Mothers always discourage their daughters from giving sex out anyhow to the man by telling them, 'why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free'. This comment was meant to dissuade her from sleeping with a potential spouse which will in turn make the guy to speed up the marriage process.

Question:
Guys, will such an injunction make you marry a chic real quick or will you look for an alternative 'intimacy gadget' during the strike?


Ladies:
Did your mother ever tell you the 'why buy the cow thing'?

So true

I doubt it will speed up the process. If anything it's gon' make the average dude want to cheat and/or look for someone else to marry since this one's let her mother control her life.

Depends. If she has other unique qualities that make her very attractive as a potential future mate then no problem, you can always wait to get the milk after u have lawfully purchased your cow.

I doubt it will speed up the process. If anything it's gon' make the average dude want to cheat and/or look for someone else to marry since this one's let her mother control her life.

So you recommend she keep dishing it out like jollof rice?. Why buy the cow then, Steve?

DavidDylan:

Depends. If she has other unique qualities that make her very attractive as a potential future mate then no problem, you can always wait to get the milk after u have lawfully purchased your cow.

Exactamundo!

RedHotChic:

So you recommend she keep dishing it out like jollof rice?. Why buy the cow then, Steve?

Does good jollof even get dished anyhow nowadays?!

Depends. If she has other unique qualities that make her very attractive as a potential future mate then no problem, you can always wait to get the milk after u have lawfully purchased your cow.

Good, so why buy the cow strike will work for you perfectly fine?. One good man in the house.

@ topic

They say it all the time but at the end of the day it's up to you to decide what to do.

RedHotChic:

Good, so why buy the cow strike will work for you perfectly fine?. One good man in the house.

there are cows and then there ARE cows . . . question is which one did you bag?

RedHotChic:

So you recommend she keep dishing it out like jollof rice?. Why buy the cow then, Steve?

No, I'm just saying she shouldn't cut him off totally. Let him have a taste of what's to come . . . somewhat like a test drive.

@ topic

They say it all the time but at the end of the day it's up to you to decide what to do.

But do you really think that withholding sex can make men speed up the marriage process?

I agree with it to an extent.
If the only thing good about is the sex and you get that all the time, there's no need to marry her. If a woman has much more to offer including companionship, good food, and brains. Then yeah, you better purchase the cow.

I agree with the poster, there's no need buying what you can have for free. Girls ought to be stingy with their bodies.

there are cows and then there ARE cows . . . question is which one did you bag?

malu is malu as long as it can produce milk.

crazykid:

I agree with the poster, there's no need buying what you can have for free. Girls ought to be stingy with their bodies.

I am keeping this for future reference. . . it came out of an NL guy. LOL! Thank Goodness.

RedHotChic:

But do you really think that withholding sex can make men speed up the marriage process?

If a man wants to marry you he'll do so even if you were the worst element on earth. Men are quite irrational sometimes that you ask: what the hell?

Even though you withhold sex, he might marry you sex, but what else do you have to offer after the wedding night?

Sex isn't the only thing in marriage. Besides pussy full ground.

No, I'm just saying she shouldn't cut him off totally. Let him have a taste of what's to come . . . somewhat like a test drive

Do you have a limit for this test driving?. If he aint ready to pay the full price for the car, he should better park in in the lot till the price is paid.

If a man wants to marry you he'll do so even if you were the worst element on earth. Men are quite irrational sometimes that you ask: what the hell? Grin

Even though you withhold sex, he might marry you sex, but what else do you have to offer after the wedding night?

Sex isn't the only thing in marriage. [size=14pt]Besides pussy full ground.[/size]

I disagree with the bolded. Pussy no full ground. Its the likes of Hannibal that are using that reverse psychology to make women feel worthless.

I think the new lingo should be dads telling their sons: Why buy the mugu when she can get your money for free? .

Refer to McCrackles(Male) statement below:

Does good jollof even get dished anyhow nowadays?!

_{Dude is obviously in pussy famine contrary to what you said.}

@j-girl. Its the truth.

RedHotChic:

I disagree with the bolded. Pussy no full ground. [size=15pt]Its the likes of Hannibal that are using that reverse psychology to make women feel worthless[/size].

I think the new lingo should be dads telling their sons: Why buy the mugu when she can get your money for free? .

Sorry but that's the truth. A man can't love you just because of your pussy because them dey everywhere. This is a fact and it's high time you stuck it into your head.

Sorry but that's the truth. A man can't love you just because of your pussy because them dey everywhere. This is a fact and it's high time you stuck it into your head.

Thats not the issue and thats not what i am implying but the crux of the matter is whether he will speed up the marriage process if you withold sex assuming every other possible conditions are ideal or will he still walk at his own pace sex starved or not?

Point of correction:

Pussy is scarce nowadays.

RedHotChic:

Do you have a limit for this test driving?. If he aint ready to pay the full price for the car, he should better park in in the lot till the price is paid.

She is the one who should know the limits. . . the meter maid. Keep me waiting but don't tell me no every time. What is it? The sign then drive offer?

She is the one who should know the limits. . . the meter maid. Keep me waiting but don't tell me no every time. What is it? The sign then drive offer?

Better still, pay for the damn cow and test drive as much as you want but not BEFORE.

crazykid:

@j-girl. Its the truth.

I'm not saying it's a lie. I'm just begging you to preach it to the NL guys.
I don't know where guys got this illusion that we want to be more married than they want. It is stupid to think that only women want to get married these days. My uncle told me that ever since he got married, they look at him in a more responsible fashion in his place of work because unlike others, he has a family to go back to. So they all better get their money and start looking for cows to buy.

I'm not saying it's a lie. I'm just begging you to preach it to the NL guys.
I don't know where guys got this illusion that we want to be more married than they want. It is stupid to think that only women want to get married these days. My uncle told me that ever since he got married, they look at him in a more responsible fashion in his place of work because unlike others, he has a family to go back to.

no mind them. They even need it more than we do but too arrogant to accept it.

RedHotChic:

Better still, pay for the damn cow and test drive as much as you want but not BEFORE.

Well what the ratio of men to women again? While you're waiting for someone to pay before test driving, the others are being bought lol

Well what the ratio of men to women again? While you're waiting for someone to pay before test driving, the others are being bought lol

men are two times more in number to women in China.

RedHotChic:

men are two times more in number to women in China.

LOL that doesn't count.

Anyway, I see why people would think so but he is not marrying for love, he's marrying her because he wants her body hence the high number of polygamous marriages in the old days or in recent times the high number of cheats. So it's best you give me a taste of it and I get it out of my system and focus on your inner beauty than you end up fighting with some other woman for my attention.

RedHotChic:

no mind them. They even need it more than we do but too arrogant to accept it.

What makes me even more annoyed is the idea that they think they are so unique and so scarce that we are desperate to marry even the so-called pigs.

Never heard of it.

Never heard of it.

Lol, ask mama.

LOL that doesn't count.

Anyway, I see why people would think so but he is not marrying for love, he's marrying her because he wants her body hence the high number of polygamous marriages in the old days or in recent times the high number of cheats. So it's best you give me a taste of it and I get it out of my system and focus on your inner beauty than you end up fighting with some other woman for my attention.

Did polygamy in the olden days prevent men from cheating?