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How You Should Treat Your Wife by Nobody: 7:15am On Nov 25, 2014
1) Greet her.

2) Smile at her.

3) Go racing with her and let her win. Later, when she puts on weight, race with her again and win her.

4) Eat from the same plate.

5) Drink from the same place where she places her mouth, and eat from the same place

6 )Put a morsel of food in her mouth.

7) Let her comb your hair.

8. Recite Qur’an, while resting your head on
her lap.

9) Take a ghusl with her from a single container.

10) Teach and advise her in a gentle manner.

11) Honour her friends, even after her death. Send them food from a sacrifice.

12) Call her by pleasing nicknames.

13) Wipe away her tears.

14) Heed her advice.

15) Take her with you on long journeys./vacations/

16) Spend time with her in entertainment, and stay with her until she is satisfied.

17) Let her spend time with her friends.

18) Give her time to adorn herself before going to her for intimacy.

19) Do not go to her in the manner of animals.

20) Make this dua before being intimate with her: Bismillah. Allaahumma jannibnash shaitaan, wa jannibish shaitaana maa razaqtanaa.

21) Wake her up to make salaah at night. If she doesn’t get up, sprinkle water on her face.

22) Convey salams to her from others. Make dua for her.


I always tell my Christian friends something, I tell them that just because someone bears a Muslim name doesn't mean he's a practising Muslim.

Just because he/she recites the Quran doesn't mean he follows its teachings.

Most are ignorant of Islamic knowledge and how to live the day to day life of a Muslim.

Women are pearls and diamonds and worth more than that. They are meant to be treated lightly with care and love.

*These are the teachings of Prophet Muhammed and his way of life*

Reference:

You may go through these books, you will find more light with respect to the above points.

1. The quest for love and mercy (regulations and wedding in islam)

2. Closer than garment (marital intimacy according to
the pure sunnah)

3. The fragile vessels (right and obligation between the spouse in islam)

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Re: How You Should Treat Your Wife by Nobody: 7:31am On Nov 25, 2014
The way you want to be treated. Very simple.
Re: How You Should Treat Your Wife by iconize(m): 7:49am On Nov 25, 2014
The way your dad treats your mum. tongue
Re: How You Should Treat Your Wife by zubby29(m): 7:50am On Nov 25, 2014
though not a muslim but i love dis,its so romantic,i will carry out mst of d instructions,so help me JEHOVAH
Re: How You Should Treat Your Wife by Tallesty1(m): 7:57am On Nov 25, 2014
carefreewannabe:
The way you want to be treated. Very simple.
I know you'd be here.


Good morning

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Re: How You Should Treat Your Wife by Nobody: 8:11am On Nov 25, 2014
carefreewannabe:
The way you want to be treated. Very simple.

Simple. smiley smiley

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Re: How You Should Treat Your Wife by Williamso(m): 9:28am On Nov 25, 2014
carefreewannabe:
The way you want to be treated. Very simple.
Seconded!!!


Number 3 is definitely happening.... grin grin grin

Number 19......... undecided undecided
Re: How You Should Treat Your Wife by Nobody: 9:33am On Nov 25, 2014
carefreewannabe:
The way you want to be treated. Very simple.

if u r a lady u mean u don't want to be treated that way?
Re: How You Should Treat Your Wife by Nobody: 9:34am On Nov 25, 2014
iconize:
The way your dad treats your mum. tongue

u r guessing yeah
Re: How You Should Treat Your Wife by Nobody: 9:37am On Nov 25, 2014
zubby29:
though not a muslim but i love dis,its so romantic,i will carry out mst of d instructions,so help me JEHOVAH

Thanks for appreciating it. u don't av to be a Muslim to carry it out. just leave out the ones u don't practice.

The essence of this post is to show how the prophet of Islam treated his wife and how he commanded us to treat them.
Re: How You Should Treat Your Wife by Nobody: 9:41am On Nov 25, 2014
Williamso:

Seconded!!!


Number 3 is definitely happening.... grin grin grin

Number 19......... undecided undecided

I also fancy number 3.

19 being acting with her manly and not doing the act in an animalistic way. /if u grab what I mean/
Re: How You Should Treat Your Wife by Williamso(m): 9:49am On Nov 25, 2014
Fantasywrita:


I also fancy number 3.

19 being acting with her manly and not doing the act in an animalistic way. /if u grab what I mean/
But some (most) ladies like it in the "manner of animals"...undecided
Re: How You Should Treat Your Wife by Godmystrength: 10:15am On Nov 25, 2014
Fantasywrita:


if u r a lady u mean u don't want to be treated that way?
Is that what you understood from what she said........ undecided
Re: How You Should Treat Your Wife by KanwuliaJara: 10:22am On Nov 25, 2014
Nigerian men get different 'style' o! wink

WUCHE!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s7mtoucTT3o
Re: How You Should Treat Your Wife by Nobody: 10:30am On Nov 25, 2014
Godmystrength:
Is that what you understood from what she said........ undecided

My brother I'm simply asking her a question. I understood her very well....
Re: How You Should Treat Your Wife by Nobody: 10:31am On Nov 25, 2014
Williamso:

But some (most) ladies like it in the "manner of animals"...undecided

Well that's a discussion for another day
Re: How You Should Treat Your Wife by Nobody: 12:43pm On Nov 25, 2014
Tallesty1:
I know you'd be here.


Good morning

Good morning. wink
Re: How You Should Treat Your Wife by Nobody: 12:44pm On Nov 25, 2014
Fantasywrita:


if u r a lady u mean u don't want to be treated that way?

No, I don't want anyone to cite the Quran to me. grin
Re: How You Should Treat Your Wife by activefibre1(m): 1:31pm On Nov 25, 2014
Treat women in two ways....
Be firm most times, but be loving so she will know you care. E don finish....no long tory.
Re: How You Should Treat Your Wife by Nobody: 4:24pm On Nov 26, 2014
carefreewannabe:


No, I don't want anyone to cite the Quran to me. grin

iz that the only one you saw there sad

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