carefreewannabe:


Well, I am the kind of person that is either interested or isn't. If I am not interested, there is little a guy can do but some women are different. A friend of mine needs a lot of attention before she can open up so it's really up to you how you go on about it. I think a few weeks, if you are really interested in a girl, is ok but months is too much, I would say. Whatever you do, don't let any lady treat you rude and don't act desperate. You must be charming.

I am not desperate gan....

Charming..i will sure get lot of charm 4m herbalist,lol.

Dont mind me,I understand u

Chillisauce:
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So we were all in the staff bus, he was sitting next to me. Said hi. I knew I hadn't seen the face before. I see so many faces anyways. So I replied with a sweet smile.

*hello*.

Immediately one of my south African pallies started giving me correct gist before we got to our hotel .


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I love how you create suspense.

When you sweetly smiled at him, was it because you liked him immediately?

I am looking forward to the rest of the story.

Odunharry:

I am not desperate gan....

Charming..i will sure get lot of charm 4m herbalist,lol.

Dont mind me,I understand u

I didn't think you were desperate but this is what some girls think when you give them attention. So by any means, avoid making such an impression. This is what I was trying to say.

carefreewannabe:


Well, I am the kind of person that is either interested or isn't. If I am not interested, there is little a guy can do but some women are different. A friend of mine needs a lot of attention before she can open up so it's really up to you how you go on about it. I think a few weeks, if you are really interested in a girl, is ok but months is too much, I would say. Whatever you do, don't let any lady treat you rude and don't act desperate. You must be charming.

Lol. But at first you thought that your current beau wasn't your type....

I think hesitation is typical to women.

carefreewannabe:




I didn't think you were desperate but this is what some girls think when you give them attention. So by any means, avoid making such an impression. This is what I was trying to say.

understand better now..thanks

softysparky:

Have not yet found him, I will share my story when I do.

Good morning.

Search no more. I, that is here is worth much more than those hoping.

Can we update this thread by April?

EfemenaXY:


Nein.

Ich schätze meine Privatsphäre.


***Smirks***

I hope the spambot doesn't get me for this though...

Google translate?

carefreewannabe:


I love how you create suspense.

When you sweetly smiled at him, was it because you liked him immediately?

I am looking forward to the rest of the story.

Not really then, I always smile at all of them. I was like a lioness in plenty lions Den.

IDEApro:


Search no more. I, that is here is worth much more than those hoping.

Can we update this thread by April?

Oga..
You never marry?
Chaaiii...

ihedinobi2:

Lol. But at first you thought that your current beau wasn't your type....

I think hesitation is typical to women.

That was my ex and yes, this is what I thought but my girlfriend used to date his friend and so we had the opportunity to get to know each other better and this is how it developed. If he had put "pressure" on me, we would not have come together. I feel quickly suffocated by too much attention, I am a sensitive person, a man must find a balance between enough attention and my need to feel free.


I have opened a new thread for you and Odunharry and others who are still, actively or passively, searching. Come and let's discuss such issues there, if you like. I am sure TV01 can help many people as his way to marriage was a long one. He can encourage plenty of people. And the other married folks, too.

Chillisauce:


Not really then, I always smile at all of them. I was like a lioness in plenty lions Den.

I am sure, you were.

Akranez:


Oga..
You never marry?
Chaaiii...

Marry ke? You see all this love stories, na icing sugar.

BTW I dey wait for freecocoa or softysparky

IDEApro:


Make I be abeg cos that guy made me feel jealous. I almost had HBP for una lovey dovey

It was all play o, na E-romance.

If my BF catch am, e no funny o .

IDEApro:


Marry ke? You see all this love stories, na icing sugar.

BTW I dey wait for freecocoa or softysparky

Haaaa
Softysparky ke..
Bros don't go dia o..

freecocoa:
It was all play o, na E-romance.

If my BF catch am, e no funny o .

Can we positively contribute to this thread together-ly by June?

carefreewannabe:


What do you mean by impatient?

@bold

I like it.



I am actually thinking to open a new thread because some people complain that we do more than just share stories here.

The married folks could help those who are still in the dating world and yet to find someone.

Yea, that's a good idea, we don't want the thread to lose its purpose.

freecocoa:
Yea, that's a good idea, we don't want the thread to lose its purpose.

I have opened a new one.

IDEApro:


Can we positively contribute to this thread together-ly by June?

I'm taken.

Hush hush, we are derailing, we don't want that.

Akranez:


Haaaa
Softysparky ke..
Bros don't go dia o..

You don bookmark the chic?

IDEApro:


You this comedian I just hope this ain't a silly joke cos you deprived me of good intention

I was sincerely in love with Freecocoa and still is, things didn't work out but I have no regrets. The little time we shared will lives forever in my memory, hmmm too bad yoi never had that attention.

carefreewannabe:


I have opened a new one.

Okies.

IDEApro:


You don bookmark the chic?

No be only bookmark o..
She be my screensaver

chucky234:
I was sincerely in love with Freecocoa and still is, things didn't work out but I have no regrets. The little time we shared will lives forever in my memory, hmmm too bad yoi never had that attention.

Chei...lover boy. This chics ain't loyal. She just confessed she's taken.

IDEApro:


Chei...lover boy. This chics ain't loyal. She just confessed she's taken.

Used to bother me, but I have since moved on.

Akranez:


No be only bookmark o..
She be my screensaver

Na to thief that your phone remain

IDEApro:


Na to thief that your phone remain

lolzzz

ihedinobi2:

What do you mean when you say you woo a girl? What exactly do you do?

Telling a girl what u feel about and she is forming commando for too long...Girls love attention and i am not the type that love giving that attention for a very long time

dein77:


Oya, lemme complete my story. This is a very warm thread.

Trust me: I made the very first move. Politely. Gentlemanly. Courteous. Appeared simple. She was preparing for her one of her HND 2 exams.

After chatting with her for a while, I politely requested for her digits, which she gave me there and then. I just knew she was going to be my wife. I have been praying for a lifetime since my secondary school days...

This is love! I swear i'm loving this thread and your fairy tale-ish story. This thread and the stories here are better than a combo of The notebook,Titanic and the Twilight saga. Na happily ever after me they wish you and your family. Happy sunday!

carefreewannabe:


That was my ex and yes, this is what I thought but my girlfriend used to date his friend and so we had the opportunity to get to know each other better and this is how it developed. If he had put "pressure" on me, we would not have come together. I feel quickly suffocated by too much attention, I am a sensitive person, a man must find a balance between enough attention and my need to feel free.


I have opened a new thread for you and Odunharry and others who are still, actively or passively, searching. Come and let's discuss such issues there, if you like. I am sure TV01 can help many people as his way to marriage was a long one. He can encourage plenty of people. And the other married folks, too.

I'm sure you know what you want and mean by attention. A man hardly ever woos a stranger for a serious relationship.

Lol. I'm neither actively nor passively searching. But thanks for the heads-up.

Odunharry:

Telling a girl what u feel about and she is forming commando for too long...Girls love attention and i am not the type that love giving that attention for a very long time

Are these girls that have known you for a while or girls that just met you?

Thank you op for the lovely thread. You put a smile on my face this Sunday morning.

I love staying indoors. Friends and sometimes family would tell me to try and go out a little bit more. My lovely friend would say - you don't meet people while indoors. She was wrong in my case. Love found me at home.

We lived in the same city both in Nigeria and in the UK. My sister was travelling to Nigeria and his sister needed to send a parcel home. His sister gave him the parcel to give me to pass on to my sister. Somehow that parcel took a few hours to drop. Been married a few years now.