I am a young man in his late 29. I have a lady who is 27 years of age. We both living abroad and planning to get married later this year.The challenge I have with her is that she rants unduly on non-trivial issues.As a man, I have learned not to respond. But it seems she is getting worse daily despite my calling for a change in behavior. I need a candid advice from my fellow nairalanders whether I can still go ahead and marry her..

You are the one in the relationship, you alone know how much you have tolerated and how much more you can because you can tell the extent top which you can persevere. If you know you can't handle get rants then call it quit.

Thank you

You can go ahead and marry her,anytime wey she wan begin Rant abi Rap just stand up live her nd trust me by the time u have done this 4 lyk 3 to 5 times,she wuld stop been that silly Rapper she has always been!

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I am a young man in his late 29. I have a lady who is 27 years of age. We both living abroad and planning to get married later this year.The challenge I have with her is that she rants unduly on non-trivial issues.As a man, I have learned not to respond. But it seems she is getting worse daily despite my calling for a change in behavior. I need a candid advice from my fellow nairalanders whether I can still go ahead and marry her..

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How long have u known her. Is she making effort to change..is she ever apologetic or remorseful about her actions..can u still cope with this if she doesn't stop..can u live with this for the rest of your life if she is not embracing change? Because would you always keep leaving ur house when she starts ranting.. u v 24hrs in a day.. 365 days in a year.. nd u v d rest of ur life to live with her. Never date out of pity. That's why you see so many young marriage crumble in few years or even weeks. I think this generation v lost tolerance or girls have lost manners. Anyway d decision is yours to make.

Marriage is meant to be enjoyed not tolerated. First of all sit her down and explain how such attitude irritates u. If she persist u might have to give her some space for a while unless u can live with such attitude.

If you can't live with that behaviour, just break up.

The truth is she can't change.

Marry her and i promise you your next post will be 'my wife rants alot'

We don't just nag

I nag too as a matter of fact a solid crazy nag
But if only I don't get attention/love/sex

I don't want u 24/7
But pls don't ignore/neglect me