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What Exactly Is A 'wife Material'? by safarigirl(f): 2:17pm On Dec 21, 2014
The term 'wife material' has been in circulation for quite sometime in Nigeria. To most Nigerian men a 'wife material' is supposed to be a virtuosus, soft-spoken, siddon-look woman that won't worry you too much or question your actions.

By that definition, people like me will never qualify to be someone's wife (and I have accepted it whole-heartedly) grin.

But the reality of life is that every woman is someone's wife material and the women with the above description more often than not, end up with failed/shaky marriages.

But really, what exactly is a wife material? I mean, in your own words, not what society has led us to believe.

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Re: What Exactly Is A 'wife Material'? by agarawu23(m): 2:20pm On Dec 21, 2014
.do u have a huge front and killing back op? because nothing else can make a wife material.

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Re: What Exactly Is A 'wife Material'? by safarigirl(f): 2:35pm On Dec 21, 2014
agarawu23:
.do u have a huge front and killing back op? because nothing else can make a wife material.
my brother, front I no get, back I no get.

I'm not soft-spoken or meek. In fact, I dey find trouble like winch grin....I don look myself finish and come to the conclusion that it will take the spirit of God for any man to marry me grin.

I no dey find husband, I just wan born pikin sometime in future. I'm just asking for people with most or some of my characteristics that still want to marry
Re: What Exactly Is A 'wife Material'? by agarawu23(m): 2:41pm On Dec 21, 2014
safarigirl:
my brother, front I no get, back I no get.

I'm not soft-spoken or meek. In fact, I dey find trouble like winch grin....I don look myself finish and come to the conclusion that it will take the spirit of God for any man to marry me grin.

I no dey find husband, I just wan born pikin sometime in future. I'm just asking for people with most or some of my characteristics that still want to marry
y r u sounding rejected sad I deal with winches like u, if I Dated lucifer, who else I cant date.? pm me lets start frm there cheesy
Re: What Exactly Is A 'wife Material'? by adepiero: 2:44pm On Dec 21, 2014
safarigirl:
my brother, front I no get, back I no get.

I'm not soft-spoken or meek. In fact, I dey find trouble like winch grin....I don look myself finish and come to the conclusion that it will take the spirit of God for any man to marry me grin.

I no dey find husband, I just wan born pikin sometime in future. I'm just asking for people with most or some of my characteristics that still want to marry
This one wey you talk say you flat like dashboard, na big issue o!

but well sha, even with flat asset and this your trouble making attitude wey you get. there is still someone for you out there.

me sef no dey reason marriage because most women of nowadays are liability than asset. what most of them think about is to spread their legs for the big fish and collect money undecided
Re: What Exactly Is A 'wife Material'? by safarigirl(f): 2:47pm On Dec 21, 2014
agarawu23:
y r u sounding rejected sad I deal with winches like u, if I Dated lucifer, who else I cant date.? pm me lets start frm there cheesy
you go fear New Year project. Sorry, I'm not emotionally insecure

Not rejected, I'm the one always doing the rejection grin. I've just accepted my situation and now spend my time laughing at people who try and fail with baseless relationships. It's much more fun watching from the outside.
Re: What Exactly Is A 'wife Material'? by jmoore(m): 2:49pm On Dec 21, 2014
Someone married Tiwa Savage. I can never marry that type of woman even at gun point. That's a case of one man's wife material may not be another man's wife material.

Wife material means so many things to different people.
Re: What Exactly Is A 'wife Material'? by agarawu23(m): 2:51pm On Dec 21, 2014
safarigirl:
you go fear New Year project. Sorry, I'm not emotionally insecure

Not rejected, I'm the one always doing the rejection grin. I've just accepted my situation and now spend my time laughing at people who try and fail with baseless relationships. It's much more fun watching from the outside.
u like prolonging issues. you are a wife material
Re: What Exactly Is A 'wife Material'? by safarigirl(f): 2:52pm On Dec 21, 2014
adepiero:
This one wey you talk say you flat like dashboard, na big issue o!

but well sha, even with flat asset and this your trouble making attitude wey you get. there is still someone for you out there.

me sef no dey reason marriage because most women of nowadays are liability than asset. what most of them think about is to spread their legs for the big fish and collect money undecided
when you people have told them that all they need to progress is to have front and back, why won't they become liabilities?

