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8 Conversation No-no’s On A First Date. by Chilug(m): 9:20am On Jan 14, 2015
1 Marriage.
No, no, no and another big NO! Nothing scares off a partner more than suddenly making plans for where, when and how you’ll get married. It’s like you’re already building a wall around your partner to make sure he or she sticks around for better or for worse, in sickness or in health.

#2 Moving in.
What? When did u meet this person. Ok, what he/she is slob. Be careful.


#3 Kids.
Unlike marriage and moving in, kids are for life. You’re talking about a real live human being who’s going to be a permanent fixture in your life. You need to feed, clothe, bathe and educate them.
Talking about kids in general is actually fine. It shows your partner what your views are on having children. But talking about kids you’ll be having with your partner may be a little too much for a new relationship

#4 The people you’ve dated.
Often times, there come questions like, “You’re such a catch! Why have you been single for so long?”
To keep yourself from going into too much detail about all the relationships you’ve been in, try to summarize your dating history as best as you can. Try something like “The last guy I dated wasn’t really on the same page as me. So we ended it on good terms. That’s it.

#5 That one ex.
There will always be that one ex who had the biggest impact on you. He or she may have changed your views on dating, on yourself, your career, or just about anything.

You may be over this ex, and he or she may no longer be a looming shadow over your future relationships, but if you talk about this ex’s influence more than you should, your new beau may think you’re not over him or her yet.

#6 Family problems.
If you come from a troubled family or are currently experiencing some problems with your family, a new partner may not be the best person to talk to about it. Sure, they can provide support and guidance, but there are some things that shouldn’t be shared with people outside of the family.

#7 Money matters.
Bring up money talk too early in the relationship and your partner may start to think you might be in it for the money or you want to start controlling each other’s finances.
Its ok If you’ve only been dating for a while.

#8 Your opinion on things that matter to him or her. It’s good to have an opinion and to voice it out in the least offensive way possible. But if you have some criticism for something your partner cares deeply about, it may not be the time to voice it out just yet.
Re: 8 Conversation No-no’s On A First Date. by iceberylin(m): 9:55am On Jan 14, 2015
Dont also tell her how much your life sucks and how its never going to get better angry

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Re: 8 Conversation No-no’s On A First Date. by Nobody: 9:58am On Jan 14, 2015
Don't ask a girl her age too undecided
Re: 8 Conversation No-no’s On A First Date. by Chilug(m): 10:20am On Jan 14, 2015
MzNelly:
Don't ask a girl her age too undecided
That's a killjoy question.
Re: 8 Conversation No-no’s On A First Date. by LoveMEBaby(m): 10:26am On Jan 14, 2015
iceberylin:
Dont also tell her how much your life sucks and how its never going to get better angry
some guys are just crayyyyyyy
Re: 8 Conversation No-no’s On A First Date. by LoveMEBaby(m): 10:26am On Jan 14, 2015
MzNelly:
Don't ask a girl her age too undecided
@dp seems u're looking at my peepee
Re: 8 Conversation No-no’s On A First Date. by Nobody: 10:44am On Jan 14, 2015
LoveMEBaby:
@dp seems u're looking at my peepee

What's a "peepee?"
Re: 8 Conversation No-no’s On A First Date. by LoveMEBaby(m): 11:37am On Jan 14, 2015
MzNelly:


What's a "peepee?"
lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
Re: 8 Conversation No-no’s On A First Date. by Nobody: 11:42am On Jan 14, 2015
LoveMEBaby:
lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed

Talk. undecided
Re: 8 Conversation No-no’s On A First Date. by LoveMEBaby(m): 12:14pm On Jan 14, 2015
MzNelly:


Talk. undecided
kiss kiss kiss kiss

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