[b]I really want blog visitors to help me out of this crossroad that I am o. I am a lady of 32 years old and I will be getting married in the first quarter of next year(2015). I have done introduction and all is set. About eight years ago, I met this wonderful man. Then he was about 35 years old, married and with two kids. On the first day that circumstance brought us together, he was friendly yet firm, you could see straight away that he was well cultured and a man any lady would fall for.

Well I didn't fall but we became close friends. Very close friends but there was nothing sexual between us o. Gradually he became my good friend, my mentor, my confidant, just like a big elder brother to me and frankly, he behaved himself all through and I never gave our relationship any thought beyond being platonic. I will tell him everything that was happening to me and he would advise me, make me laugh and be there for me. Even when I met my soon to be husband, I told him about it and in a way, he helped me accept to start a relationship with my husband to be. In fact if not for him, I wouldn't have said yes to my husband to be

I really cannot explain how it all changed, but the bottom line was that three years ago, which was about five years after I knew him, our relationship moved from being platonic to being sexual. I am not laying the blame on anybody, but after I started a relationship with my soon to be husband, I kept comparing both men and frankly, the difference was like Coke and water.


While my older friend was friendly, and outgoing and fun and matured, my husband to be was dull and timid and uninteresting! I complained to my older friend and he would always encourage me to stick to my husband to be and with time I started loving my husband to be too in his own way.

Two years ago, this my older friend’s wife passed away. I felt like my own flesh and blood passed away, cause as much as I was involved with my older friend, the line of his family and wife, was a line I never crossed. He loved and cherished his wife and family so much that I always prayed for my husband to be to love and cherish me as such! Anyway, after his wife passed away, I saw my older friend’s pain and misery as he mourned his wife and I saw him gradually regain his self again.

About six months ago, we had a family engagement and he was invited. My entire family was present and he was also present. I introduced him to all my elder ones(I happen to be the last born o). My husband to be was also present and everybody got along great. The occasion was also very successful. Last week after my introduction, my older friend told me that he wanted to see me. When we saw, he started by apologising for what he had to say and told me that he would like to ask for my permission to talk to my elder sister for a relationship that might lead to marriage.


I just sat there tongue-tied. I couldn’t say anything then. Since then, I have been giving the whole talk deep thoughts. My elder sister is divorced with two kids, which my older friend knows. My sister is a nice, wify material who was unfortunate with her marriage. She has been divorced now for more than 15years. She is about the same age with my older friend and I know they would both make a wonderful couple together.

My dilemma is that me and my older friend have been involved severally sexually, now he wants to start a relationship with my elder sister. I have not given him a go ahead and I know that if I say no, he would respect my decision but I really love him and would want to see him happy and fulfilled just as he had made me happy and fulfilled all these years and noting that I too would be married soon, I would love my sister and my older friend to be happy too together(and I am sure they would make a wonderful couple.


Please I need reader’s advice fast, as my older friend has started disturbing me that I am yet to give him a reply to what he asked of me.[/b]

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You already know what to do so no need for advice...
Am sure what you need is confirmation.
Give him the go ahead

Tiz as easy as abc, give him the go ahead and forget all the time you guys were involved intimately. Tiz also time for you to really face n acknowledge your husband. Your sister needs to be happy n your older friend also. Just sacrifice for their happiness. And if they get married eventually, I'd advise you to keep off the older Friend!

hahhaaaha, the man hit jackpot, banged you and his seeking your permission to bang your sister. great!!! you will share same Di****""Ck and moan same way on his bed. good luck to you and your sister.

Birds of a feather flocks together. Responsible ones will consent and fasttrack thing while bad boys will flare up.

This is going to be interesting *spreads matt*

This isn't as tough as it appears to be. I think the lady is simply jealous.

Jesus! Another long post for me to read...

I think she should stylishly ask her sister if she'll be comfortable dating someone she has had sex with. And from the narrator's story, she has feelings 4 dis 'older friend'. If she cant control her sexual feelings towards this friend then it'll be a bad idea to allow him go ahead with her sister as this may lead to unforseen trouble.