harffie:
. Pls what's bluefilm??

[size=14pt]Bluefilm = Mojo, Por.n, Bleep, X-rated[/size]

they cant think but they can shag,i pity you for what your kids do at your back.@mutter.

Young man judging from your profile pic, I am old enough to be your mother!
You see apparently all the flogging your parents gave you never helped make a decent young man out of you.

My kid`s would never ever talk like that, not even to a child.
Now put your tail between your legs and hush off

Gosh the standard of education these days! Young kid`s that cannot even read and think objectively. [/quote]

its better he tell the parents,why should he not?hese u shouldn't ve flogged them people.

Don't tell their parents counsel them on your own.[/quote]

Stupid op. Is it a sin to have sex?

lol.. stupid man, flogging another man's child.. you'll get your own beating from a soldier..and we will all laugh at the video

mutter:


How I wish I could be a kid again
You would need to spend the whole night and more turning back the hands of time.

He has no right to flog them because they are not his kid`s. The kid`s are not under his care. He is not related to them in any way.

No matter what they did there is no justification.

This jungle justice approach is barbaric.

kids not kid's

How did we get here..? I mean for those saying the guy shouldn't flog them,are you all saying if they are your siblings you won't flog them?an if you wud,ant you your brother's or rather,neighbor's keeper,were is the "spirit of community and collective responsibility"that we all grew up with?is it now every man to his own tent?
We are all training "beast of no nation",that's why today in the west (America in particular)a child can take a gun to the school an shoots every one Dead,because the parent cant talk,the neighbors have no responsibility,an the society watches in vain.

searching4love:
Going by the trend of cheating mostly found among the female folks especially Nigerian girls, one begins to wonder if there is still hope for we the unmarried men. Where are the women of virtue and dignity why has promiscuity become a norm and way of life among our ladies Are there still good women out there Are there still ladies who stick to just one guy irrespective of your financial situation?


I have been scammed and taken for granted by ladies who took advantage of the love and care i had for them. It saddens me to know that most Nigerian men have the same story to tell about our females. How and where can one really find the love of one's life in this our immorality filled society?

Your opinions are needed

but sir,is this the issue at hand...you should be searching for love in the romance section now,abi.

BTW......who are these ones saying why did you flog them...abeg its good that you flogged them o,imagine something..that said,if it was me,I dont think I would have the mouth to report this kind of thing, seeing as it is very embarrassing,I would however advice you counsel them,and see how into it they are.

missdebs:
put yourself in the parents shoe...there you go, you have your answer

Yes I think i'll like to know what my kids are up to. That way i'd know how best to handle the situation.
On the other hand I won't take it lightly with any neighbour that will beat up my child and fail to let me know what the child's offence is or keep such truth away from me.

This isn't new at all. Even 6-9 years old children know virtually everytin about it,now at this stage flogging would never help,call the children to order and tell them the implications. Telling their parents would make matters worse as most Nigerian parents would almost beat the children 2 death without d children knowing d implications of pre-marital sex and nxt time d children would repeat the same thing making sure nobody is in sight.

soulglo:


Why do you feel that you could put your hands on someone else's kid? Not only could you go to jail for that, you might end up with your own ass whooping before you go to jail

this is Naija. To hell with jail!

Holywizard:
if on a very gud day i touched de kids when they're on de right path eeeh...and they reported it to their parents. Hell will loose on the entire street because dey will nt try 2 hunt me down only, but make sure everybody start seeing me as a child abuser

You are doing the right thing by worrying about the kids but you were wrong to hit them. You've already said the parents are the type that might cause trouble for you. Just because it is Nigeria does not mean that the parents cannot come after you legally. If you run into this situation again you tell the parents and let them discipline the child.

mozele:


this is Naija. To hell with jail!

I hear the jails is Nigeria are the real deal. I can guarantee you that if you touch my child I will make sure you lick the floor of a Nigerian jail.

davidsmith8900:
Everyone on this thread who is saying dat "it takes a village 2 raise a child" n dat he had da right 2 flog them, how have your lives turned out? Have u yourselves attained success? How many of you are Engineers or Doctors, or even in Politics? How many of u have made it in life? How many of u even have a job? B4 telling little kids how 2 live their life n how they should be raised, fix your own life. Become a president or even a CEO of a company b4 u start criticizing other people kids.

You are a numskull...n u shld be worried abt it!

You all saying he/she had no right to flog em.... I am sorry for your unborn kids .... There is a saying that goes " no be only one person Deh get/train pikin" if my kids are caught in such act I expect my neighbour to whip them then report them to me.

Seconded

PDF:


You are a numskull...n u shld be worried abt it!

duni04:

Is this stupîdîty or what?

as how ?

mutter:


How I wish I could be a kid again
You would need to spend the whole night and more turning back the hands of time.

