bigcil2:
I had this discusion with a friend of mine, and I would like we share our personal and Biblical views about the subject topic. For me its a sin, cos there's an intent to sin(sex), conciously or not. Jesus also said if you look at a woman lustfully and in your heart lust for her you have sinned. Please am not a pastor 'lol'. Awaiting responses.

The question is, what is marriage? When your parents have given yourselves to each other and it has been registered according to the law. Kissing won't be a sin.

But in this debased society where sex is like pure water, what we are discussing here wouldn't make any sense. They'd say "ordinary sex?"

The kingdom of God is not meat and drink, but righteousness and peace, and joy in the holy ghost
Romans 14:17

Where fore my dearly beloved, flee from idolatry
1 Corinthians 10:14

Flee also youthful lusts: but follow righteousness, faith, charity, peace with them that call upon the Lord out of a pure heart.
2 Timothy 2:22

Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body, but he that committed fornication sinneth against his own body
1 Corinthians 6:18

Know ye not that ye are the temple of God, and the spirit of God dwelleth in you? If any man defile the temple of God, him shall God destroy, for the temple of God is holy, which temple ye are
1 Corinthians 3:16,17

What? Know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy ghost which is in you, which ye have of God? And ye are not your own?
I Corinthians 6:19

Abstain from all appearance of evil.
1 Thessalonians 5:22

Those are biblical passages that tells us the mind of God concerning the sin of sex outside of marriage.
God is interested in having an intimate relationship with us. His love is towards us is beyond measures. Sin drives God away from us. The sin of disobedience drove Adam and eve away from fellowship with God. The sin of lies led to the untimely death of Ananias and his wife. The sin of anger made moses to miss entering the promise land. The sin of adultery brought untold hardship to David and the nation of Israel.
God is holy and he expects holiness from His followers. Holiness and purity in relationship with friends, neighbors and others in the society.
Happy Sunday people of God

Kissing is not a sin. The reason for it and the activities after it qualify as a sin or otherwise.

I agree with you!

Kissing is not a sin. The reason for it and the activities after it qualify as a sin or otherwise.

I believe you won’t frown at your sister or daughter doing something that not sinful. If I may ask, can you allow your sister or daughter who is of age kiss a male if they dont intend to proceed with other activities after it?

If it feels wrong then it's wrong... Don't wait for someone to tell you what's a sin and whats not... Even an Infant knows that biting his or her mom's nipple during breastfeeding is wrong.

It's called morals, everyone has it...

Since 2015 bayi?

Dead bones shall indeed rise again!

Not to sound overly spiritual but it definitely is a sin, the Bible expressly warns us to flee EVERY appearance of evil and kissing is a prelude to romance or anything salacious outside the confines of marriage thereby we could classify it as "evil" in this context.

No it is not a sin, but playing draft and ludo or staring at big ikebe or big tits is a sin. Admiring small ones is not considered a sin though.

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Then they should have ignored it totally. Now that makes the mod who pushed it up here wack too

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Man asked simple question, you dey write epistle.

Cutehector:
you see , there is one mistake we humans make a lot. We tend to ask if such acts are found in the bible, that it must be clearly written for all to see, by asking if kissing is a sin or fornication is a sin. It all boils down to one's mind.

From hug e go enta kiss, frm kiss na so e go graduate enta smoooch or pre-intimacy, before you know it, person don kpekus. Na so from clap e dey enter dance. Well sha, I don't find kissing a sin but when you lust after it, you burn with passion. St Paul teaches us that it's better to marry than to burn wit passion.

Why not.

Did I not kiss her mother before we got married?

MaxInDHouse:
Will you approve a man to kiss your daughter in your presence when they're not yet married?
What will you do when your daughter and a man is having a wet kiss in your presence after a minister has declared them husband and wife?

God bless you and may you have PEACE!

For those who believe, where int he bible does it say that?

For "normal" people, this is very sad.

Aunty needs a steady boyfriend that will love and cherish her.

sojisenai:
It is a sin, obviously...just like SEX before marriage.

