too_soon:

What if someone else come and sniff her away under my nose?

jibbygirl:

if u really want 2 be with d gurl and make sure ur feelings aren't of lust.

sexyLeamon:

well if you are so madly in love with her, then tell her

too_soon:

i tried telling her jokingly that quote"if i say i love you how will you feel" She said please you know i love someone else, that she does not want to loose me as a friend, meaning if she says NO i might decide to move on. so i quickly told her i was just trying to see how she can defend herself against willing admirers.

iice:

Would you want something like that to happen to you if the case was the reversed?

leki2:

love is but the discovery of ourselves in others and the delight in the recognition of it, just be her very good friend as be on standby and the day she shows the feelings u can give it a yes but remember loyalty is the lifeblood of true friends. you can be her best friend even if it means u are not going to get married to her.

steve49ja:

Dude you are in a tight spot
if you keep a distance she'll know youre avoiding her maybe because you have feelings for her,
if you get too close she'll know youre trying to take advantage of her
ill say you allow her take the first step, don't condemn her boyfriend
also don't even think of those smart words like what if i say i love you and all. . .
warrever you do don't reveal your feelings aight?
similar case happened wiff Bree Van de Kamp and their Pharmacist (desperate house wives) trust me it didnt end well
Think with your head
Gd luck

You really understand how i feel, maybe i should move to a new apartment very far away from hers because right now we are leaving in the same neighbourhood. i believe this is the reason why she don't give me breathing space and she knows all my daily activities, and always want to be part of it except my work. What do you think?

emmeno:

@ Poster

According to Steve, You're too available for her. You are not giving her the chance to make her miss you. Do you think she wouldnt even be suspecting that her guy has another gurl who he's tappin that thang with, she would and as long as you are always there, she'll keep seeing you as a friend and not someone she can't hold lie her boi also.

Just choose one day, and get lost. Let her call you but take your time, even tell her that you can't come out because you want to finish a novel or you're seeing a movie, she'll want to come around, tell her you would want to watch it alone (in a funny way though, but mean it).

Let her miss you, then maybe she might see you in a different way. Its then she'll notice how ugly or fine you are, or how she'll want a guy as short as you are or tall, you know.

steve49ja:

you have to be smart dude
what did u tell her?
your phone waz on charge or
you didnt feel like talking to her?

steve49ja:

wow that excuse is not too good oh

Riodiao:

The green light chancing is allowed. Go and possess ur possession because this is the month of possession

too_soon:

Thanks Riodiao, you dey feel me, but when do i tell her?

vincentont:

@ poster,

the issue here is 'when do u tell her u loved her'.
well one tin i want u to blive is this:if she is meant for u definitely somhw it will work out
dnt rush ova it dnt try to manipulate tins concening d relationship
i was once in a tight rope like this,somehw we started dating
and the relationship is booming.brother dnt stay too far from ur platonic friend because
she is not a kid,she knws what u feel about her and if u stay far away from her
it will definitely increase what u feel for each other,the next tin u will see ursef on bed wit her.
the botom line here is both of u are in love.take it or leave it u will end up dating her
that is what i see.