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8 Reasons Why Broke Guys Should Not Date by Zitoangels(m): 6:30am On Feb 20, 2015 |
’m not trying to encourage women to be gold diggers nor write broke guys off as useless. This is just an advice from a guy who have tasted both sides which I feel I should share with you and found that a broke guy who is in relationship is not being true to himself. To be honest, most of what we have heard about relationship are unfounded. Nobody will love you for who you are when you don’t have shi shi. Believe me,money can steer a relationship... I read about a professor in one of the American schools who proved that Money indeed can buy happiness,when its spent on people. That’s just the truth. Even the independent ladies who don’t want your money will want someone who’s settled in their life. For them, finding a partner is about finding someone who fits into their lifestyle and plans for the future. That includes things that cost money. Below are the reasons why broke guys should forget dating for now. 1. You are not ready for it; You may want it but honestly you don’t need it. You need to be thinking of a master plan. You need to re-prioritize your life and get busy with something. Anybody who is having some major financial struggles needs to be focused on getting that together, not dating. get your act together THEN date. 2. You Ego Will Be Bruised; Money does matter in our society, way too much. A person’s ability to eat and look good and get medicine in time of need and take care of your woman are the things that makes one a man. Think about it, she called you on phone and asked for money and you gave her the same answer. “I no get”. Then you found out much later that she somehow got the money. You ask and was told that she got it from another guy. Your heart is darned if he is one of her admirers that you are aware of. 3. It Is A Distraction; A broke guy needs all the time in the world alone to sort out things and having a woman who will add some few loads to his already bent shoulder will do him no good. Don’t tell me he needs a woman’s support because a good female friend supports one more than his girlfriend. You don’t need that extra load. 4. You Will Be Cheated On; You read me right. Girls have the habit of getting bored of things quickly, this is due to who they are, which is coupled with the pressures of society. Society always wants them to get the newest and latest thing, so one day she will get tired of hoping and waiting and accept that guy who has been disturbing her. She may not tell you about it because she wouldn’t want to hurt you so you end up being cheated on. 5. You Will Be FriendsZoned; She likes you but cannot continue to date you because you cannot take care of her needs. So she would friendzone you in other not to lose you completely. At least there is something you are good at and she will keep your friendship because of that. Women are smart walahi 6. She Won’t Feel Loved; Since traditionally men are the ones that pay for dates, it is impossible then to prove your love when there is no shi shi. How can you surprise her? How can you take her out on a date or buy her gifts? How can you say you love her when she cannot rely on you when she is broke? 7. You Will Be Dumped; Not because she doesn’t love you but because You are not the right material for a woman who has marriage and raising a family in her agenda. You may be lucky to get someone who will stand by you but a goal without a deadline is just a dream. She will eventually get tired of hoping and give up. Your Bottom will be dumped. Sorry U can't command respect As a man traditionally, u hav d obligation to command respect, but immagine when u can nt buy ur subsciption on her blackberry fone dat wz bought 4her by her x, or u can't pay 4d okada man dat carrd her 2ur house, dat very day, u begin 2 loss value nt only b4 her both her friends and family member. U can't talk and ur voice wil be heard. Infact ur presenc in some gatherin wil b a flop. I know that all people deserve to be loved no matter who or what they are but money is very important in every relationship so I think a man that cannot afford to date needs to wait’m not trying to encourage women to be gold diggers nor write broke guys off as useless. This is just an advice from a guy who have tasted both sides which I feel I should share with you and found that a broke guy who is in relationship is not being true to himself. To be honest, most of what we have heard about relationship are unfounded. Nobody will love you for who you are when you don’t have shi shi. Believe me,money can steer a relationship... I read about a professor in one of the American schools who proved that Money indeed can buy happiness,when its spent on people. That’s just the truth. Even the independent ladies who don’t want your money will want someone who’s settled in their life. For them, finding a partner is about finding someone who fits into their lifestyle and plans for the future. That includes things that cost money. Below are the reasons why broke guys should forget dating for now. 1. You are not ready for it; You may want it but honestly you don’t need it. You need to be thinking of a master plan. You need to re-prioritize your life and get busy with something. Anybody who is having some major financial struggles needs to be focused on getting that together, not dating. get your act together THEN date. 2. You Ego Will Be Bruised; Money does matter in our society, way too much. A person’s ability to eat and look good and get medicine in time of need and take care of your woman are the things that makes one a man. Think about it, she called you on phone and asked for money and you gave her the same answer. “I no get”. Then you found out much later that she somehow got the money. You ask and was told that she got it from another guy. Your heart is darned if he is one of her admirers that you are aware of. 3. It Is A Distraction; A broke guy needs all the time in the world alone to sort out things and having a woman who will add some few loads to his already bent shoulder will do him no good. Don’t tell me he needs a woman’s support because a good female friend supports one more than his girlfriend. You don’t need that extra load. 4. You Will Be Cheated On; You read me right. Girls have the habit of getting bored of things quickly, this is due to who they are, which is coupled with the pressures of society. Society always wants them to get the newest and latest thing, so one day she will get tired of hoping and waiting and accept that guy who has been disturbing her. She may not tell you about it because she wouldn’t want to hurt you so you end up being cheated on. 5. You Will Be FriendsZoned; She likes you but cannot continue to date you because you cannot take care of her needs. So she would friendzone you in other not to lose you completely. At least there is something you are good at and she will keep your friendship because of that. Women are smart walahi 6. She Won’t Feel Loved; Since traditionally men are the ones that pay for dates, it is impossible then to prove your love when there is no shi shi. How can you surprise her? How can you take her out on a date or buy her gifts? How can you say you love her when she cannot rely on you when she is broke? 