If you are a lady and
you're still unsure
whether being with
a younger guy is a
good idea or not,
then read these
interesting points
below and think
again.
.
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Nigerian women are
known to be very respectful to their men
especially when he is
older. Hence, being with
a younger man is not
something they'd
normally do.
Aside from the respect
issue, there's a mild
stigma attached to
"mature" women dating
younger guys, because
they are regarded as
desperate and so lonely
that they would settle
for a "child".
But honestly, that was
then. Times have
changed! Ladies are
now stepping out of
that old-fashioned
school of thought and
going for happiness.
If you are a lady and
you're still unsure
whether being with a
younger guy is a good
idea or not, then read
these interesting points
below and think again:
1. He has more
energy — and
his influence might make you healthier
and more productive:
Maybe you want
to sleep in until 2
p.m. on a lazy Sunday, but he wants to get up,
make eggs, run some errands at Shoprite, and
have sex with you for 1,000 hours and/or until
your vagina Can't
Even!
2. He's less
cynical: Unless
he's had an especially soul- crushing unpaid
internship, he's probably got some beautiful illusions about his
promising place in
the workforce. And we both know you can use
some positivity in
your life.
3. He's eager to
please sexually:
Not only has he got the energy thing on his side,
but it's unlikely that he'll be a selfish lover.
You're like the Mrs. Robinson he has to sexually prove himself to! He will listen and
possibly take notes! Whatever tips you suggest to him will be
imprinted on his unformed brain and carried over to all future
relationships. With great power comes great responsibility.
4. He is at least
partly into you because you impress him:
Being the older woman means, among other
things, that you are independent, smart, and have your act together. And rather than this being intimidating, it turns him on.
5. He's okay with
letting you call the shots: For instance: During sex, Nick Cannon
and Mariah Carey listen to ... wait for it ... Mariah
Carey! When it comes down to it, you're the
alpha dog in the
relationship. Because you're the grown-up,
and grown-ups know better. Well, kind of.
6. He's more likely
to take advice from you
without letting it bruise his ego: For instance, he knows you are more familiar than he is with the job search, so he listens when you suggest that, maybe he shouldn't use Comic Sans for his resume font, and stuff like
that.
7. He won't judge
you for quitting
a job you hate, traveling around Europe, or making some other
random quarter-life
detour: While
someone a little older might worry that you're
veering off the path you should stay on, a young guy will encourage you to
keep following your dreams to become a hand model or an artist
or whatever else you want to be.

13yrs old niggaz be like

apart 4rm d first point"him avin energy,d rest aren't gud enough.click like if ur n support

no 4 sure is right, that turns me on in dating older girls.

Team older guys . How young do you mean though?

falconey:
affidavit on my mind

Hehehehe

dovelike:
Team older guys . How young do you mean though?

Am not so sure ur mind is made up! with d question u ask
Its inconclusive decision

But wait o
Dating older women means being control by dem too! am i right?

Kennywills7:

Am not so sure ur mind is made up! with d question u ask
Its inconclusive decision

It depends on how young the poster meant. Younger like,in the early or late thirties. or. in the early or late twenties. Pple date guys around forty and fifty you know.

dovelike:

It depends on how young the poster meant. Younger like,in the early or late thirties. or. in the early or late twenties. Pple date guys around forty and fifty you know.

Yeah i understand ur point however am sure he is just referring to someone u are older than
Meaning can u date someone u are older than?

Kennywills7:

Yeah i understand ur point however am sure he is just referring to someone u are older than
Meaning can u date someone u are older than?

Oh no.Definetly not.

dovelike:

Oh no.Definetly not.

Dats d point

Kennywills7:

Dats d point

Sure

Kennywills7:

Yeah i understand ur point however am sure he is just referring to someone u are older than
Meaning can u date someone u are older than?

you should at least be older the girl with 2years, i didn't mean the lady should be older than you.... Hope you dude understands now.... Before i gat eaten up.

iceberylin:
13yrs old niggaz be like

lols, i didn't include age.... But if you 13, you can date 20 if possible, all we call love in the name of God.

