuz personally, I know Redeeem has no such doctrine. Any pastor in Redeem that preaches that C/S is a sin should be reported.

The aim of this thread isn't actually to name a parish or denomination that sanctions such a message, but to make Christian women aware of what's happening as per this CS matter.

I personally will be very reluctant to bring any parish or denomination into the spotlight for such a thing.

I worship with the RCCG, and I can categorically tell you I haven't heard such doctrine emanating from any RCCG branch.
Re: There's Nothing Sinful About Having A Caesarean Section! by bukatyne(f): 6:55pm On Nov 09, 2014
Kimoni:




Then he should tell me the parish naa, cuz personally, I know Redeeem has no such doctrine. Any pastor in Redeem that preaches that C/S is a sin should be reported.

Kimoni to binu tongue
Re: There's Nothing Sinful About Having A Caesarean Section! by bukatyne(f): 6:57pm On Nov 09, 2014
crackhaus:

That's another problem with the way these churches are run.

Why have so many branches and lose track of themselves?
If they have to open so much, then they should have one officially recognized 'Tenets of Faith' that all the branches/splinters adhere to.

They do
The headquarters pass down the doctrines of the church, it is the choice of others to follow
Re: There's Nothing Sinful About Having A Caesarean Section! by bukatyne(f): 6:58pm On Nov 09, 2014
crackhaus:

Lol...it's indeed in the market. Unfortunately, gullible folks still trust their pastor's interpretations more than any.

The other day it was how one pastor refused to join some couple because the lady didn't dress to his specification, not like she even exposed too much.

I'm like why make a big deal out of it? Just say the darn words and get it over with - 30minutes tops, if looking at the bride too long is what will lead him to hell...Lol.

Lol!
Re: There's Nothing Sinful About Having A Caesarean Section! by Kimoni: 7:14pm On Nov 09, 2014
bukatyne:


Kimoni to binu tongue


Lolllzzzz
Re: There's Nothing Sinful About Having A Caesarean Section! by Nobody: 9:00pm On Nov 09, 2014
Women are the worst enemy of themselves. A friend and I were pregnant and she was due after me. She lost that baby because her mother and her MIL insisted that she shouldn't do CS. The baby was distress and died before delivery. Yet it was CS that was used to bring the baby out. Now she has a second baby, it is still CS she used.

This mindset has killed women since 1914. I have a cuz that won't be caught doing it. I always tell her to pray not to have a high risk pregnancy. I remember what she told me when she came to my bedside after my CS, she said she was angry with me for agreeing to do CS. I almost walked her out but on a second thought I rem my boy and I let it slide.

Come to think of it my baby was distress o and that was the last resort. My contractions has stopped and I had been stooling for more than 12 hours. So what should I have done? I tell anyone who cares to listen that my faith hasn't reach that. If it comes again I will gladly accept. After all safe delivery is mother and child alive.

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Re: There's Nothing Sinful About Having A Caesarean Section! by dein77(m): 9:38pm On Nov 09, 2014
Icherishu:
Women are the worst enemy of themselves. A friend and I were pregnant and she was due after me. She lost that baby because her mother and her MIL insisted that she shouldn't do CS. The baby was distress and died before delivery. Yet it was CS that was used to bring the baby out. Now she has a second baby, it is still CS she used.

This mindset has killed women since 1914. I have a cuz that won't be caught doing it. I always tell her to pray not to have a high risk pregnancy. I remember what she told me when she came to my bedside after my CS, she said she was angry with me for agreeing to do CS. I almost walked her out but on a second thought I rem my boy and I let it slide.

Come to think of it my baby was distress o and that was the last resort. My contractions has stopped and I had been stooling for more than 12 hours. So what should I have done? I tell anyone who cares to listen that my faith hasn't reach that. If it comes again I will gladly accept. After all safe delivery is mother and child alive.

In stupidity she has killed her baby! I hope she had asked God to forgive her murder? Many women are believing God for the fruits of the womb, and then some dumb ones are killing theirs.

By dear, it's not actually a matter of lack of faith; it's application of wisdom.

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Re: There's Nothing Sinful About Having A Caesarean Section! by Nobody: 10:26pm On Nov 09, 2014
dein77:


In stupidity she has killed her baby! I hope she had asked God to forgive her murder? Many women are believing God for the fruits of the womb, and then some dumb ones are killing theirs.

By dear, it's not actually a matter of lack of faith; it's application of wisdom.
Some don't see the wisdom in it and they would want to tempt God. She says it everytime that she can never have CS. That isn't her portion.

