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My Best Friend Dating My Ex Pls Advice by Harrisibor(m): 9:40am On Jan 19, 2015
Ok how do I start!
I have this girl friend who I actually did not take seriously, actually for me it was just another free sex and I intorduced her to my best friend because she kept complaining that I was hiding her so to keep enjoying the sex I just had to introduce her to my best friend and explained things to him dat she was just another free sex

Fastfoward two months later am ready for my introduction with the love of my live and I find my friend acting funny and asking questions about my sex mate which I was already strtegising on how to let go and finaly I confirmed my best friend is asking her out and they just started dating

No I know I am morally not justified to queary her as I already told her I can't marry her dat I as getting marreid to someone else but why is it my best friend of all the guys in the world. He is supposed to be my best man on my wedding day

Now am at loss on how to handle this twwo people am sure our friendship will never remain the same

Pls what do you think I should do or how am I expected to react to all this #confused
Re: My Best Friend Dating My Ex Pls Advice by iceberylin(m): 9:44am On Jan 19, 2015
At least sømeøne values her nøw angry

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Re: My Best Friend Dating My Ex Pls Advice by Beamborla(f): 9:46am On Jan 19, 2015
So you need advice on how to make your friend leave her? Haven't you done enough harm to her? You used her for sex and dump her yet you won't allow someone else give her life value again?

Men are wicked sha! No one knows if the friend is also using her for sex

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Re: My Best Friend Dating My Ex Pls Advice by echobee(f): 9:46am On Jan 19, 2015
iceberylin:
At least sømeøne values her nøw angry
u get sense iceberylin grin. True talk.

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Re: My Best Friend Dating My Ex Pls Advice by dechandel(f): 9:47am On Jan 19, 2015
Smh

So what exactly is your problem now?

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Re: My Best Friend Dating My Ex Pls Advice by Nobody: 9:47am On Jan 19, 2015
You should be happy for her na...The love you couldn't give her, another person is giving her..

Or do you hate her so much that you want her to be happy?

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Re: My Best Friend Dating My Ex Pls Advice by DeCritique(m): 9:52am On Jan 19, 2015
Did you just speak English or are my eyes deceiving me?? undecided

Rephrase the end part of your story for the gods.... Making me so dizzy!!
Re: My Best Friend Dating My Ex Pls Advice by Nobody: 9:57am On Jan 19, 2015
u really don't have much sense. u used her for free sex then dumped her for another n u r crying about ur friend dating her? which of the two evils is worse? that's even if what ur friend did can b considered wrong. u r just looking for insults.
Re: My Best Friend Dating My Ex Pls Advice by Harrisibor(m): 9:57am On Jan 19, 2015
Dis is my problem. How do I keep relating with my best friend? paraventure they get married how will the three of us be confortable visiting?

Mind u this guy has been my friend all my life

Is it wise to still keep them close or still use him as my best man? These are really my problems why must it be my best friend?
Re: My Best Friend Dating My Ex Pls Advice by MizEmpress(f): 9:59am On Jan 19, 2015
Everyone deserves to be happy, since you felt she wasn't good enough for you then let her be. I just hope your friend treats her better and doesn't see her as a "sex mate" too despite all you must have told him angry
Re: My Best Friend Dating My Ex Pls Advice by Skillfullulu(m): 10:05am On Jan 19, 2015
If u call her ur ex let her remain ur ex, leave her and let her live her life.
Likewise your friend he has is own choice. Let em both be.

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Re: My Best Friend Dating My Ex Pls Advice by buchisom1(m): 10:09am On Jan 19, 2015
Beamborla:
So you need advice on how to make your friend leave her? Haven't you done enough harm to her? You used her for sex and dump her yet you won't allow someone else give her life value again?

Men are wicked sha! No one knows if the friend is also using her for sex
point of correction d gal choose to b used...nobdy forced her into sex so stop dat men are wicked talk...evry relationshp anybdy venture into means der is a profit in it coz if der is no profit ...she will step out..so dont judge, d gal has evrytin in her hand...she choose to b used

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Re: My Best Friend Dating My Ex Pls Advice by iceberylin(m): 10:22am On Jan 19, 2015
echobee:

u get sense iceberylin grin. True talk.
Na nøw yøu knøw undecided
Re: My Best Friend Dating My Ex Pls Advice by naijaboiy: 10:33am On Jan 19, 2015
Instead of you to be advised,,you'll simply be bashed lipsrsealed

Sorry Op undecided
Re: My Best Friend Dating My Ex Pls Advice by naijaboiy: 10:34am On Jan 19, 2015
Beamborla:
So you need advice on how to make your friend leave her? Haven't you done enough harm to her? You used her for sex and dump her yet you won't allow someone else give her life value again?

Men and women can be wicked sha! No one knows if the friend is also using her for sex
Re: My Best Friend Dating My Ex Pls Advice by blueandbirds(m): 11:05am On Jan 19, 2015
Stop generalising cus of this dude, dats a big fallacy, cus of his own stupidity does not mean every guys are wicked, he is jus a confused being..
Beamborla:
So you need advice on how to make your friend leave her? Haven't you done enough harm to her? You used her for sex and dump her yet you won't allow someone else give her life value again?

