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Should You Date Someone You Don't Love? by winnieberry(f): 5:25pm On Jan 24, 2015
A guy is asking me out right now ,cute,caring,funny and rich my friends think its ok if I date him But I don't like him what do I do about it?Many girls are alsoo in this kind of dilema but most guys take it as if we want to friendzone them,Most times whe a guy asks a lady out and she says no You hear stuff like this,she too dey form,when she reach menopause she go begin pray for husband.What of if d girl doesn't love the guy should she go into a relationship with someone she doesn't love or even marry the guy?As a lady or a guy Should you go into a relationship with someone you don't love with the hope that love will come later on?What of you don't love the person even after you get into a relationship with them?Pls matured and sincere advice
Re: Should You Date Someone You Don't Love? by bastien: 5:37pm On Jan 24, 2015
Are u sister to Sagna or Bance?


Any way it's ur choice....... if u love him date him if u don't, tell him to give u time to think about it sha
Re: Should You Date Someone You Don't Love? by falconey(m): 6:04pm On Jan 24, 2015
So you want us to believe you don't wanna date him despite knowing he is rich? Crap!!!

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Re: Should You Date Someone You Don't Love? by Nobody: 6:06pm On Jan 24, 2015
I can't do this...
Re: Should You Date Someone You Don't Love? by Nobody: 6:19pm On Jan 24, 2015
Smh... WOMEN!
Re: Should You Date Someone You Don't Love? by Begonia(m): 6:29pm On Jan 24, 2015
If I like a guy and he's the kind of person I want to be with, yes I can date him.
When you love someone, it's because you know him/her. How do you get to know that person? In most cases, isn't by dating?
Re: Should You Date Someone You Don't Love? by asdfjklhaha(f): 6:48pm On Jan 24, 2015
U don't necessarily hav to be in a relationsp wit him. U can be frnds. Kip him in the frnds zone territory, den observe his motives 2wards u, if he's truly sincere as he claims, den u can giv him a chance.
Gudluck sis.
Re: Should You Date Someone You Don't Love? by Equado(m): 6:52pm On Jan 24, 2015
What ever happened to giving him a chance?...then see where it heads(if you love him or no).
Re: Should You Date Someone You Don't Love? by falconey(m): 9:52pm On Jan 24, 2015
asdfjklhaha:
U don't necessarily hav to be in a relationsp wit him. U can be frnds. Kip him in the frnds zone territory, den observe his motives 2wards u, if he's truly sincere as he claims, den u can giv him a chance.
Gudluck sis.
goodluck? Na exam?.....this shows guys are very important to you girls
Re: Should You Date Someone You Don't Love? by asdfjklhaha(f): 9:55pm On Jan 24, 2015
falconey:
goodluck? Na exam?.....this shows guys are very important to you girls

Of cos guys r important 2 girls, and girls r important 2 guys. Its vice versa, there's no need trying 2 pretend.

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Re: Should You Date Someone You Don't Love? by Youngpo413: 12:05am On Jun 18, 2015
asdfjklhaha:


Of cos guys r important 2 girls, and girls r important 2 guys. Its vice versa, there's no need trying 2 pretend.
stop generalizing please,girls are not important to me,who get time with b!tches.
Re: Should You Date Someone You Don't Love? by skyfullofstars(f): 3:18am On Jun 18, 2015
I believe you could go out as pure friends, as if "she were ur girlfriend", and get to know each other without pressures.

I wouldn't get romantically involved with a person I don't like
Re: Should You Date Someone You Don't Love? by decisive(m): 7:24am On Jun 18, 2015
Haba see queson. Are you meeee? Am I youuu? Consent na ur property joor,if u like give. (dey gbadun ma NTA on BBC)
Re: Should You Date Someone You Don't Love? by Nobody: 7:39am On Jun 18, 2015
follow ur heart