However, I want to ask the believers this question. My elder Sister is a virgin at 38, she married the love of her life in the year 2020 (after dating him in the 'believer way'), a fellow believer. Long story short, the marriage has been dissolved and she is still a virgin( apparently 'complete impotency' is real, I never truly believed it could happen to a young guy). How will you convince her now that SEX before marriage is wrong?

Meanwhile, if you have an elderly loved one, or a friend who is sick or disabled...and you need a reputable company to [provide quality care for them, kindly check my signature for the best caregiving service company around.

Mummy like this dey play this kind play.

lollittaa

LIGHTROOM:
Yes no

There are innovations that need sex too.

Even space research includes sex considerations

SugarGirl44:
Una don start today again.
The world is moving on at a fast pace, kids are producing electronics, automobiles etc.
Oṣi l'ẹyin nṣe ni Afrika.
Una no know pass sex, but you pretend as if you don’t do it.
Bleep if you wan Bleep, make una no dey disguise.
Nonsense.

Don't come even near Temptation

Follow your conscience and don't condem your self
Peace unto you

Sin

cooooooks:
Man asked simple question, you dey write epistle.

that was years ago sir.

My apologies. Thread seemed to have been reborn today.

Question still stands sir.

Cutehector:
that was years ago sir.

Bro,
After seeing a lot of people in deep marital shit...

I am beginning to rethink all these religious doctrines...
What were the ancient doing, people then in arranged marriages lived n loved better. The so called sinners and nonreligious people who lived together b4 marriage worked out their marriages better than the hypocritical religious people....

So kiss, live together, makeout do whatever, the greater sin is in denying yourself peace because u followed some messed up doctrines...

cooooooks:

Why not.
Did I not kiss her mother before we got married?

If your daughter can kiss a man to whom she is no married in your presence no wahala!

Do NOT kiss your gf or fiancé before marriage.

If you do so, flog yourself with horsewhip.

Say no to hypocrisy.

MaxInDHouse:


If your daughter can kiss a man to whom she is no married in your presence no wahala!

cooooooks:
My apologies. Thread seemed to have been reborn today.

Question still stands sir.

not a sin sir.

fatboyslym007:

What were the ancient doing?

They marry as VIRGINS and even after marriage most women finds it hard to believe that it's the same manhood they're seeing in the bodies of their little kids that their husbands are using to mate with them.
In fact windows to the rooms they sleep when making love is so tiny that the wife hardly see her husband's manhood unlike now that they see different sizes and salivating.

That's why most of them were faithful in their marriages!

cooooooks:

Do NOT kiss your gf or fiancé before marriage.
If you do so, flog yourself with horsewhip.
Say no to hypocrisy.

It's a free world so nobody is setting standards for you Sir neither can you force your opinion on others!

I just hope the highlighted is not difficult for you when it happens for real catching your daughter kissing someone when they're not married!

bigcil2:
I had this discusion with a friend of mine, and I would like we share our personal and Biblical views about the subject topic. For me its a sin, cos there's an intent to sin(sex), conciously or not. Jesus also said if you look at a woman lustfully and in your heart lust for her you have sinned. Please am not a pastor 'lol'. Awaiting responses.

My dear, those are qualities of a true Christian. It has nothing to do with being a pastor or not
Now to answer your question
What prompts someone to kiss a particular person or does the person kiss everyone in this world?
It is to satisfy the desires of the flesh for that particular person that he/she kissed
When you have lustful desires towards someone and you go ahead to gratify the desires,
Yes that is sin
Bible said that we should run away from lusts both in thought and actions
Hope your question is answered

I'll try not to be a hypocrite.

I agree that talk is cheap

Help me O Universe.

MaxInDHouse:


It's a free world so nobody is setting standards for you Sir neither can you force your opinion on others!

I just hope the highlighted is not difficult for you when it happens for real catching your daughter kissing someone when they're not married!

MaxInDHouse:


If your daughter can kiss a man to whom she is no married in your presence no wahala!

Can your daughter have sex with whom she's married to in your presence?

bigcil2:
hmmm... But what about the act... Act and motive goes along

Do you mean Act of Apostle?