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Which Hurts The Most,pain Or Guilt? by Mikkie31(m): 11:29am On Dec 31, 2014
Every day we make choices we sometimes come to regret. We hurt the people we had claim to love,and we are sometimes hurt by the people who claimed to love us.


Have you ever been hurt so much that the pain you felt on the inside was seemingly endless?


Have you ever hurt someone so much that you wish the guilt you were feeling could go away so soon?

Which proves(proved) unbearable;the pain we try so much to hide or the guilt we feel on the inside?

Which hurt(s)the most,pain or guilt?
Re: Which Hurts The Most,pain Or Guilt? by Nobody: 11:33am On Dec 31, 2014
Often times,only people who have active conscience own up to being at fault and feel guilt...It is often the resultant pain from other people's disappointment to us that we count.
Re: Which Hurts The Most,pain Or Guilt? by Mikkie31(m): 11:38am On Dec 31, 2014
Veralaw:
Only people who have consciences feel guilt
couldnt agree more smiley
Re: Which Hurts The Most,pain Or Guilt? by Evarqueen(f): 11:39am On Dec 31, 2014
Guilt o...God help us

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Re: Which Hurts The Most,pain Or Guilt? by Mikkie31(m): 11:41am On Dec 31, 2014
Veralaw:
Often times,only people who have active conscience own up to being at fault and feel guilt...It is often the resultant pain from other people's disappointment to us that we count.
i would agree that's a little bit of selfishness on our side as humans.
Re: Which Hurts The Most,pain Or Guilt? by dechandel(f): 11:42am On Dec 31, 2014
Its definitely guilt

Wishing you didnt do that
Wishing you could undo what you did
That feeling of anxiety because you've done something wrong angry

Na guilt
Re: Which Hurts The Most,pain Or Guilt? by Allureoftheseas(m): 11:58am On Dec 31, 2014
Guilt...... Damn.
Re: Which Hurts The Most,pain Or Guilt? by Mikkie31(m): 12:07pm On Dec 31, 2014
dechandel:
Its definitely guilt

Wishing you didnt do that
Wishing you could undo what you did
That feeling of anxiety because you've done something wrong angry

Na guilt
i know the feeling ma'am. I think we all do. sad
Re: Which Hurts The Most,pain Or Guilt? by Nobody: 12:53pm On Dec 31, 2014
I think it's pain. Yet to experience guilt though.
Re: Which Hurts The Most,pain Or Guilt? by ShakurM(m): 12:58pm On Dec 31, 2014
Pain!
Re: Which Hurts The Most,pain Or Guilt? by Mikkie31(m): 2:27pm On Dec 31, 2014
MzPreshie:
I think it's pain. Yet to experience guilt though.
i can only pray you don't get to experience guilt. Pain can fade with time,as u learn to forgive those who hurt u,but guilt never fades because it is easier to forgive others than to forgive yourself.
Re: Which Hurts The Most,pain Or Guilt? by Chizzy20(f): 2:48pm On Dec 31, 2014
Guilt cos ones mind wont b at peace.
Re: Which Hurts The Most,pain Or Guilt? by Nobody: 3:22pm On Dec 31, 2014
Guilt hurts most.
Sometimes,you wonder if he/she wl forgive you
Re: Which Hurts The Most,pain Or Guilt? by Nobody: 3:48pm On Dec 31, 2014
Mikkie31:
i can only pray you don't get to experience guilt. Pain can fade with time,as u learn to forgive those who hurt u,but guilt never fades because it is easier to forgive others than to forgive yourself.
Oh... Guess it could be worse then.
Re: Which Hurts The Most,pain Or Guilt? by barackodam: 4:04pm On Dec 31, 2014
It depends naa, what kinda pain and what kinda guilt.

To nonchalant ppl, its obviously pain, coz they always seem to care less, but to soft hearted ppl, it's definitely guilt
Re: Which Hurts The Most,pain Or Guilt? by youngice(m): 4:55pm On Dec 31, 2014
Guilt is hurts worse
Eg- someone can wrong you ,you feel bad for a period of time and get over it,you recall it later and smile
But if you wrong someone , you may or may not feel anything initially but subsequently ,provided you have a conscience you end up feeling remorseful
Re: Which Hurts The Most,pain Or Guilt? by youngice(m): 4:55pm On Dec 31, 2014
Guilt hurts worse
Eg- someone can wrong you ,you feel bad for a period of time and get over it,you recall it later and smile
But if you wrong someone , you may or may not feel anything initially but subsequently ,provided you have a conscience you end up feeling remorseful
Re: Which Hurts The Most,pain Or Guilt? by Afrok(m): 5:34pm On Dec 31, 2014
Guilt? Nah... I've tried enough not to hurt others
Pain? Maybe... But I've learnt to be strong and overcome the pain(s) as early as possible.

If only we treat others the way we wished to be treated, may be guilt and pain wouldn't have existed thereby making people to part ways on mutual consent.
Re: Which Hurts The Most,pain Or Guilt? by Mikkie31(m): 12:06pm On Jan 01, 2015
I think most people would agree on guilt. Pain hurts but Guilt stings,you never really get over it.

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