[quote author=MeshackMiles post=30575398] you should at least be older the girl with 2years, i didn't mean the lady should be older than you.... Hope you dude understands now.... Before i gat eaten up.[/quote
Bro we are talking about girls dating younger dudes

dovelike:
Team older guys . How young do you mean though?

when i said younger, i didn't mean guys on the early twenties, i mean on the early thirtys...

MeshackMiles:
when i said younger, i didn't mean guys on the early twenties, i mean on the early thirtys...

Early thirties is just perfect.

[quote author=Kennywills7 post=30575522][/quote] year, girls dating younger guys, but i didn't really mean they lady should be older than you because if she is, she might come around one day and start laying orders with unnecessary value, but to no avail relationship might turn to breakup, so the lady should be around 32, while the itz 34 all still we all young

dovelike:

Early thirties is just perfect.

itz a perfect timing, instead being twenties, still you don't know what to do or make the right decisions, but those around thirties can think more than those around twenties, and also smarter than em too...

MeshackMiles:
year, girls dating younger guys, but i didn't really mean they lady should be older than you because if she is, she might come around one day and start laying orders with unnecessary value, but to no avail relationship might turn to breakup, so the lady should be around 32, while the itz 34 all still we all young

I get ur point bro
No one want to find himself in a situation whereby ur suppose gf/partner will b shouting at u or u taking orders from her

MeshackMiles:
itz a perfect timing, instead being twenties, still you don't know what to do or make the right decisions, but those around thirties can think more than those around twenties, and also smarter than em too...

And more mature in good places.Though age doesn't define level of smartness,but majority of the older ones are smarter.

Kennywills7:

I get ur point bro
No one want to find himself in a situation whereby ur suppose gf/partner will b shouting at u or u taking orders from her

lemme say sugar mummies wahala, and also, there are some homies that good at this stuff of dating, like dating women older than em, because they been in it, and can dope em very good, and at the end! They end up losing their life, or got chased by night watchers lols... (Last statement not that cool huh?)

dovelike:

And more mature in good places.Though age doesn't define level of smartness,but majority of the older ones are smarter.

like when i once heard a parable which says... An old man sitting down can see what a young man standing on a mountain can not see...

My girlfrnd is older than me by 4yrs, there is nothing wrong wit datin an older woman, if u luv her, go 4 her, it not a sin oh, infact d older she is, the less ur headache so dat we won't b seeing threads like a 16yr old girl poured acid on her lover.

MeshackMiles:
like when i once heard a parable which says... An old man sitting down can see what a young man standing on a mountain can not see...

Lol. Vision

Chidonc:
My girlfrnd is older than me by 4yrs, there is nothing wrong wit datin an older woman, if u luv her, go 4 her, it not a sin oh, infact d older she is, the less ur headache so dat we won't b seeing threads like a 16yr old girl poured acid on her lover.

lols, yo man, you gat a point, do you know women older than men can reason more than the men, beside they know the positive and the negative in a relationship, like if i do this, i might lose him, or if i scream at him, he might feel bad... So they've have a sense of humor, but not all women, you know that!!

MeshackMiles:
lemme say sugar mummies wahala, and also, there are some homies that good at this stuff of dating, like dating women older than em, because they been in it, and can dope em very good, and at the end! They end up losing their life, or got chased by night watchers lols... (Last statement not that cool huh?)

Hehehehe bro u sabi d link o

dovelike:

Lol. Vision

but you know it kinda make sense, but somehow in the other way, older women are good, while younger dudes are cool, they'll ride and ride, till party is over...

Chidonc:
My girlfrnd is older than me by 4yrs, there is nothing wrong wit datin an older woman, if u luv her, go 4 her, it not a sin oh, infact d older she is, the less ur headache so dat we won't b seeing threads like a 16yr old girl poured acid on her lover.

Yeah u hv a point there

MeshackMiles:
but you know it kinda make sense, but somehow in the other way, older women are good, while younger dudes are cool, they'll ride and ride, till party is over...

Older women are not good.