It's not that rare for a guy to start having feelings for a woman he is friends with. There are plenty of these kinds of stories playing out all of the time. However, there is a little bit of a difference when that female friend of yours is more than just a friend to you, she is your best friend. That can make an already complicated situation seem all the more complicated. Since you do feel like she is your best friend, and hopefully she also feels that way, you probably don't want to lose her, but you can't help but to have romantic feelings for her at the same time. What can you do?

THE REALITY YOU HAVE TO FACE -

As much as you might like to, you really can't try to turn a female best friend into a girlfriend without risking the possibility that you might lose her friendship along the way. Once you make it known to her that you have those romantic feelings, it is inevitable that the dynamic between you and her is going to change. It might not be fair that it has to be that way, but who said that life was fair? So, the first thing that you have to do is weigh out the pros and cons of trying to turn her into your girlfriend.

Pros -

You will have the chance of being able to get physical with her.

You won't have to wonder about the "what if" anymore.

You will probably be extremely elated if it DOES work out.

Cons -

You might lose her as a friend.

You will lose the fantasy of you and her, it will either become real or not.

Getting rejected by her might hurt more than getting rejected by any other woman has hurt you before.

WARNING - BEFORE YOU TRY TO TURN HER INTO YOUR GIRLFRIEND...

The upside is definitely good if it does work out. You'll have the woman you want as your girlfriend and that will be an awesome feeling. I know, because I have had that experience before. It feels better than you can even imagine. However, I have also experienced the downside of it not working out. When it doesn't happen, you end up losing her as a friend, at least in the way that it used to be. Things change between you and her. You might find that all of a sudden, she doesn't want to hang out with you one on one.

However, even when it doesn't work out, you still get the satisfaction of knowing that at least you tried. There are plenty of guys out there who will never try to turn their best female friend into a girlfriend and they will continue to want her without ever having the chance of making that a reality. They will have to watch her date other guys. They will have to see other guys string her along, knowing that he is going to dump her.

You don't want to live like that if you don't have to. You don't want to have to suppress your real feelings for her and try to fake sounding happy for her when she tells you about that guy she just met that she is going to go out on a date with. Even if it doesn't work out, you'll at least know that you had the courage to try.

HOW DO YOU MAKE HER WANT TO BE YOUR GIRLFRIEND?

I'd strongly recommend that you don't come right out and say that you want to date her right away. Doing that is not really going to help you out much. She is probably going to get weirded out if you say that you want her as more than just a friend. What you have to do is get to work on making her feel that way about you.

Here are some tips that should help you out with that:

1. You can't make her want you if you stay in the position of being her best friend.

Not right now, at least. You have to find a way to change that dynamic between you and her. The easiest way to do this, is to have a short period of time where you don't spend that much time with her at all. You want to slowly ease out of being her best friend and you can't do that if you are still around her all of the time, acting like her best friend.

2. You have to make her feel curious about what's going on.

You don't want to make her feel like you are mad at her or that she did anything wrong and that is the reason why you have disappeared for a little while. The best thing to do is to get busy with other things so that you really do have a good reason why you are not around that much anymore. Plus, when you are actually busy doing other things... it's only natural that she is going to be curious about what those other things are. You want her to be curious.

3. You need to then come back, but acting in a different way around her.

This is one of the most important pieces of the puzzle. If you come back and go right back to being her best guy friend, nothing is going to change. She is not going to suddenly want to rip your clothes off and fool around with you. She is just going to go right back to seeing you as her friend and nothing more. You have to become a flirt when you are around her. You have to make her smile, make her giddy just to see you.

4. When you can tell that she is definitely starting to feel attracted to you, you have to make your move.

Without making the move, nothing is going to change. So, this is another one of those things that you have to do if you want your best female friend to become your girlfriend. This has to happen when the time is just right, though. And it also has to feel natural. It has to feel like both of you are just getting caught up in the moment.

IS IT WORTH IT?

Having been on both sides of the coin, with it working out and it also not working out, I can say that it IS worth trying to make your female best friend become your girlfriend. The feeling that you get when you and her are finally together as a couple is AMAZING. When you finally get to see her looking at you with both love and desire in her eyes... it makes it all worth it in the end.

Even when it doesn't work out the way that you want it to... it still feels GOOD to know that you tried. And to know that you don't have to fake it around her anymore. You don't have to act like being just her friend is cool with you. Because, you know that it isn't. You know that it SUCKS to know that you would be the best guy for her, and to have to see her go out with other guys, some of whom turn out to be total jerks.

Ultimately, it is up to you. You are the one that has to live with the decision that you make. You are the one that is going to have to either keep on acting like you are just a friend while at the same time having secret fantasies about being with her or taking the plunge and seeing if you can make it REAL.

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