NaJa HaJe:

you are telling the truth then the girls you hang around with are crackheads, . . but i think credit is the last thing they'll be asking for.

Its not good to generalise but they do ask. It has happened to me before.

NaJa HaJe:




@poster

The only reason there are so much threads bashing Naija babes is simply because its more interesting to talk about. In the media, negative propaganda sells quicker faster and juicier than Positive news. What kind of communication will precede thread beginning with '' OH!! my NAIJA GIRLis the bomb, what y'all think''

Also, this is the romance section which simply means most of the discussions on here will be Agony Aunt types. (You get my drift?)

You have no right to generalise because you met ONE naija chick who under these circumstances births the penitent question: Where and how you met her!!!

Mind you; I have come in contact with loads or Caribbean girls and majority of them are not a lot to write home about either. (no offence to any on this board)


This is the bigbiggeste I have ever heard. Phone credit is not a demand naija girls or girls in general in the uk make. If you are telling the truth then the girls you hang around with are crackheads, . . but i think credit is the last thing they'll be asking for.

typical naija girls in denial,of course there are a lot of naija girls who r matured and ll not demand bla bla,but a large majority t least in london will demand phone credits and nandos,or havnt you heard the saying in london before that nandos is the headquarters of naija girls?
the day i start stepping to girls who r crackheads is the day you ll need to start praying for a man,sit don there n continue lashing out instead of changing your ways typical insulting ppl instead of facing issues!!

haryorlah:

I've seen lots of topic goin on about ladies and gift and i find it funny! This kind of girls ar just being a disgrace to we others. But veri few girls act like that here in london because london guys hav strategies and play smart. Once a guy had spent 20pounds on a lady and he keep seeing more sign of demand. He checks out straight. He no even need fu*k am because she fit get diseases

abeg you r too much!!exactly jare ,t least you admit its true same as i have seen of many naija girls in london and outside who r like that and its just really sad

@ Poster

There's nothing to be bitter about here;no be today this kain thing start.
For one, i dont think there's anything wrong with a gal asking her boo for things;that doesn't say she is over-materialistic (by the way,evry one's materialistic one way or the other, boy or gal: we all want something diamonds or Ipod).
As long as ur gal gives as much as she demands, there is no problem. We guys make demands as well.

ON one hand, u may see it this way: u probably attracted wat u r as a person. Infact, i feel that you culd have nutured that gal into the kind of person u want witout being bitter. At the end, even if the rel doesnt work out, both of u would av been better pple. Thats wat its all about: being better pple; married or single.

some comments are right,i know nigerian women have this money issues just like any other nationalities,but they deserve some credit.Have been there,done that,to me nigerian women are very homely,i see them as a wifey.if u meet a bad woman use your sense and walk away.

true that

You were referring to girls that you met in London who ask you for phone credit, then why do you have to generalise by saying a whole lot of girls in UK? You should have been specific beforehand. Mind you, the United Kingdom is a unitary state consisting of four countries: England, Northern Ireland, Scotland and Wales.

Quote from: lucabrasi
i must say that not all nigerian girls are like that but a whole lot are, at least in uk,you meet a nigerian girl and the first demand is phone credit,then nandos(headquarters of naijas)

lucabrasi:

typical naija girls in denial,of course there are a lot of naija girls who r matured and ll not demand bla bla,but a large majority t least in london will demand phone credits and nandos,or havnt you heard the saying in london before that nandos is the headquarters of naija girls?
the day i start stepping to girls who r crackheads is the day you ll need to start praying for a man,sit don there n continue lashing out instead of changing your ways typical insulting people instead of facing issues!!abeg you r too much!!exactly jare ,t least you admit its true same as i have seen of many naija girls in london and outside who r like that and its just really sad

amarilo:

Its not good to generalise.

You are absolutely right!

@quuenafrica
first you accuse me of generalising but my quotes which youhave highlighted says otherwise, like i said before"not all nigerian girls are like that"im reffering to the large numbers who are like that not generalising
and btw if you go to wales,england,northern ireland,scotland nigerian girls are the same all over and yes a large percentage are like that

lucabrasi:

in other words,the girl is actually doing him a favour and he should be thankful she didint do more harm, jeez and I'm presuming you r a nigerian girl/woman?

Yes, and am a guy, we should take responsibility for our actions, the girl did not dip her hands into his pockets, he started the buying gift thingy, missus got used to it and started demanding more he refused end of story, because a girl ask us for stuff doesnt mean we have to give it, and if we do we shouldnt blame them for asking, but ourselves for giving for whatever reasons we had forgiving in either been pussyhooked or just be plain stupid, there's is absolutely nothing wrong in a girl asking for stuff

[b]this is what we call induction i.e arguement from particular to universal.even though you've met 100 9ja girls it is not enuff for you to generalise, 90% of 9ja babes are lookin for a conducive platform to exercise their feminism,they are not opportunist like you did painted them.it is you that was unfortunate to experience the bad version of 9ja babes.[b]

Moves:

Yes, and am a guy, we should take responsibility for our actions, the girl did not dip her hands into his pockets, he started the buying gift thingy, missus got used to it and started demanding more he refused end of story, because a girl ask us for stuff doesnt mean we have to give it, and if we do we shouldnt blame them for asking, but ourselves for giving for whatever reasons we had forgiving in either been pussyhooked or just be plain stupid, there's is absolutely nothing wrong in a girl asking for stuff

saying it like that,i guess you r right but then again that kind of attitude doesnt give nigerian girls a good name at the end of the day,if you live in the united kingdom,have you seen the way asian girls are with asina guys?
same as chinese girls and their guys, i v not been to african clubs in the states but in uk a zimbabwe or south african or ghana girl will ask for only alcopops,beer,cole e.t.c if a fellow zimbabwean,south african e.t.c guy was buying them a drink so why is it different with nigerian girls out of the whole of africa?