Society has told women that once you've got a nice, curvy body, you can be a dolt and still get a guy with money, influence and looks, but if you're straight as a dashboard, intelligent and innovative, forget it. Just manage any guy that looks upon you with pity.

Abi no be so again? You people should make up your mind on what you want, you can't have it all

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Re: What Exactly Is A 'wife Material'? by tmanuelle(m): 2:54pm On Dec 21, 2014
jmoore:
Someone married Tiwa Savage. I can never marry that type of woman even at gun point. That's a case of one man's wife material may not be another man's wife material.

Wife material means so many things to different people.

Lol, at gunpoint. Is she that bad?
Re: What Exactly Is A 'wife Material'? by safarigirl(f): 2:54pm On Dec 21, 2014
jmoore:
Someone married Tiwa Savage. I can never marry that type of woman even at gun point. That's a case of one man's wife material may not be another man's wife material.

Wife material means so many things to different people.
Tiwa is famous....it's not that hard to get someone to marry you when you're rich and/or famous

Question is, would someone marry a girl like Tiwa without the money and fame?
Re: What Exactly Is A 'wife Material'? by addempsea(m): 2:56pm On Dec 21, 2014
Wife material, just like sewing material. Whatever you think of sewing material replace with wife.
Re: What Exactly Is A 'wife Material'? by jmoore(m): 2:57pm On Dec 21, 2014
safarigirl:
Tiwa is famous....it's not that hard to get someone to marry you when you're rich and/or famous

Question is, would someone marry a girl like Tiwa without the money and fame?

It is not about money and fame.
I can't marry a lady that displays her n@ked body for the whole world to see. His husband seems comfortable with that. I can never tolerate such.
Re: What Exactly Is A 'wife Material'? by Nobody: 3:05pm On Dec 21, 2014
Wife materials varies alot dependin on the type of guys you dealin with.
Bt if your definition of wife material depends on front and back,girls lyk me dnt stand a chance.
Re: What Exactly Is A 'wife Material'? by adepiero: 3:08pm On Dec 21, 2014
safarigirl:
Abi no be so again? You people should make up your mind on what you want, you can't have it all
I don't know about other men but for me! my most sort after feature in a woman is her intellects. if she doesn't have it, I get bored with her.

what is the use of a woman that can't challenge or compete with her husband? most women submit easily and willingly to men's request even though it kills them inside.

body features is secondary, I don't do well with skinny or fat girls. I love them moderate and in right proportion grin
Re: What Exactly Is A 'wife Material'? by safarigirl(f): 3:11pm On Dec 21, 2014
jmoore:


It is not about money and fame.
I can't marry a lady that displays her n@ked body for the whole world to see. His husband seems comfortable with that. I can never tolerate such.
lol....that's good.
Re: What Exactly Is A 'wife Material'? by quivah(f): 3:24pm On Dec 21, 2014
kristina1:
Wife materials varies alot dependin on the type of guys you dealin with.
Bt if your definition of wife material depends on front and back,girls lyk me dnt stand a chance.
walai!! no hope at all undecided sad

but for real, wife material surpass the physical attributes..
Re: What Exactly Is A 'wife Material'? by Nobody: 3:39pm On Dec 21, 2014
safarigirl:
my brother, front I no get, back I no get.
I'm not soft-spoken or meek. In fact, I dey find trouble like winch grin....I don look myself finish and come to the conclusion that it will take the spirit of God for any man to marry me grin.
I no dey find husband, I just wan born pikin sometime in future. I'm just asking for people with most or some of my characteristics that still want to marry

