Many a times, we tend to be over protective and there by over
doing most security tactics that ends up playing a bitter foul
against us.

There is virtually no relationship that jealousy and stumbling
blocks won't exist. But our free will and mutual determination to say NO to this pressures makes the maturity traits in our lives more pronounced.

It is not a bad thing to protect your relationship or fight against intruders but the bad thing there, is fighting Foolishly that later hurts both you the fighter, your bf/fiance' the gold, and the other lady the fightee (if there is any word like that ) and in most cases you end up losing them both.

Ofcourse you may say yes you are doing it for your good. But
remember Bible says everything should be done in moderation. Picking up fights always just because of your lover is not the best and can never be because it conotes you been a weakling and one not matured enough to understand basic relationship ethics...

REMEMBER YOU WEREN'T THE FIRST HE SAID "I LOVE YOU" TO,
AND PROBABLY AREN'T THE ONLY ONE HE TELLS CURRENTLY...

Get wisdom but above all seek understanding

Truth is all these can't stop a guy determined to cheat from cheating . True.