Men are wicked sha! No one knows if the friend is also using her for sex
Re: My Best Friend Dating My Ex Pls Advice by Tymax(m): 11:46am On Jan 19, 2015
That's a bad friend. Today it's your ex, tomorrow he may be after your wife. Beware of bad friends. Plus, change your best man.

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Re: My Best Friend Dating My Ex Pls Advice by Missmossy(f): 11:51am On Jan 19, 2015
Chai! You and your friend aint different from each other undecided why complain?
Re: My Best Friend Dating My Ex Pls Advice by amacastel: 1:13pm On Jan 19, 2015
Am shocked and short of words . We pray to God to fight witches and wizards in our life some of them are among oue so call ex.
@ op u are an enemy of progess God is watching u am sure ur friend will decline being ur best man cos u don't want his happiness 1 mans meat is another man's poison.
Re: My Best Friend Dating My Ex Pls Advice by mrkay101(m): 1:52pm On Jan 19, 2015
some human beings can be selfish ooo...


#cheers
Re: My Best Friend Dating My Ex Pls Advice by tiwalademi(f): 2:41pm On Jan 19, 2015
Someone valued what u tarnished


Dnt act funny,just let the two lovebirds be


Someone wu knws dat u tarnished ha and still find her amazing

Everybody won't b a fool like you
Re: My Best Friend Dating My Ex Pls Advice by echobee(f): 3:06pm On Jan 19, 2015
iceberylin:

Na nøw yøu knøw undecided
yes! Na now i know cheesy
Re: My Best Friend Dating My Ex Pls Advice by 2goodbobo(m): 5:22pm On Jan 19, 2015
You should be ashamed of yourself for even posting this and asking for advice. One Man poison is another man's meat.

You don't appreciate her, he does. So how is that too hard for you to swallow. Move the heck on and let them be. Smh

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Re: My Best Friend Dating My Ex Pls Advice by Beamborla(f): 5:23pm On Jan 19, 2015
buchisom1:
point of correction d gal choose to b used...nobdy forced her into sex so stop dat men are wicked talk...evry relationshp anybdy venture into means der is a profit in it coz if der is no profit ...she will step out..so dont judge, d gal has evrytin in her hand...she choose to b used

Yes, boss! shocked
Re: My Best Friend Dating My Ex Pls Advice by Beamborla(f): 5:25pm On Jan 19, 2015
blueandbirds:
Stop generalising cus of this dude, dats a big fallacy, cus of his own stupidity does not mean every guys are wicked, he is jus a confused being..
I was careful enough not to use 'all men are wicked'
Re: My Best Friend Dating My Ex Pls Advice by Nobody: 5:31pm On Jan 19, 2015
he is a dangerous friend. in d world of guyz, such act is a big turn off. whether it was casual or not is immaterial

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Re: My Best Friend Dating My Ex Pls Advice by Harrisibor(m): 6:15pm On Jan 19, 2015
correctguy0900:
he is a dangerous friend. in d world of guyz, such act is a big turn off. whether it was casual or not is immaterial
that's exactly my thought
Re: My Best Friend Dating My Ex Pls Advice by femialade(m): 6:20pm On Jan 19, 2015
correctguy0900:
he is a dangerous friend. in d world of guyz, such act is a big turn off. whether it was casual or not is immaterial
Birds of same feather. If the guys loves her I see no reason y they can't be date each other.
Re: My Best Friend Dating My Ex Pls Advice by femialade(m): 6:22pm On Jan 19, 2015
Abeg make everyone comot their head, I won stone this wicked guy.
Re: My Best Friend Dating My Ex Pls Advice by MrDojo(m): 6:22pm On Jan 19, 2015
Harrisibor:
Ok how do I start!
I have this girl friend who I actually did not take seriously, actually for me it was just another free sex and I intorduced her to my best friend because she kept complaining that I was hiding her so to keep enjoying the sex I just had to introduce her to my best friend and explained things to him dat she was just another free sex

Fastfoward two months later am ready for my introduction with the love of my live and I find my friend acting funny and asking questions about my sex mate which I was already strtegising on how to let go and finaly I confirmed my best friend is asking her out and they just started dating

No I know I am morally not justified to queary her as I already told her I can't marry her dat I as getting marreid to someone else but why is it my best friend of all the guys in the world. He is supposed to be my best man on my wedding day

Now am at loss on how to handle this twwo people am sure our friendship will never remain the same

Pls what do you think I should do or how am I expected to react to all this #confused



Bro yur freind f+uck up jare..... Der is a guy code to d@ man angry.....except he is goin to marry d@ girl den its alright...den u ave to STFU and face yur own marriage.... tongue
Re: My Best Friend Dating My Ex Pls Advice by pretydiva(f): 6:49pm On Jan 19, 2015
D way wey God go tk punish sm guys ehnn,e go b like film 4 deir eyes..shakin my head,hand,nose,buttocks 4 u

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Re: My Best Friend Dating My Ex Pls Advice by iceberylin(m): 7:57pm On Jan 19, 2015
echobee:

yes! Na now i know cheesy
You wicked oooo sad

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