Wrong choice of words but I'm so angry sharing this, how can a grown up 34 year old be so foolish in decision making process.
He wants to assist me financially so I can boost my new moving business of male Tshirts, it's working for me within my coast but why does he have to give a condition that I have to change my line of business to female clothing with reasons that my current business will draw guys closer to me and before you know it one man's jewel becomes another man's own.
What's all these nonsense, has women not been dealing on guy's clothings before now? Abel he should evaporate with his assistance and leave me alone. I'm talking about how to make life conducive and bearable for us and future family, he's is busy roasting black with insecurity. I'm even tired of all these Abel, for how long?

are u sure??

And u call urself a wife material and a good girlfriend .....mtschew......
simple sit and compromise/dialogue u can't do

After u finish here, pls go n air it on radio. D pope must hear this

herald9:


even tho you post this on business section... it's still not my business

Op even mentions his name...Damn!

if he's d one that is foolish or u . u will soon understand.... #alawada

So sorry about it,there are a few options you can apply

1.Talk to him to see reasons with you
2.Hearken to what he says
3.Leave him

Brandnew2:



Op even mentions his name...Damn!

didnt mention his name, that was an error. Whatever u guys say its ok just wanted to vent out my anger. My bad but I feel better now

Two things here:
1 - he's jealous/insecure and;
2 - he doesn't trust you (to repel guys when they advance).
That places a big question mark in the kinda r/ship you two are in.

You don't have to be angry. Just make him see reasons why his stance/fears are unwarranted.

A lady doesn't necessarily have to deal in male shirts before they're 'snatched' from their partner. Just talk to him.

All the best

tayoast:
Two things here:
1 - he's jealous/insecure and;
2 - he doesn't trust you (to repel guys when they advance).
That places a big question mark in the kinda r/ship you two are in.

You don't have to be angry. Just make him see reasons why his stance/fears are unwarranted.

A lady doesn't necessarily have to deal in male shirts before they're 'snatched' from their partner. Just talk to him.

All the best

u just elevated me with that advice thanks loads but I'm really kinda stubborn on decisions and he is too but I'm trying my best. Sometimes I feel the best thing in life is to stay without marrying so that I can be solely responsible for my decisions and how I lead my life and the my mistakes and corrections. It's somehow better. So that when I become very old with age, I can look back and count my blessings and interventions in my life.

chocolateme:
u just elevated me with that advice thanks loads but I'm really kinda stubborn on decisions and he is too but I'm trying my best. Sometimes I feel the best thing in life is to stay without marrying so that I can be solely responsible for my decisions and how I lead my life and the my mistakes and corrections. It's somehow better. So that when I become very old with age, I can look back and count my blessings and interventions in my life.

like they say, such thought is selfish...but why do people think marriage is problematic and you need patience and tolerance to live with the opposite sex? Why do people get married only to break-up? Can marriage be without issue?

mcsnup:
like they say, such thought is selfish...but why do people think marriage is problematic and you need patience and tolerance to live with the opposite sex? Why do people get married only to break-up? Can marriage be without issue?

Without patience and tolerance, no relationship can survive.

A marriage without issue? Non-existent.
There will always be issue once two pple start living together.

Your guy is right

I wonder why you ladies trust yourselves so much..

I will advice your guy to start hawking female wears, pants, bras and jewellery. I guess you will be very happy when a lady calls him on phone to bring her some wears at her hotel room.

Smh.. Most times women lack logic.

It's very simple; either you design your 2015 yourself or you subconsciously fall into another person's designs. Guess what they've planned for you? NOT MUCH.
More heart attack takes place on Monday morning between 8:00am and 10:00am. According to recent studies, 85% of the general public are going to jobs that they hate. They are working on jobs that do not challenge them. They get sick thinking about going. People are literally dying going to work.
I am working on a side project that doesn't affect your current job/work. I won't promise you much but you should be making an extra $1000 to $2000 working on this side project this month, without it affecting your current job/work. I only need 8 goal getters to partner with me. If you are interested or need more information send me a message.

@OP

I see reasons with your guy , i had a friend that was into the same line of business with yours, she sells designer clothing for Men,But immediately she got engaged, the hubby stopped her immediately cos some Men will purposely ask her to come collect their payment at home. lolz.

Some Men can be crazy my dear, so your guy is acting fast before water pass Garri.

justi4jesu:
@OP

I see reasons with your guy , i had a friend that was into the same line of business with yours, she sells designer clothing for Men,But immediately she got engaged, the hubby stopped her immediately cos some Men will purposely ask her to come collect their payment at home. lolz.

Some Men can be crazy my dear, so your guy is acting fast before water pass Garri.

No be lie, na u nailed the matter on head....

tonjeola:

No be lie, na u nailed the matter on head....

