Nairaland lacks interactive discussion on challenging issues and I have devoted this precious time to bring something to the table that will spur and ginger good emotional intelligence when dealing with our spouse/partners.

In today's discussion, I am going to look at what generality of failed people in relationship/marriages calls irreconcilable differences. Irreconcilable squabbles arises when both partners can no longer trust themselves to make a marriage work. it is a point where the woman no longer trust the man to be the head of the affair thereby being rebellious to her partner's decision.

When a relationship/marriage packs up without the usual problems like infidelity, childlessness, religious orientation, family interference etc but based on frivolous excuses of incompatibility in marriage, lifestyle, social inequality then know it is what is usually tagged ''irreconcilable differences''. A problem non descriptive and lacking the morality to be deliberated.

Let ask ourselves how come a marriage contracted after dating for several months/years is able to pack up without the nobility to hold on to the sacred vow. Majority of the time the men is to be held for failed marriages in this circumstance. Men have neglected their role as the ''head'' ....

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IDEApro:
Nairaland lacks interactive discussion on challenging issues and I have devoted this precious time to bring something to the table that will spur and ginger good emotional intelligence when dealing with our spouse/partners.

In today's discussion, I am going to look at what generality of failed people in relationship/marriages calls irreconcilable differences. Irreconcilable squabbles arises when both partners can no longer trust themselves to make a marriage work. it is a point where the woman no longer trust the man to be the head of the affair thereby being rebellious to her partner's decision.

When a relationship/marriage packs up without the usual problems like infidelity, childlessness, religious orientation, family interference etc but based on frivolous excuses of incompatibility in marriage, lifestyle, social inequality then know it is what is usually tagged ''irreconcilable differences''. A problem non descriptive and lacking the morality to be deliberated.

Let ask ourselves how come a marriage contracted after dating for several months/years is able to pack up without the nobility to hold on to the sacred vow. Majority of the time the men is to be held for failed marriages in this circumstance. Men have neglected their role as the ''head'' ....

What an intellectually stimulating contribution! Irreconcilable differences arise when women don't know how to behave properly. The cause is clear so women behave yourselves. End of discussion.

carefreewannabe:


What an intellectually stimulating contribution! Irreconcilable differences arise when women don't know how to behave properly. The cause is clear so women behave yourselves. End of discussion.

Cococandy
Mondisweets

carefreewannabe:


What an intellectually stimulating contribution! Irreconcilable differences arise when women don't know how to behave properly. The cause is clear so women behave yourselves. End of discussion.

Lmao.
What won't we read on this forum?

Tallesty1:
Cococandy
Mondisweets

ehen? What happun?

Tallesty1:
Cococandy
Mondisweets

How e concern me?
You dont know sarcasm when you see it?

IDEApro:
Nairaland lacks interactive discussion on challenging issues and I have devoted this precious time to bring something to the table that will spur and ginger good emotional intelligence when dealing with our spouse/partners.

In today's discussion, I am going to look at what generality of failed people in relationship/marriages calls irreconcilable differences. Irreconcilable squabbles arises when both partners can no longer trust themselves to make a marriage work. it is a point where the woman no longer trust the man to be the head of the affair thereby being rebellious to her partner's decision.

When a relationship/marriage packs up without the usual problems like infidelity, childlessness, religious orientation, family interference etc but based on frivolous excuses of incompatibility in marriage, lifestyle, social inequality then know it is what is usually tagged ''irreconcilable differences''. A problem non descriptive and lacking the morality to be deliberated.

Let ask ourselves how come a marriage contracted after dating for several months/years is able to pack up without the nobility to hold on to the sacred vow. Majority of the time the men is to be held for failed marriages in this circumstance. Men have neglected their role as the ''head'' ....

So is it the men or the women?

Marriage is a psychology warfare not the construe ''bliss'' we inhibit and process mentally. What majority of men have not grasp is that reality but inadvertently built fantasy lacking emotional intelligence in their marriages. In the earlier state of a union, while the man is struggling trying to put food on the table and impress his young wife, the woman is busy studying him. Sometime married women psychoanalyse and mentally evaluate their husbands for a longer period building a strong defense to attack his failings in the marriage afterward.