7. You Will Be Dumped; Not because she doesn’t love you but because You are not the right material for a woman who has marriage and raising a family in her agenda. You may be lucky to get someone who will stand by you but a goal without a deadline is just a dream. She will eventually get tired of hoping and give up. Your Bottom will be dumped. Sorry U can't command respect As a man traditionally, u hav d obligation to command respect, but immagine when u can nt buy ur subsciption on her blackberry fone dat wz bought 4her by her x, or u can't pay 4d okada man dat carrd her 2ur house, dat very day, u begin 2 loss value nt only b4 her both her friends and family member. U can't talk and ur voice wil be heard. Infact ur presenc in some gatherin wil b a flop. I know that all people deserve to be loved no matter who or what they are but money is very important in every relationship so I think a man that cannot afford to date needs to wait’m not trying to encourage women to be gold diggers nor write broke guys off as useless. This is just an advice from a guy who have tasted both sides which I feel I should share with you and found that a broke guy who is in relationship is not being true to himself. To be honest, most of what we have heard about relationship are unfounded. Nobody will love you for who you are when you don’t have shi shi. Believe me,money can steer a relationship... I read about a professor in one of the American schools who proved that Money indeed can buy happiness,when its spent on people. That’s just the truth. Even the independent ladies who don’t want your money will want someone who’s settled in their life. For them, finding a partner is about finding someone who fits into their lifestyle and plans for the future. That includes things that cost money. Below are the reasons why broke guys should forget dating for now. 1. You are not ready for it; You may want it but honestly you don’t need it. You need to be thinking of a master plan. You need to re-prioritize your life and get busy with something. Anybody who is having some major financial struggles needs to be focused on getting that together, not dating. get your act together THEN date. 2. You Ego Will Be Bruised; Money does matter in our society, way too much. A person’s ability to eat and look good and get medicine in time of need and take care of your woman are the things that makes one a man. Think about it, she called you on phone and asked for money and you gave her the same answer. “I no get”. Then you found out much later that she somehow got the money. You ask and was told that she got it from another guy. Your heart is darned if he is one of her admirers that you are aware of. 3. It Is A Distraction; A broke guy needs all the time in the world alone to sort out things and having a woman who will add some few loads to his already bent shoulder will do him no good. Don’t tell me he needs a woman’s support because a good female friend supports one more than his girlfriend. You don’t need that extra load. 4. You Will Be Cheated On; You read me right. Girls have the habit of getting bored of things quickly, this is due to who they are, which is coupled with the pressures of society. Society always wants them to get the newest and latest thing, so one day she will get tired of hoping and waiting and accept that guy who has been disturbing her. She may not tell you about it because she wouldn’t want to hurt you so you end up being cheated on. 5. You Will Be FriendsZoned; She likes you but cannot continue to date you because you cannot take care of her needs. So she would friendzone you in other not to lose you completely. At least there is something you are good at and she will keep your friendship because of that. Women are smart walahi 6. She Won’t Feel Loved; Since traditionally men are the ones that pay for dates, it is impossible then to prove your love when there is no shi shi. How can you surprise her? How can you take her out on a date or buy her gifts? How can you say you love her when she cannot rely on you when she is broke? 7. You Will Be Dumped; Not because she doesn’t love you but because You are not the right material for a woman who has marriage and raising a family in her agenda. You may be lucky to get someone who will stand by you but a goal without a deadline is just a dream. She will eventually get tired of hoping and give up. Your Bottom will be dumped. Sorry U can't command respect As a man traditionally, u hav d obligation to command respect, but immagine when u can nt buy ur subsciption on her blackberry fone dat wz bought 4her by her x, or u can't pay 4d okada man dat carrd her 2ur house, dat very day, u begin 2 loss value nt only b4 her both her friends and family member. U can't talk and ur voice wil be heard. Infact ur presenc in some gatherin wil b a flop. I know that all people deserve to be loved no matter who or what they are but money is very important in every relationship so I think a man that cannot afford to date needs to wait 1 Like |
Re: 8 Reasons Why Broke Guys Should Not Date by Niwdog(m): 6:54am On Feb 20, 2015 |
As a broke dude. Let me purchase these first plot of land for my angel |
Re: 8 Reasons Why Broke Guys Should Not Date by jairusben(m): 6:55am On Feb 20, 2015 |
abeg person wey read am finish..wetin im talk 1 Like |
Re: 8 Reasons Why Broke Guys Should Not Date by teemanbastos(m): 7:16am On Feb 20, 2015 |
jairusben:e tok sae....Na MONEY matter in a relationship. D rest na wash. |
Re: 8 Reasons Why Broke Guys Should Not Date by Godfullsam(m): 7:27am On Feb 20, 2015 |
@OP, why all these unnecessary repetitions . Mean while, all these can only happen if a financially broke decided to date a mentally broke lady . 1 Like |
Re: 8 Reasons Why Broke Guys Should Not Date by bosteps: 7:37am On Feb 20, 2015 |
I mostly agree with you but your write up is so poorly laid out. |
Re: 8 Reasons Why Broke Guys Should Not Date by Nobody: 8:56am On Feb 20, 2015 |
... tooooooooooooo looooooooooooooong! I have a question ... Please who is a 'broke guy' Is it one who is sensible enough to probe and verify every request made? Or one who lives and works strictly on his budget and would never over shot it no matter what? Or is it the guy who may not be able to eat out and buy gifts consistently? |
Re: 8 Reasons Why Broke Guys Should Not Date by jairusben(m): 12:13pm On Feb 20, 2015 |
teemanbastos:thanks..dis wan no b for me..#igetmoney |
Re: 8 Reasons Why Broke Guys Should Not Date by teemanbastos(m): 12:21pm On Feb 20, 2015 |
jairusben:i sight you bro. |
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