Abi na

chocolateme:
Wrong choice of words but I'm so angry sharing this, how can a grown up 34 year old be so foolish in decision making process.
He wants to assist me financially so I can boost my new moving business of male Tshirts, it's working for me within my coast but why does he have to give a condition that I have to change my line of business to female clothing with reasons that my current business will draw guys closer to me and before you know it one man's jewel becomes another man's own.
What's all these nonsense, has women not been dealing on guy's clothings before now? Abel he should evaporate with his assistance and leave me alone. I'm talking about how to make life conducive and bearable for us and future family, he's is busy roasting black with insecurity. I'm even tired of all these Abel, for how long?

Its all about trust. I'm married and I'm into human hair and atimes my wife over reacts because I do home deliveries sometimes but truth is when your partner loves you, there's bound to be jealousy. You just need to let him understand that the growth of your business is good for your relationship. If he really means well, he should partner with you so he can use attract more customers. Sometimes, my wife makes deliveries and its a partnership. When she considers the stress of making deliveries and handling clients even she has realised that there's no place for konji.

He just needs to trust you more

fijiano202:
And u call urself a wife material and a good girlfriend .....mtschew......
simple sit and compromise/dialogue u can't do

u must b really something else. Compromise her career and future. Guy go for spiritual bath

tayoast:


Without patience and tolerance, no relationship can survive.

A marriage without issue? Non-existent.
There will always be issue once two pple start living together.

I have seen it fullproof. Its not to say there are no trial times but all is dealt with understanding and support...its just that the world paints so much negativity that certain things like trust, love, faithfulness, kindness have all become foreign or some un-attainable feet, replacing happiness for money, success for wealth, love for lust, smartness for con-ness..such negativism are feed from suckling

Except u r ugly, even at that some men r too funny, young lady don't trust yourself too much. There's a limit your stregnth can take u to. I cannot blame d guy' kiss daniel.' If u want to leave him na u sabi. Try what he said n c what's up b4 blabbing infacts female clothing sale better cos they r too found of their look unlike men. Don't b surprise that some of your male custormers r only buying frm u in order to buy some thing else. I've done that B4 n it worked out for me. Woman will remain woman, so vulnarable. Whatever is avoidable to me, I think should b avoidedm simple

Noblegrex, u are on point.good money

noblegrex:
Except u r ugly, even at that some men r too funny, young lady don't trust yourself too much. There's a limit your stregnth can take u to. I cannot blame d guy' kiss daniel.' If u want to leave him na u sabi. Try what he said n c what's up b4 blabbing infacts female clothing sale better cos they r too found of their look unlike men. Don't b surprise that some of your male custormers r only buying frm u in order to buy some thing else. I've done that B4 n it worked out for me. Woman will remain woman, so vulnarable. Whatever is avoidable to me, I think should b avoidedm simple

Abi o. I stil wonder why this lady is so desperate to sell men's clothes. Abi Na the tin wey dey under the trouser dey hungry am ni?

Girls making stupi..d decisions since 21 Bc. This one has lost her sense of priority and is now putting her business first before her relationship. Forgetting the implications.

You bf has said what worries him and you are still insisting on selling men's clothing. The guy know wassup mehn. My guy cant marry public toilet. Lol

Because she has started one small business, she is already talking about living single, forgetting the future consequences. Later she will come back here crying that she saw her bf's wedding iv somewhere. Foolishness.

Your man is warning you now and you are not listening. Hope it will not be too late before you realise your mistakes. Better correct your ways before its too late. Well, its your cup of tea.

I used to have a foolish girlfriend who was into photography. A male dominated biz for that matter. This girl kept asking me to trust her no matter what. Even when this girl spent nights in hotels in other states in the same room with guys! Claiming to be 'editing'. I still bone. Dey form responsible man. Omo she started refusing to pick my calls on those nights o. O boy, sleep for where.


But mehn, I started noticing many differences with her. Not long, rumor started spreading that she was sleeping around. Till I caught her red handed. Choi!

Choi! She as she dey look like thief wey dey just catch. To beg come hard am.

Even If i didn't walk away, the prospect that half of the male guests to our wedding would have fvckd her is still something I cant take.

So, I stepped bro. Unto the next one.

chocolateme:
Wrong choice of words but I'm so angry sharing this, how can a grown up 34 year old be so foolish in decision making process.
He wants to assist me financially so I can boost my new moving business of male Tshirts, it's working for me within my coast but why does he have to give a condition that I have to change my line of business to female clothing with reasons that my current business will draw guys closer to me and before you know it one man's jewel becomes another man's own.
What's all these nonsense, has women not been dealing on guy's clothings before now? Abel he should evaporate with his assistance and leave me alone. I'm talking about how to make life conducive and bearable for us and future family, he's is busy roasting black with insecurity. I'm even tired of all these Abel, for how long?

u for just dey sell condom

2oddMASTER:
u for just dey sell condom

LMAO!

herald9:


even tho you post this on business section... it's still not my business

*falls off bed*

bettermike:

Abi o. I stil wonder why this lady is so desperate to sell men's clothes. Abi Na the tin wey dey under the trouser dey hungry am ni?

na over sabi dey worry her. Thank God she said d truth that its d man sponsoring her if nt ....

what of cain?