One can date a woman for 30 years but may not survive a year marriage if consummated with the same woman...why? woman unleash their true self if the environment or circumstance permit it. They need some sort of security to unravel their characteristics and marriage make them consolidate on it.

In this discourse, I am going to elucidate on two cardinal ''points'' which is the basis for the irreconcilable differences brandied by our respective divorced persons and how to curb the menace and instil a strong matrimonial union in marriages. This write up is a conscious effort to redirect our men on steps to take to effectively control their marriages and steer it away from matrimonial turbulence.

Ok

IDEApro:
Marriage is a psychology warfare not the construe ''bliss'' we inhibit and process mentally. What majority of men have not grasp is that reality but inadvertently built fantasy lacking emotional intelligence in their marriages. In the earlier state of a union, while the man is struggling trying to put food on the table and impress his young wife, the woman is busy studying him. Sometime married women psychoanalyse and mentally evaluate their husbands for a longer period building a strong defense to attack his failings in the marriage afterward.

One can date a woman for 30 years but may not survive a year marriage if consummated with the same woman...why? woman unleash their true self if the environment or circumstance permit it. They need some sort of security to unravel their characteristics and marriage make them consolidate on it.

In this discourse, I am going to elucidate on two cardinal ''points'' which is the basis for the irreconcilable differences brandied by our respective divorced persons and how to curb the menace and instil a strong matrimonial union in marriages. This write up is a conscious effort to redirect our men on steps to take to effectively control their marriages and steer it away from matrimonial turbulence.

cococandy:
Ok

Candy, calm down. By the time I thoroughly did justice to this topic...you will be awed!

IDEApro:


Candy, calm down. By the time I thoroughly did justice to this topic...you will be awed!

im calm and following

cococandy:

Lmao.
What won't we read on this forum?

Behave yourself!

carefreewannabe:


Behave yourself!

i will

carefreewannabe:


Behave yourself!

This course carry serious credit unit. Be serious otherwise you'd cry later for a resit which may never be carried over.

Op.are u dealing with men or women?
Glad to know the irreconcilable differences can be worked out.

thorpido:
Op.are u dealing with men or women?
Glad to know the irreconcilable differences can be worked out.

Will be sharing tips on how men can truly be in charge of their marriages to avoid the undesirable.

seems this'll be interesting! Following!

Weldone OP

IDEApro:


This course carry serious credit unit. Be serious otherwise you'd cry later for a resit which may never be carried over.

Ok, I was just having fun.

We are all waiting in anticipation, now what's your point?

But men are free to misbehave abi?



oniranu

carefreewannabe:


What an intellectually stimulating contribution! Irreconcilable differences arise when women don't know how to behave properly. The cause is clear so women behave yourselves. End of discussion.

Kontinu. You're making sense

IDEApro:
Marriage is a psychology warfare not the construe ''bliss'' we inhibit and process mentally. What majority of men have not grasp is that reality but inadvertently built fantasy lacking emotional intelligence in their marriages. In the earlier state of a union, while the man is struggling trying to put food on the table and impress his young wife, the woman is busy studying him. Sometime married women psychoanalyse and mentally evaluate their husbands for a longer period building a strong defense to attack his failings in the marriage afterward.

One can date a woman for 30 years but may not survive a year marriage if consummated with the same woman...why? woman unleash their true self if the environment or circumstance permit it. They need some sort of security to unravel their characteristics and marriage make them consolidate on it.

In this discourse, I am going to elucidate on two cardinal ''points'' which is the basis for the irreconcilable differences brandied by our respective divorced persons and how to curb the menace and instil a strong matrimonial union in marriages. This write up is a conscious effort to redirect our men on steps to take to effectively control their marriages and steer it away from matrimonial turbulence.

Mondisweets:
How e concern me?
You dont know sarcasm when you see it?