Now the question is - what says ur heart?
Re: Should You Date Someone You Don't Love? by 2dice(m): 8:49am On Jun 18, 2015
asdfjklhaha:
U don't necessarily hav to be in a relationsp wit him. U can be frnds. Kip him in the frnds zone territory, den observe his motives 2wards u, if he's truly sincere as he claims, den u can giv him a chance.
Gudluck sis.
kaii ... She bad adviser ... Keep him in the friendzone territory ... Op don't mind her .... If you don't like Him ... Tell him frankly .... Don't friendzone him ...that zone worst pass Hell...
Re: Should You Date Someone You Don't Love? by asdfjklhaha(f): 2:45pm On Jun 18, 2015
2dice:
kaii ... She bad adviser ... Keep him in the friendzone territory ... Op don't mind her .... If you don't like Him ... Tell him frankly .... Don't friendzone him ...that zone worst pass Hell...
That's not true, must u tell every guy u don't like him, all girls hav male friends who are nothing but friends. That's friends zone, u don't hav to date every guy dat comes ur way.
Re: Should You Date Someone You Don't Love? by 2dice(m): 3:24pm On Jun 18, 2015
asdfjklhaha:

That's not true, must u tell every guy u don't like him, all girls hav male friends who are nothing but friends. That's friends zone, u don't hav to date every guy dat comes ur way.
but most ladies... Maga-zone guys in the friendzone... In such a way the guy will think she is playing hard to get ... Friendzone without him being your Maga ... Is so hard to find...
Re: Should You Date Someone You Don't Love? by Nobody: 3:50pm On Jun 18, 2015
winnieberry:
A guy is asking me out right now ,cute,caring,funny and rich my friends think its ok if I date him But I don't like him what do I do about it?Many girls are alsoo in this kind of dilema but most guys take it as if we want to friendzone them,Most times whe a guy asks a lady out and she says no You hear stuff like this,she too dey form,when she reach menopause she go begin pray for husband.What of if d girl doesn't love the guy should she go into a relationship with someone she doesn't love or even marry the guy?As a lady or a guy Should you go into a relationship with someone you don't love with the hope that love will come later on?What of you don't love the person even after you get into a relationship with them?Pls matured and sincere advice

You should date him for a while, i mean spend some time with him. You know attraction grows for we ladies and so if you refuse to spend time with a guy you may never know if he is the real deal but open up and give him a chance if you have done this and you still feel nothing for him, let him go.

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Re: Should You Date Someone You Don't Love? by asdfjklhaha(f): 7:40pm On Jun 18, 2015
2dice:
but most ladies... Maga-zone guys in the friendzone... In such a way the guy will think she is playing hard to get ... Friendzone without him being your Maga ... Is so hard to find...
I don't support d idea of girls turning guys to atm machines. But u guys are d ones who gives dem ur money. If a girl ask u for money, u hav every reason to refuse but u give her then come back as say she's a gold digger and she maga u. U can choose not to giv just as she can choose not to sleep wit u. We all hav choices to make, and whateva our choices are, we must be ready to accept the consequences and not blame others.
Re: Should You Date Someone You Don't Love? by 2dice(m): 8:28pm On Jun 18, 2015
asdfjklhaha:

I don't support d idea of girls turning guys to atm machines. But u guys are d ones who gives dem ur money. If a girl ask u for money, u hav every reason to refuse but u give her then come back as say she's a gold digger and she maga u. U can choose not to giv just as she can choose not to sleep wit u. We all hav choices to make, and whateva our choices are, we must be ready to accept the consequences and not blame others.
most will tag a guy as stingy if he doesn't give ..... And while asking for favor she might act all nice and caring ....for like a week or months ...so the dude might tink she is liking him or likes him.... Without knw it is all Scam...
Re: Should You Date Someone You Don't Love? by asdfjklhaha(f): 9:05pm On Jun 18, 2015
2dice:
most will tag a guy as stingy if he doesn't give ..... And while asking for favor she might act all nice and caring ....for like a week or months ...so the dude might tink she is liking him or likes him.... Without knw it is all Scam...
I cannot tag u as a stingy if I haven't spent my money on u, any girl that ask and ask and ask but doesn't giv her supposed lover a dime is the one whose stingy. If ur girl calls u a stingy person because u refused giving her money, and u know that she hasn't bought N10 pure water for u with her money since u guys started dating, then blame urself for whatever attitude she puts up once she's collected ur money.
Re: Should You Date Someone You Don't Love? by Nobody: 9:14pm On Jun 18, 2015
what is this question?

