Many writers are telling us the good side of marriage. It amazes me the frequent Facebook posts by singles that have never gone through the hard knock.While I appreciate them taking the time to write these cozy messages on romance, how to get “the will of God”, and all that, I also feel for them. Wonderful writers though!
WOMAN: Do I tear my husband down with my words instead of affirming him when things aren’t going well with him? Do I use sexual intimacy to torture him because I’m not happy with him? Do I use sex as a tool to lure him to take bad decisions in order to have my way? (Remember Samson?). Do I still respect him when I am the bread winner for whatever reason; maybe he got laid off or lost his job? Do I reinforce his feeling of inadequacy until it becomes a self-fulfillingprophecy for him? Do I respect him when he made a big mistake? My sister, please create a safety zone for your husband by: affirming him more despite his condition, get yourself prepared to meet his sexual needs even when he is wrong, be attractive for him because men are visual, and support his cause according to God’s will by praying earnestly for him to be closer to God more than ever during challenges.
Understand that even if you make a lot of money to support the family, it makes no difference to the mental burden your husband feels to provide. He is still the coverage over you dear friend. Only you are so closed to him now to support his feelings. To me, this is what LOVE IS ABOUT, not these other temporarily feelings. That is why valentine should be every month not just February.
MAN: When your wife’s physiological properties (breast, cheeks, face, tummy, etc.) change due to child bearing.
* When her emotions begin to swing due to menopause or in some people menstrual cycle.
* when she has mood swing during early stages of pregnancy.
* When she is beginning to express frustration and attitude towards you because her children aren’t behaving the way she wants. *When since after your marriage there has been a delay in child bearing and she is always moody no matter how much you have tried for her.
*When she is pregnant and closed to due date but not able to meet your sexual needs.
*When her family members begin to yell at you for not responding to their requests. *When you have been stressing for her to get some education to improve herself but she is not forth coming.
* Do you still love her the same way you did during your courtship? Do you acknowledged the fact that women in general are wired to be emotional? Could you support and love her going forward from today? Today I challenge you to make use of and take advantage of your changing situations in your home as you journey together. Don’t see each other as the enemy by tearing each other apart. At this time of challenges learn to get closer until things gets better again.
Ask God to give you grace and open your eyes to see LOVE in His perspective (His word). If you are still struggling with sins or don’t’ even believe in Jesus, now is the right time to get reconciled. Pray to Him to forgive you and receive Him into your heart. Allow Him now to be the overseer of your home going forward. He will not reject you friend.

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Men fall in love BEFORE they phock women!
Women fall in love AFTER they phock men!

No need for fasting and praying!