I have looked at my own scenario that if I didn't have CS my baby would have died. I was stooling for more than 12 hours and I later started vommiting, that singular act of vomiting put pressure on my uterus and my water broke. Before I could reach the hospital by 6am all forms of contractions has stopped. So tell me will I have been stupid to say I still don't want CS.

I look at my son and forget all what has happened. Apart from the scar on my body that still itches, I am fine and I will do CS all over if the need arises
Re: There's Nothing Sinful About Having A Caesarean Section! by dein77(m): 10:58pm On Nov 09, 2014
Icherishu:

Some don't see the wisdom in it and they would want to tempt God. She says it everytime that she can never have CS. That isn't her portion.

I have looked at my own scenario that if I didn't have CS my baby would have died. I was stooling for more than 12 hours and I later started vommiting, that singular act of vomiting put pressure on my uterus and my water broke. Before I could reach the hospital by 6am all forms of contractions has stopped. So tell me will I have been stupid to say I still don't want CS.

I look at my son and forget all what has happened. Apart from the scar on my body that still itches, I am fine and I will do CS all over if the need arises

Dear, I have two kids, and my have had them both through CS.
Re: There's Nothing Sinful About Having A Caesarean Section! by cococandy(f): 11:50pm On Nov 09, 2014
African women their own worst enemies

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Re: There's Nothing Sinful About Having A Caesarean Section! by bukatyne(f): 8:05am On Nov 10, 2014
Icherishu:
Women are the worst enemy of themselves. A friend and I were pregnant and she was due after me. She lost that baby because her mother and her MIL insisted that she shouldn't do CS. The baby was distress and died before delivery. Yet it was CS that was used to bring the baby out. Now she has a second baby, it is still CS she used.

This mindset has killed women since 1914. I have a cuz that won't be caught doing it. I always tell her to pray not to have a high risk pregnancy. I remember what she told me when she came to my bedside after my CS, she said she was angry with me for agreeing to do CS. I almost walked her out but on a second thought I rem my boy and I let it slide.

Come to think of it my baby was distress o and that was the last resort. My contractions has stopped and I had been stooling for more than 12 hours. So what should I have done? I tell anyone who cares to listen that my faith hasn't reach that. If it comes again I will gladly accept. After all safe delivery is mother and child alive.


What about your friend's husband?

IT is wel
Re: There's Nothing Sinful About Having A Caesarean Section! by edwife(f): 10:03am On Nov 10, 2014
I don't even think it's has to do with churches,people should start using common sense.During pregnancy it is vital for one to be informed and educated.
Re: There's Nothing Sinful About Having A Caesarean Section! by Nobody: 1:43pm On Nov 10, 2014
bukatyne:



What about your friend's husband?

IT is wel
I think the man towed the women's line na. Cos if he didn't he would have stood his ground.
Re: There's Nothing Sinful About Having A Caesarean Section! by Nobody: 2:14pm On Nov 10, 2014
What's their reasoning? When/How did it become a sin? What could they possibly be telling people to scare them so effectively into taking such risks? That their child will be damned, or something? Someone help me out, I don't get it undecided sad

And here I am 95% certain I'll be taking elective CS when I get to that bridge...
Re: There's Nothing Sinful About Having A Caesarean Section! by ohaleoghene(f): 7:36pm On Nov 10, 2014
if it is medically necessary, I do not perceive it as been sinful. God has richly blessed mankind with wisdom to created help for ourselves so why holding back? my sister had her twins,boys through c s. thank God she did, else she and the babies would have Gone is a year now. on that day,the husband didn't want to sign to Cs. he was scared. you will be surprise how educated folks sometimes act like market women. the doctor had to persuade the husband before he sheepishly gave in . now he is glad he did. we for no get twins now o. thank God for science. her own case was that one of the babies was sitting down so no space for the second one to come out cs is not sinful. have heard some folks see blood transfusion as been sinful. stone age folks.
Re: There's Nothing Sinful About Having A Caesarean Section! by dein77(m): 7:17am On Nov 11, 2014
ohaleoghene:
if it is medically necessary, I do not perceive it as been sinful. God has richly blessed mankind with wisdom to created help for ourselves so why holding back? my sister had her twins,boys through c s. thank God she did, else she and the babies would have Gone is a year now. on that day,the husband didn't want to sign to Cs. he was scared. you will be surprise how educated folks sometimes act like market women. the doctor had to persuade the husband before he sheepishly gave in . now he is glad he did. we for no get twins now o. thank God for science. her own case was that one of the babies was sitting down so no space for the second one to come out cs is not sinful. have heard some folks see blood transfusion as been sinful. stone age folks.

Thank God your sister was wise enough to do what was necessary to ensure her safety and that of her kids. We rejoice with her. Children are the best gifts a woman can have!

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