Like the proverbial philosopher, I have read books, love and inspirational books. I have had an experience and listened to people's story. I have sat down and thought.
And in all my searchings, I have discovered that 98% of men don't actually love. When a man wit God's fear wants to date you, only one thing is involve...he wants a companion and a wife. When a normal guy wants you...two things are involve. He wants sex and to prove some point to his frnds that he can get any gal.
Girls, stop expecting him to get all lovey dovey. I don't know if the men trained themselves to be so or its just who they are. When a man cares about u, atimes its not because they love but bcs they are comfortable being around u, the kind of life u live or u simply boost their ego wt ur astonishing beauty.

Abi I lie?? Confirmation pls

Somewhat accurate but not completely vague

QUESTION?

Its only logical for mi 2 assume yu don't knw wat yu are saying cux u are "asking"

I dnt believe dis

If u school in France like I do, you'll know she's right.

If I talk now they will say I am mean.

Babe, a lot of men love and they do so passionately if you have not met such a man yet, maybe you are the one who is not lovable

nicechic:
Like the proverbial philosopher, I have read books, love and inspirational books. I have had an experience and listened to people's story. I have sat down and thought.
And in all my searchings, I have discovered that 98% of men don't actually love. When a man wit God's fear wants to date you, only one thing is involve...he wants a companion and a wife. When a normal guy wants you...two things are involve. He wants sex and to prove some point to his frnds that he can get any gal.
Girls, stop expecting him to get all lovey dovey. I don't know if the men trained themselves to be so or its just who they are. When a man cares about u, atimes its not because they love but bcs they are comfortable being around u, the kind of life u live or u simply boost their ego wt ur astonishing beauty.

Abi I lie?? Confirmation pls

. Chai!!! God bless u; my sister u nailed it; u just hit it at the right spot; u are absolutely right; that is who we re; the ladies just need to understand this... So they 'll live long.... That's why u don't see me, watching telemundo; it doesn't interest us.m.. Its not our live style...

This ur post just sweet my body well well; I'mm fellowing u ryt away... Well done maa'm

Mynd44:
If I talk now they will say I am mean.

Babe, a lot of men love and they do so passionately if you have not met such a man yet, maybe you are the one who is not lovable

Totally agree. She is talking from experience and she forgot dat experience is limited.

#smh#

obongproff:


Totally agree. She is talking from experience and she forgot dat experience is limited.

#smh#

I am tired of NL girls who only hang out with the wrong type of guys and conclude that every guy is like the people she calls friends.

Abeg give these girls deliverance biko

Just in case....

Mynd44:


Abeg give these girls deliverance biko

Bros, mbok I no be deliverance minister oh!

I think its just d heat of d moment. Maybe when she don get over her present emotional disappointment, she go fall in love again.

Men love

men dont fall in love

obongproff:


Bros, mbok I no be deliverance minister oh!

I think its just d heat of d moment. Maybe when she don get over her present emotional disappointment, she go fall in love again.

Whichever guy did this to her took no prisoners

Smh

That's what my aunt told me too

Sounds like a caller tune..:|

I guess most guys learnt d hard way dat love don't exist in ds part of d world...This is as a result of past experiences of wat they have been thru...I put it to op, can u dat a guy who has nothing?

Don't know if you care for the Bible or not but if you do, God Himself used an analogy to describe His relationship with Israel. In it He said that He found her abandoned in her birth fluids and left to herself. He took her, cleaned her up, brought her up to be a beautiful young woman. Then He betrothed her to Himself for marriage.

If God Himself calls that love even though it appears to seek payment, why would you decide that it isn't?

In case you don't care for the Bible or the Christian religion, take some time to think about this and answer it: who benefits most from marriage? I do not care about the type of men that just want sex. I'm interested only in those ones that pursue you because they want to marry you and whom you therefore indict for lack of love. Who does marriage cost more? Man or woman?

ihedinobi2:
Don't know if you care for the Bible or not but if you do, God Himself used an analogy to describe His relationship with Israel. In it He said that He found her abandoned in her birth fluids and left to herself. He took her, cleaned her up, brought her up to be a beautiful young woman. Then He betrothed her to Himself for marriage.

If God Himself calls that love even though it appears to seek payment, why would you decide that it isn't?

In case you don't care for the Bible or the Christian religion, take some time to think about this and answer it: who benefits most from marriage? I do not care about the type of men that just want sex. I'm interested only in those ones that pursue you because they want to marry you and whom you therefore indict for lack of love. Who does marriage cost more? Man or woman?

What in the world?

Nicechic ur heart has been toiled with
Is quiet pathetic dat ladies date the guys dat dnt luv dem while friendzoning the ones dat luvs dem

Every opinion should be considered. In lieu of that, what becomes of the 2% men? What are they saying? Haven't they said something yet?
Don't suggest the men need some factory reset.

Op let me answer ur question, men do love, but they love only ones, after d first love, wen they broke up with d first love they may av been hurt so much they wil cry over her,and after that they wil never fall again, cus wemen are so wiked, they wil leave u anytym they find a beta sponsor, and if u ar a broke dude who never made it in live and you fall in love,you on your own ( OYO)

This is wrong as far as ephesians 5 verse 25 is concerned

it is obvious that d guy dat did this O.P too bad............... ..













d guy so bad so tey him make d o.p lose faith say love no dey exist again.





















after i thoughy it was guys dat were running around in romance thread trying to tell anyone who cares to listen dat d idea of love is just a big,fat delusion.

You think a guy will marry you if he doesn't love you?
more men than u will believe are more than willing to stay single if they dnt find a woman to settle down with. if he just wanted a companion, believe me his friends are more than enough.......
throw in the PS4s,Xbox,dstv,laptop and phone and he will be more than occupied

NL girls sha

it is obvious that d guy dat did this O.P too bad............... ..













d guy so bad so tey him make d o.p lose faith say love no dey exist again.





















after i thoughy it was guys dat were running around in romance thread trying to tell anyone who cares to listen dat d idea of love is just a big,fat delusion.

You think a guy will marry you if he doesn't love you?
more men than u will believe are more than willing to stay single if they dnt find a woman to settle down with. if he just wanted a companion, believe me his friends are more than enough.......
throw in the PS4s,Xbox,dstv,laptop and phone and he will be more than occupied.

Mynd44:


What in the world?

What now?

ihedinobi2:



What now?

If you don't see what's wrong with that......

Mynd44:

I am tired of NL girls who only hang out with the wrong type of guys and conclude that every guy is like the people she calls friends.

Abeg give these girls deliverance biko

You shouldn't blame her cos that's her subjective reality. You can be the gentleman and present yourself in her world and give her reasons to think otherwise. I'm assuming she's single and willing to mingle. Good luck to both of you. I'm patiently waiting to read from you guys.

That mindset sets you firmly on the path to unhappiness if eventually you decide to get married.

Mynd44:

I am tired of NL girls who only hang out with the wrong type of guys and conclude that every guy is like the people she calls friends.

Abeg give these girls deliverance biko

ok, will do just that. Where is the olive oil Oya kneel down

Weird.