you know like how parents always claim they know what is best for their children even when it comes to mate selection in marriage/ relationship,

if you find someone you really love so much with all your heart, and you introduce him/her to your parents and they object, and advises you to end the

relationship because they have the eyes of the wise one and see something very Peculiar about the person which you havent noticed or doesnt think is

true would you listen to them and end the relationship or would you go with your heart and contiune loving?

I would defo go with my heart!!

odikwa serious!!!!
but i'll go with my heart

Sea~Goddes:

you know like how parents always claim they know what is best for their children even when it comes to mate selection in marriage/ relationship,

if you find someone you really love so much with all your heart, and you introduce him/her to your parents and they object, and advises you to end the

relationship because they have the eyes of the wise one and see something very Peculiar about the person which you havent noticed or doesnt think is

true would you listen to them and end the relationship or would you go with your heart and contiune loving?

Whatever happened to ELOPING!!!
Solomon Island----here i come.

tope2000:


but i'll go with my heart

U sure say ur liver no go fail u?!

MrCrackles:

I would defo go with my heart!!

what if they insist you end it or you will be disowned or they will not come to your wedding or have anything to do with you ko?

Listen to them, their advise, their reasons for objecting, why and so forth, try and see it from their point of view etc, if I can still see no problem in my choice for a husband then I will follow my heart

MrCrackles:

U sure say ur liver no go fail u?!

omg u r so fuuny

Sea~Goddes:

what if they insist you end it or you will be disowned or they will not come to your wedding or have anything to do with you ko?

No one can tell me that

It is about a woman i want to spend the rest of my life with

If anyone is not happy, say gobe!!!

Wedding will go ahead, anyone wey no wan come go watch video later!!

ibkaye:

Listen to them, their advise, their reasons for objecting, why and so forth, try and see it from their point of view etc, if I can still see no problem in my choice for a husband then I will follow my heart

You are gradually coming of age

Keep growing younging!!

MrCrackles:

No one can tell me that

It is about a woman i want to spend the rest of my life with

If anyone is not happy, say gobe!!!

Wedding will go ahead, anyone wey no wan come go watch video later!!

lol

~Sauron~:

Whatever happened to ELOPING!!!
Solomon Island----here i come.

oh mine

MrCrackles:

You are gradually coming of age

Keep growing younging!!

Younging ko  

@Poster
One thing I can never do is cut off everything with the one I love and plan to get married to all because 'they are my parents', as much as I respect them and love them, they must have a VERY good reason as to why they object to me marrying him, if not, nah brav!

MrCrackles:

U sure say ur liver no go fail u?!

I will use medicine and still carry on  

go with my gut feelings 100%! unless they uncovered a part of his past that I didn't know about e.g. he's a killer, woman basher, armed robber etc etc

I do need my Parents Blessings though so I guess their opinions count in the long run,  

tope2000:

I will use medicine and still carry on  

ok oo!

Sea~Goddes:

oh mine

Seriously, no one should choose a spouse for me.
So if it gets too hot for the parents to handle ma relationship. . . .I am already on the next plane to Barbados or Virgin Islands.
I will return after ma 4th child

This one is a little sticky for me because I have ignored my Dad's warning in the past and stayed with the relationship and he is ALWAYS spot on.

Lets just say thank God he approved my hubby and thank God I am never getting married again.

Easy to say "I'll go with my heart" When yawa go gas now. . they will run back to their parents.

They say when an elderly person tells you something or gives you an advice, no matter how foolish it may seem considering your present situation, go and think about it. If I introduce a girl to my parents, and they object, I would heed to their counsel if I know its the best option for me.

honestly if a guy introduces me to their parents, i happen to know that they don't approve of me and there is nothing that will change their minds

about me, i will kindly end the relationship though i may really  love the guy.  cause eventually if the guy disobeys his parents and we get married,

it is really going to be hard for me to get along with them and you know nigeria marriages are, when u marry a person u are not only marrying that person

but also his/her whole family so it will definitely make me look like an outcast which will be very awkward to deal with.

however if i introduce a guy that i really love and my parents objects, it is going to be very hard to deal it, though they might know more about

marriages/ life and relationships, i must also put my won choices on the table, cox evetually i'm the one who is going to live with that person,

not them but it is going to be very hard

its kinda hard sha, but i will try 2 make dem see reason wit me, if dey dont o boy i go follow my heart o.

Sea~Goddes:

you know like how parents always claim they know what is best for their children even when it comes to mate selection in marriage/ relationship,

if you find someone you really love so much with all your heart, and you introduce him/her to your parents and they object, and advises you to end the

relationship because they have the eyes of the wise one and see something very Peculiar about the person which you havent noticed or doesnt think is

true would you listen to them and end the relationship or would you go with your heart and contiune loving?

it depends, if u have known ur parents to be paranoid then u might want to ignore them but if ur parents have been known to have good judgment, u might want to proceed carefully. bottom line, u can still make ur parents like him/her by not rushing but trying to see what their fears are and if it is truly unfounded, u can work to bring them around. nobody say life was a piece of cake

I WILL EX IT NI OOOO, CAUSE I NEED THERE BLESSING

i definitely would listen to them, cox sometimes when some pple are in love, they choose to be blinded by it, and b4 they regain their sight the damage is already done.

Sea~Goddes:

honestly if a guy introduces me to their parents, i happen to know that they don't approve of me and there is nothing that will change their minds

about me, i will kindly end the relationship though i may really love the guy. cause eventually if the guy disobeys his parents and we get married,

it is really going to be hard for me to get along with them and you know nigeria marriages are, when u marry a person u are not only marrying that person

but also his/her whole family so it will definitely make me look like an outcast which will be very awkward to deal with.

however if i introduce a guy that i really love and my parents objects, it is going to be very hard to deal it, though they might know more about

marriages/ life and relationships, i must also put my won choices on the table, cox evetually i'm the one who is going to live with that person,

not them but it is going to be very hard

well it seems you already know what you wanna do.
find out from your 'rents the reason if its not cos of tribal or racial differences then sure, but if they say its "something" they can't quite place then truth is you shd watch him closely. most times experience has shown that the "something they can't quite place" is deceit.
But then again it depends on the kinda relationship you have with your 'rents
then again pay close attention to whatever it is they say it is they don't like about him especially if its that they don't trust him or his intentions. but if your "gut" tells you its ok, then go with it and to ohell with what they say, but be careful