I didn't see it as one............

cococandy:
ehen? What happun?

I just dey greet

Married folks, get in here pls...

Tallesty1:
I didn't see it as one............

Now u do

I'm waiting....

MEN SHOULD BE UNPREDICTABLE...

Like I earlier mention, women are gifted in studying their husbands( characteristics) devoting considerable time in evaluation while the men are fascinated by the euphoria of being men and the satisfaction of settling down as a family ''man''. Before going into marriage, a man need to put a lot of considerations in perspective so as to avoid the matrimonial rebellion that comes afterwards.

Men are often than not buoyed with choices when they tend to settle down with a woman so they'd often time settle for the beautiful ones, career minded ones, classy ones or whatever drive their fantasies thereby neglecting the paramount parameter that should have bridle their interest...the need to consciously evaluate the emotional intelligence of the woman!

OK...that been said, no matter the level of a woman education or her managerical skill, a woman is never cut out for a leadership position maybe not in the home front and that's the simple reason she needs love, protection and supplication from her man. She is utterly aware of these needs from her man and many more but one thing unaware to a man is that this same woman will use emotional manipulation to harass you and even take a swipe at the leadership position because you'd become predictable and indeed vulnerable. Women loves marriage games and use it to their undue advantages.

Let continue... don't be fooled with Love. Women loves children and to produce them that's the reason she is with you. She accepted you because you are the favorite amongst her suitors and the confident one too. You are not the best in the world in terms of wealth, body build, endowment, or handsome. If she had her way, you won't come into consideration so the real essence of getting married to you is getting your seed to fertilise her eggs.

Men are blessed with wisdom in handling issues elusive to women and that's why the popular notion: They reason and behave like kids'' no matter how old they are. A woman is wired to comprehend things illogically and symmetrical to men and one of the downside to this is that they are generally emotional indisposed beings.

To curtain this inadequacy, men are generally required to exhibit a lot of tolerance and exact more wisdom in handling their women. A leader should have the mental capacity to lead.

....I will go deeply into this heading and proffer solution next.

IDEApro:
MEN SHOULD BE UNPREDICTABLE...

Like I earlier mention, women are gifted in studying their husbands( characteristics) devoting considerable time in evaluation while the men are fascinated by the euphoria of being men and the satisfaction of settling down as a family ''man''. Before going into marriage, a man need to put a lot of considerations in perspective so as to avoid the matrimonial rebellion that comes afterwards.

Men are often than not buoyed with choices when they tend to settle down with a woman so they'd often time settle for the beautiful ones, career minded ones, classy ones or whatever drive their fantasies thereby neglecting the paramount parameter that should have bridle their interest...the need to consciously evaluate the emotional intelligence of the woman!

OK...that been said, no matter the level of a woman education or her managerical skill, a woman is never cut out for a leadership position maybe not in the home front and that's the simple reason she needs love, protection and supplication from her man. She is utterly aware of these needs from her man and many more but one thing unaware to a man is that this same woman will use emotional manipulation to harass you and even take a swipe at the leadership position because you'd become predictable and indeed vulnerable. Women loves marriage games and use it to their undue advantages.

Let continue... don't be fooled with Love. Women loves children and to produce them that's the reason she is with you. She accepted you because you are the favorite amongst her suitors and the confident one too. You are not the best in the world in terms of wealth, body build, endowment, or handsome. If she had her way, you won't come into consideration so the real essence of getting married to you is getting your seed to fertilise her eggs.

Men are blessed with wisdom in handling issues elusive to women and that's why the popular notion: They reason and behave like kids'' no matter how old they are. A woman is wired to comprehend things illogically and symmetrical to men and one of the downside to this is that they are generally emotional indisposed beings.

To curtain this inadequacy, men are generally required to exhibit a lot of tolerance and exact more wisdom in handling their women. A leader should have the mental capacity to lead.

....I will go deeply into this heading and proffer solution next.

Happy New Year Pro...
Abeg come complete this abeg...tenx