Should you put sugar in your coffee?
Re: Should You Date Someone You Don't Love? by 2dice(m): 9:33pm On Jun 18, 2015
asdfjklhaha:

I cannot tag u as a stingy if I haven't spent my money on u, any girl that ask and ask and ask but doesn't giv her supposed lover a dime is the one whose stingy. If ur girl calls u a stingy person because u refused giving her money, and u know that she hasn't bought N10 pure water for u with her money since u guys started dating, then blame urself for whatever attitude she puts up once she's collected ur money.
a typical naija girl don't give .... They believe once you toast Dem ... Ur own don done ... Resume the work of their Father/husband ASAP ....imagine a female-friend of mine told me" DEm no born my bf make he no call in a day" ... I said don't you call him ....she replied "ME call Guy highest i Flash... i can't call guys with my Money ** the credit WEy Dem dash am " ...
Re: Should You Date Someone You Don't Love? by asdfjklhaha(f): 10:05pm On Jun 18, 2015
2dice:
a typical naija girl don't give .... They believe once you toast Dem ... Ur own don done ... Resume the work of their Father/husband ASAP ....imagine a female-friend of mine told me" DEm no born my bf make he no call in a day" ... I said don't you call him ....she replied "ME call Guy highest i Flash... i can't call guys with my Money ** the credit WEy Dem dash am " ...
The simple truth is the girl doesn't lov the guy. And pls stop using d word typical naija girl. Cos there are girls out there who are contented wit wat their parents giv 2 dem or better still work 4 their money. So stop classifying us as devils wen u guys aren't saints.
Re: Should You Date Someone You Don't Love? by 2dice(m): 10:11pm On Jun 18, 2015
asdfjklhaha:

The simple truth is the girl doesn't lov the guy. And pls stop using d word typical naija girl. Cos there are girls out there who are contented wit wat their parents giv 2 dem or better still work 4 their money. So stop classifying us as devils wen u guys aren't saints.
U knw what am saying is True ... Although few girls Aint bad ... But the good ones are very few ..btw you too like argue .... Na law you suPpose go read ooo ...GOoodnight ... Switdreams cheesy
Re: Should You Date Someone You Don't Love? by Mikeyjoe(m): 10:20pm On Jun 18, 2015
asdfjklhaha:
U don't necessarily hav to be in a relationsp wit him. U can be frnds. Kip him in the frnds zone territory, den observe his motives 2wards u, if he's truly sincere as he claims, den u can giv him a chance.
Gudluck sis.
i hate friend zone
Re: Should You Date Someone You Don't Love? by asdfjklhaha(f): 10:36pm On Jun 18, 2015
2dice:
U knw what am saying is True ... Although few girls Aint bad ... But the good ones are very few ..btw you too like argue .... Na law you suPpose go read ooo ...GOoodnight ... Switdreams cheesy
The bad ones are few while the good ones are much. Good night to you too.
Re: Should You Date Someone You Don't Love? by 2dice(m): 10:58pm On Jun 18, 2015
asdfjklhaha:

The bad ones are few while the good ones are much. Good night to you too.
lmfao irony of life... cheesy
Re: Should You Date Someone You Don't Love? by asdfjklhaha(f): 11:07pm On Jun 18, 2015
2dice:
lmfao irony of life... cheesy
Goan sleep joor cheesy
Re: Should You Date Someone You Don't Love? by ivyT(f): 12:49am On Jun 19, 2015
falconey:
So you want us to believe you don't wanna date him despite knowing he is rich? Crap!!!

Abegi make we hear word,erryguy shldnt b lacking financially

where hv u been this while sef,
Re: Should You Date Someone You Don't Love? by Nobody: 1:43am On Jun 19, 2015
Friendzone that muh'fvcker wink
Re: Should You Date Someone You Don't Love? by Nobody: 9:18pm On Jun 21, 2015
should you date someone you don't love? for a woman I will say yes. if you're sure his love is genuine.
of course you can figure that out through some test.
a woman's heart is fragile if he truly loves you, you'll find yourself loving him sooner than you can imagine...

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