He has no right to flog them because they are not his kid`s. The kid`s are not under his care. He is not related to them in any way.

No matter what they did there is no justification.

This jungle justice approach is barbaric.

Go & live in the US where perversion is practiced in broad day light due to the way they handle their kids! What do u mean by he has no right to flog them?
He has every right to discipline them & still report them to their parents! This will paint a clear picture in their minds that what is bad is bad, because It is possible that their parents might not punish them. They might want to see their children committing the act before they believe!

And for you to say that flogging them is jungle justice suggests you might have lacked home training!

Chienex24:


Go & live in the US where perversion is practiced in broad day light due to the way they handle their kids! What do u mean by he has no right to flog them?
He has every right to discipline them & still report them to their parents! This will paint a clear picture in their minds that what is bad is bad, because It is possible that their parents might not punish them. They might want to see their children committing the act before they believe!

And for you to say that flogging them is jungle justice suggests you might have lacked home training!

This is the problem with Nigerians. He has no right to touch them. Even in Nigeria it is illegal. Before you jump down someone's throat maybe you should educate yourself first. If she walked in on someone beating her child and she beats she crap out of the person, there's nothing anyone will do to her. Legally she has the right to protect her child and you have no legal leg to stand on to assault a child. Further more, this happened in Nigeria so your argument that these things happen in broad daylight in other countries is at best ridiculous. This one happened in Nigeria and many more are happening because the typical solution would be to beat the children and move on as if that had done anything for anybody.

bbjummy:



Why not? Right you flogged them jare but hope they know why they were been flogged.

Spare the rod and spoil the child.

they are not his kids. Some parents don't like odas flogging their kids

pictures or idonbilivit...

Because of their tomorrow. Please tell their parents. Some peeps might have been saved from an addiction if their parents found out earlier.

I'm a case study and my folks still don't know my addiction and it's really eating me up by the day.

Philadelphia:
S/HE THAT IS WITHOUT SIN SHOULD CAST THE FIRST STONE.

What crap do you smoke?

Leebeedo:


Good suggestion but I also suggest you record the above conversation with them in case they plan against you and tell their parents that u wanted to rape them. Matter go change within seconds oh guy and na police Cell you go dey for days and there'll be no access to nairaland to beg for suggestions

noted, albeit amidst lafta

soulglo:


I hear the jails is Nigeria are the real deal. I can guarantee you that if you touch my child I will make sure you lick the floor of a Nigerian jail.

So if i caught you child in an immoral act and corrected him/her, you will send me to jail? ;(

mozele:


So if i caught you child in an immoral act and corrected him/her, you will send me to jail? ;(

Are you playing word games or is it just too late in the day for you. No one said you should not correct a child. You simply do not have the right to put your hands on someone's child. There's no other way I know how to say it to you

soulglo:



Are you playing word games or is it just too late in the day for you. No one said you should not correct a child. You simply do not have the right to put your hands on someone's child. There's no other way I know how to say it to you

oh, i understand and as for me i don't really think i have the guts to raise my hand up to beat another man's child.

But hmmm in the Nigerian setting, jail is a bit to far for this kind matter. Take ham easy o...

mutter:
You had no right to flog them.

You should report them to their parents immediately. They are responsible for the children and need to know.
If they believe it or not is no longer your problem.

For God`s sake don`t go asking their teacher or anyone else. That is wrong because the kid`s are not in your care.
You know I was just trying to imagine you catching them and flogging them there. It is a perverse picture,

This kind of thinks happens among siblings, it actually occurs at a much younger age- not sex but the curiosity about each others bodies.

That it developed into this is because there was neglect and lack of parental care.

You do take child abuse pretty lightly, why?

Children shouldn't be exposed to these things...

The abuser should be found, if there's one, then he should be arrested because he has planted a disgusting seed in those kids..

misfab:
first offs..are they siblings and yeah...u hav to tel their parents. they r too young to b into such.

*modified*
ftc lols. i actually dont feel d whole buzz of d ftc thingy. well..i dedicate this to my cuzin charles who found me out on nairaland but has vehemently refused to tell me his moniker.
lovely day people

i can see super beauty

Dragonking:


Which kind sense you get? u think say na america be this

dont worry, the day your son fvcks the hell out of your daughter nobody will stop or correct them. Nonsense people that want to copy oyinbo lifestyle..mtchhheeew

What has America got to this with this?

You don't go about flogging people's kid..

You may flog the wrong person..

I know what I am saying, Nigerians can be annoying.. if you want to flog, go and give birth and flog your kid. Period!

I hope that by now, you have discussed this with their parents...