I’m not trying to encourage women to be gold diggers
nor write broke guys off as useless.
This is just an advice from a guy who have tasted both
sides which I feel I should share with you and found
that a broke guy who is in relationship is not being true
to himself.
To be honest, most of what we have heard about
relationship are unfounded. Nobody will love you for
who you are when you don’t have shi shi. Believe me,money can steer a relationship... I read about a professor in one of the American schools who proved that Money indeed can buy happiness,when its spent on people.
That’s just the truth.
Even the independent ladies who don’t want your
money will want someone who’s settled in their life. For
them, finding a partner is about finding someone who
fits into their lifestyle and plans for
the future. That includes things that cost money.
Below are the reasons why broke guys should forget
dating for now.
1. You are not ready for it;
You may want it but honestly you don’t need it.
You need to be thinking of a master plan. You need to
re-prioritize your life and get busy with something.
Anybody who is having some major financial struggles
needs to be focused on getting that together, not
dating. get your act together
THEN date.
2. You Ego Will Be Bruised;
Money does matter in our society, way too much. A
person’s ability to eat and look good and get medicine
in time of need and take care of your woman are the
things that makes one a man. Think about it, she called
you on phone and asked for money and you gave her
the
same answer. “I no get”. Then you found out much
later that she somehow got the money. You ask and
was told that she got it from another guy. Your heart is
darned if he is one of her admirers that you are aware
of.
3. It Is A Distraction;
A broke guy needs all the time in the world alone to
sort out things and having a woman who will add some
few loads to
his already bent shoulder will do him no good. Don’t
tell me he needs a woman’s support because a good
female friend supports one more than his girlfriend.
You don’t need that extra load.
4. You Will Be Cheated On;
You read me right. Girls have the habit of getting bored
of things quickly, this is due to who they are, which is
coupled with the pressures of society. Society
always wants them to get the newest and latest thing,
so one day she will get tired of hoping and waiting and
accept that guy who has been disturbing her. She may
not tell you about it because she wouldn’t want to hurt
you so you end up being cheated on.
5. You Will Be FriendsZoned;
She likes you but cannot continue to date you because
you cannot take care of her needs. So she would
friendzone you in other not to lose you completely. At
least
there is something you are good at and she will keep
your friendship because of that. Women are smart
walahi
6. She Won’t Feel Loved;
Since traditionally men are the ones that pay for dates,
it is impossible then to prove your love when there is
no shi shi. How can you surprise her? How can you
take her out on a date or buy her gifts? How can you
say you love her when she cannot rely on you when
she is broke?
7. You Will Be Dumped;
Not because she doesn’t love you but because You are
not the right material
for a woman who has marriage and raising a family in
her agenda. You may be lucky to get someone who will
stand by you but a goal without a deadline is just a
dream. She will eventually get tired of hoping and give
up. Your Bottom will be dumped. Sorry
U can't command respect
As a man traditionally, u hav d obligation to command
respect, but immagine when u can nt buy ur
subsciption on her blackberry fone dat wz bought 4her
by her x, or u can't pay 4d okada man dat carrd her 2ur
house, dat very day, u begin 2 loss value nt only b4 her
both her friends and family member. U can't talk and
ur voice wil be heard. Infact ur presenc in some
gatherin wil b a flop.
I know that all people deserve to be loved no matter
who or what they are but money is very important in
every relationship so I think a man that cannot afford
to date needs to wait

Classic

That's what I do, cos first hand I have been a victim.

Broke guys don't deserve to date. Get your money right and get serious. Even though its hard to get a true companion when you are high up, its even harder to get a companion when you are low down.

Like they say,
More money more problems, but don't forget, if you no get, you go become problem to those wey get

This is kind of sad but really, no girl wants a broke guy.

Meanwhile, he should start wearing leggings too, what he needs pockets for? Kikikiki.

Nice write up. However no 3 and 6 are not entirely true. Most times a good and understanding girl isn't a distraction. They even propel you to work hard. ........and furthermore I've seen some girls loving broke guys with potential.

Cool

Well said. A broke guy has no business dating a Naija babe.

True,but every rule has exception

@ops, nice write-up.

Ooo...k

Interesting

Go and make money, later you can bang all the hoes in your area.. Play them them and dump their sorry ass.. They are into you because of your cash! Fact

I agree with the OP...infact this write up just changed my thinking..#no dating till a nigga gets enuf!

Na lie joooo,broke guyz shap,Bleep well nd nt borin wit their efisi...Gbagbeeee

djeezy:
Nice write up. However no 3 and 6 are not entirely true. Most times a good and understanding girl isn't a distraction. They even propel you to work hard. ........and furthermore I've seen some girls loving broke guys with potential.

True

As nice and educating this thread or topic is, you won't find many comments because kids have invaded Romance section!!! But if it were to be topics such as 'Which Nairaland Babe Would You Want To Spend A Night With?' and other rubbish topics, you would see over 739 comments. Romance...getting empty by the day!

Op, you have done a very good work. God bless you!

you see dear broke guys, save yourself the shame of dating and go make money, cos only few gurls would stay with you without money ok

weytin concern broke ass niqqaz with love?
bro if we manage Bleep d bitch 2times u waka
go na... dats how we roll