NOTE: This is not intended to cunningly to speak ill of the Man of God. I learnt a lot from it and I felt I should I should share it...

AVOIDING A BAD MARRIAGE.

By Pastor Chris Oyakhilome PhD.

After salvation, the most important choice you will need to make is who to marry.

This choice is so important that if you miss it, you will suffer for long, if you get it right then you will enjoy forever.

A bad marriage can affect every other area of your life.

This subject is so important, so many married people are hoping to be single again so as to make the right choice. If you are single please don't just be in a hurry to get married, you have the best opportunity to prepare for it.

For two people to come together to live in peace and harmony, they must agree spiritually, mentally and physically.

Just like an elephant cannot marry
an ant so also a believer cannot marry an unbeliever. If an elephant marries an ant how would they live, if a goat marries a fish where would they meet?

You must look for a Godly man
or a Godly woman to marry, nothing can beat this.

The devil's primary target is the family. He knows that everyone belongs to a family and if he can make two wrong people meet then he has succeeded affecting the community and nations
negatively.

Ignore your age and the pressure for a
moment, the pressure in a wrong marriage is far worse. God has somebody for you but you must
set your priorities right. What do you need in a woman?

What do you need in a man?
Marriage is not about what you want, it is about who you need, that will make you better while you
make him better. It is about destiny.

That is why you must know your purpose before you get married. Genesis 2:18.

You must pray before you choose. God knows the best person for you, it is only wise to seek His will.

It is very easy to know God's will when sex is not involved. The moment sex is involved and you want to know His will then He will blank you out.

Why? Because you have broken His first Law of NO SEX before marriage.
If you have had sex in the past then you need to repent totally and stay away from each other for
sometime then later come together again.

NOTE: Read My First Sentence.

Rapsainot:
eniti o ba fe dasho fun ni, torun re lakoko woo

Those wey no understand Yoruba nko? Egbon, ko da o.

Lol..when pastor chris resolves his brokenmarriage, den i will read dis... Thnks

Cutehector4u:
Lol..when pastor chris resolves his brokenmarriage, den i will read dis... Thnks

Did you understand the topic at all? "Avoid" means...I've been there, I may not have done it rightly but I've learnt a lesson or two, so, I don't want you to make similar errors...

emusmith:


Did you understand the topic at all? "Avoid" means...I've been there, I may not have done it rightly but I've learnt a lesson or two, so, I don't want you to make similar errors...

excuses... I just dislike d man... Dats all...

Cutehector4u:
excuses... I just dislike d man... Dats all...

It's well!

Am not thinking about marriage anytime soon, so op please do well and find something like "how to avoid a bad girlfriend", that's what I need now but I'll keep this post for future references.

emusmith:


Did you understand the topic at all? "Avoid" means...I've been there, I may not have done it rightly but I've learnt a lesson or two, so, I don't want you to make similar errors...

Plz wat dictionary do u use? Even oxford no define 'avoid' like dis.

damning advice so we should understand why you failed and sympathize with you. seriously mmmmhmh, medicine after death

veegirl:

Plz wat dictionary do u use? Even oxford no define 'avoid' like dis.

I know you're kidding... sha, I am explaining it in "context" of my sentence not a dictionary meaning perse...
I know you understand...

LadyVida:
damning advice so we should understand why you failed and sympathize with you. seriously mmmmhmh, medicine after death

Afrok:
Am not thinking about marriage anytime soon, so op please do well and find something like "how to avoid a bad girlfriend", that's what I need now but I'll keep this post for future references.

There is not a word like "Future".

Future is an accumulated present; meaning, You Future Is Seen From Your Today.

You need that guide, young man!

LadyVida:
damning advice so we should understand why you failed and sympathize with you. seriously mmmmhmh, medicine after death

No mind him jare...

The image on ur d.p looks like a pucciie entrance..

emusmith:


There is not a word like "Future".

Future is an accumulated present; meaning, You Future Is Seen From Your Today.

You need that guide, young man!

ok... Agreed I need the guide and I've read it but I need another guard which is "how to avoid bad girlfriend".

Afrok:
ok... Agreed I need the guide and I've read it but I need another guard which is "how to avoid bad girlfriend".

How to avoid bad girlfriend?
You can't avoid them.

ERCROSS:


No mind him jare...

The image on ur d.p looks like a pucciie entrance..

God bless You.
Next, please.

emusmith:


God bless You.
Next, please.

Bros.. Wetin naa, why u quote me naa

I know sarcasm when I see one

emusmith:

How to avoid bad girlfriend?
You can't avoid them.

Yeah! I understand, thanks...

Afrok:
Yeah! I understand, thanks...

Hope I tried?

emusmith:


Hope I tried?

sure! u even did more than try.

How to avoid a bad marriage: Don't get married...

Fine man pastor. ..meek...the lord said. .shall inherited his Kingdom. ...


Pastor. .u are not meek.

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emusmith:

I know you're kidding... sha, I am explaining it in "context" of my sentence not a dictionary meaning perse...
I know you understand...

Oh! Ok. Now i understand. Lol

Blah blah blah....