I know most people do not believe karma but the truth of the matter is that it exists and may hit us when we least expect it. To live a long and happy life, it is always safe to clearly define what you want in a relationship before you go into one. And when you are lucky to get into one, also define the relationship explicitly with your partner before it gets too serious.

I have seen relationships that ended the wrong way simply because the other person was expected more (or less) from the other. Please before you jilt and hurt (maybe because you met someone you feel its better) the person that has scarified a lot for you and loves you so dearly, please note that you will likely go through the following stages after the breakup:

[b]Stage 1: [/b]At this point, you will find out that you will be trying so hard to proof to yourself and others around you that you made the right decision by ending your ex. At this stage you will possibly be enjoying your NEW found love.

[b]Stage 2: [/b]After a while, you might start seeing flaws in your new partner and probably wonder why you left your ex in the first place. Your ex at this stage is gradually be healing from the pain you caused them and will likely still be vulnerable (or probably wiser). If you decide to come back to him/her at this point, three possibly things will happen. First, he/she might still forgive and accept you back because (maybe) they still love you and is scared to start something new with someone else. Or he/she may just accept you back but will never be committed to you again. Lastly, you might find out that they have already moved on with their lives (with a new guy/chic who is way much better than you are )

[b]Stage 3: [/b]The Law of Karma sets in. At this stage, you will see yourself fighting so hard to be loved and appreciated in your other relationships. However, at this stage, some people will be lucky to get another chance in love by simply asking for forgiveness from God, from your ex and from yourself.

Thus, in order to avoid these experience, try as much as you can to honestly define what you want in a relationship so that when you are finally in one you will not have any reason to leave the person.

PS: If your partner leaves just have it at the back of your mind that the law of karma will catch up with them and that you will eventually meet someone who deserves your love.

Cheers!!!