My dream cool

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Re: What Exactly Is A 'wife Material'? by Nobody: 3:45pm On Dec 21, 2014
quivah:

walai!! no hope at all undecided sad

but for real, wife material surpass the physical attributes..
Yea.......datz y am workin on other aspect of my life,to compliment wot i lack physically.
Cos if you lack the two,itz a disaster.
Re: What Exactly Is A 'wife Material'? by addempsea(m): 3:47pm On Dec 21, 2014
kristina1:
Wife materials varies alot dependin on the type of guys you dealin with.
Bt if your definition of wife material depends on front and back,girls lyk me dnt stand a chance.
Girl, wife material isn't in front or back. Say things like can u cook, trustworthy ,loyal and shii like that!
Re: What Exactly Is A 'wife Material'? by safarigirl(f): 3:50pm On Dec 21, 2014
addempsea:
Girl, wife material isn't in front or back. Say things like can u cook, trustworthy ,loyal and shii like that!
that's not what they told us smiley
Re: What Exactly Is A 'wife Material'? by addempsea(m): 3:52pm On Dec 21, 2014
safarigirl:
that's not what they told us smiley
well, I'm telling you now.
Re: What Exactly Is A 'wife Material'? by Nobody: 3:53pm On Dec 21, 2014
A virtuous woman. As in, one with a pleasant personality cool

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Re: What Exactly Is A 'wife Material'? by quivah(f): 3:57pm On Dec 21, 2014
kristina1:

Yea.......datz y am workin on other aspect of my life,to compliment wot i lack physically.
Cos if you lack the two,itz a disaster.
actually I don't dig that... you should be whatever you ought to be... lacking or not!


so you mean, if you full front and back.. you won't work on others? na one flat bombom girl go replace person at last..

what I am saying is, don't let that be the reason you wanna work on yourself.. and DONT let a man be the reason also.. do it cause you have towink
Re: What Exactly Is A 'wife Material'? by quivah(f): 3:58pm On Dec 21, 2014
addempsea:
Girl, wife material isn't in front or back. Say things like can u cook, trustworthy ,loyal and shii like that!
but front and back is always part of the criteria..sad before we even table out our potentials, we don disqualify already..
Re: What Exactly Is A 'wife Material'? by Nobody: 4:02pm On Dec 21, 2014
quivah:

actually I don't dig that... you should be whatever you ought to be... lacking or not!


so you mean, if you full front and back.. you won't work on others? na one flat bombom girl go replace person at last..

what I am saying is, don't let that be the reason you wanna work on yourself.. and DONT let a man be the reason also.. do it cause you have towink
Word!!!
Tanx swtty
Re: What Exactly Is A 'wife Material'? by addempsea(m): 4:02pm On Dec 21, 2014
quivah:

but front and back is always part of the criteria..sad before we even table out our potentials, we don disqualify already..
so, what you are saying is that 'girls with not big enof front and back don't get married' hun? I think not.
Re: What Exactly Is A 'wife Material'? by uzolexis(f): 4:16pm On Dec 21, 2014
every woman is a wife material, depends on how many yards u want grin
Re: What Exactly Is A 'wife Material'? by Thinkr(m): 4:17pm On Dec 21, 2014
Re: What Exactly Is A 'wife Material'? by addempsea(m): 4:19pm On Dec 21, 2014
uzolexis:
every woman is a wife material, depends on how many yards u want grin
Tho some are not up to a yard.
Re: What Exactly Is A 'wife Material'? by lilmax(m): 4:46pm On Dec 21, 2014
Hmmmmm
Re: What Exactly Is A 'wife Material'? by Nobody: 4:54pm On Dec 21, 2014
safarigirl:
The term 'wife material' has been in circulation for quite sometime in Nigeria.

But really, what exactly is a wife material? I mean, in your own words, not what society has led us to believe.
she is simply that woman who knows her duty as a wife and she endeavour to unertake it without being bitchy about it.

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