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What Do I Do To Start A Real Relationship by hippyzuki(f): 8:50am On Feb 22, 2015
Good morning Nlanders. I have been single for a little less than a year now and I feel it's time to date. But the problem is there's so much emphasis on sex this days. M not a virgin but I think a young girl and a young man should be in love and have a definite relationship before sex comes in my decision to remain celebate untill I'm in a relationship is because if you ask people the number of sexual pathners they have had dem go use hand leg teeth and hair way de dem head take count am.I meet nice young men who on the first date actually want to take u to bed and this has cost me good friendships and relationships as well. So how do I know differentiate the sheep from the goats?
Re: What Do I Do To Start A Real Relationship by Nobody: 8:51am On Feb 22, 2015
Op, when I read your post I smiled, because you are an assurance that there are still wise and intelligent women out there

A relationship shouldn't be about sex, but believe it or not, sex tends to build it up.
Its a pity that most guys out there are just concerned about sex in a relationship and leave out the crucial elements such as love, care, respect an trust.

Well to differentiate between the goats and the sheep, I can't really say but you should know this.... When you come across a guy who is not just interested in sleeping with you, you would know. The things he says and his general character and disposition would tell.

Finally op, the way you showcase yourself to men, defines the kind that you would attract. The way you dress and carry yourself will go a long way in determining if you would attract "the sheep or the goat".

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Re: What Do I Do To Start A Real Relationship by Nobody: 8:52am On Feb 22, 2015
hippyzuki:
Good morning Nlanders. I have been single for a little less than a year now and I feel it's time to date. But the problem is there's so much emphasis on sex this days. M not a virgin but I think a young girl and a young man should be in love and have a definite relationship before sex comes in my decision to remain celebate untill I'm in a relationship is because if you ask people the number of sexual pathners they have had dem go use hand leg teeth and hair way de dem head take count am.I meet nice young men who on the first date actually want to take u to bed and this has cost me good friendships and relationships as well. So how do I know differentiate the sheep from the goats?
Lol.

You are already doing the differentiation without knowing it. . . You know what you want. I admire that. Goats want sex on the first date cos that's all they want you for - an object of gratification. A guy who wants you for long term doesn't care if you don't have sex with him till he gets married to you, even though he won't refuse if you decide not to wait till then. But the difference here is that he puts you above his immediate needs. If he sees you as a wife already, he already knows una go have sex tire.

I'll say keep weeding them out the way you have been. One day, you'll meet a man who isn't sex crazed. Avoid being desperate or showing signs of desperation, cos if you do, trust me, guys will notice and would want to use that singular fact against you. If I want a girl for long term, I make her a very good friend. I get to know everything about her and her family, her values, her beliefs. Those matter more to me than the sexual aspect of her. So, if a guy refuses to get to know you more except acknowledging how sexy you are, how your ass shakes when you walk, how your boobs bounce, how he can't stop looking at your pretty face, how your hips don't lie, etc. . . your warning bells should go off.

You already know what you want. You just needed conviction that you were on the right path. . . Keep it up.

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Re: What Do I Do To Start A Real Relationship by Nairalander01: 8:55am On Feb 22, 2015
Qwerty
Re: What Do I Do To Start A Real Relationship by Akkord4gov: 8:57am On Feb 22, 2015
Am coming
Re: What Do I Do To Start A Real Relationship by alberto2k(m): 9:00am On Feb 22, 2015
Hope u paid for this advert grin
Re: What Do I Do To Start A Real Relationship by Enegod(m): 9:00am On Feb 22, 2015
hippyzuki:
Good morning Nlanders. I have been single for a little less than a year now and I feel it's time to date. But the problem is there's so much emphasis on sex this days. M not a virgin but I think a young girl and a young man should be in love and have a definite relationship before sex comes in my decision to remain celebate untill I'm in a relationship is because if you ask people the number of sexual pathners they have had dem go use hand leg teeth and hair way de dem head take count am.I meet nice young men who on the first date actually want to take u to bed and this has cost me good friendships and relationships as well. So how do I know differentiate the sheep from the goats?
Sheep belong to the Ovas Aries species and have 54 chromosomes while goats belong to Capra Hircus species and have 60 chromosomes..hope this helps undecided
Re: What Do I Do To Start A Real Relationship by hippyzuki(f): 9:01am On Feb 22, 2015
Enegod:
Sheep belong to the Ovas Aries species and have 54 chromosomes while goats belong to Capra Hircus species and have 60 chromosomes..hope this helps undecided
No it doesn't grin
Re: What Do I Do To Start A Real Relationship by Nobody: 9:02am On Feb 22, 2015
hippyzuki:
Good morning Nlanders. I have been single for a little less than a year now and I feel it's time to date. But the problem is there's so much emphasis on sex this days. M not a virgin but I think a young girl and a young man should be in love and have a definite relationship before sex comes in my decision to remain celebate untill I'm in a relationship is because if you ask people the number of sexual pathners they have had dem go use hand leg teeth and hair way de dem head take count am.I meet nice young men who on the first date actually want to take u to bed and this has cost me good friendships and relationships as well. So how do I know differentiate the sheep from the goats?
Re: What Do I Do To Start A Real Relationship by djeezy(m): 9:03am On Feb 22, 2015
Enegod:
Sheep belong to the Ovas Aries species and have 54 chromosomes while goats belong to Capra Hircus species and have 60 chromosomes..hope this helps undecided
Lmao. Guy advice her na. grin
Re: What Do I Do To Start A Real Relationship by Viktoh(m): 9:07am On Feb 22, 2015
Na so wan aunty advertise say she dae find bf God kon ansa prayer she kon burst em boys kasala grin .....dun worry God answers by faya






grin
Re: What Do I Do To Start A Real Relationship by djeezy(m): 9:08am On Feb 22, 2015
Op, their are decent guys out there who would love you devoid of sex. I keep saying it, every relationship shouldn't be all about sex. Just pray for God to give you the foresight to identify who is the right person for you. And lastly if you're solely dependent on a man, he may want to have sex with you as repayment for his good deeds. Try as much as possible to be resourceful.

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Re: What Do I Do To Start A Real Relationship by Viktoh(m): 9:08am On Feb 22, 2015
Enegod:
Sheep belong to the Ovas Aries species and have 54 chromosomes while goats belong to Capra Hircus species and have 60 chromosomes..hope this helps undecided
bro u wicked grin
Re: What Do I Do To Start A Real Relationship by Tattooboy: 9:09am On Feb 22, 2015
@op we're all d same.
Re: What Do I Do To Start A Real Relationship by djeezy(m): 9:11am On Feb 22, 2015
Tattooboy:
@op we're all d same.
You and who? undecided

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Re: What Do I Do To Start A Real Relationship by Nobody: 9:13am On Feb 22, 2015
Tattooboy:
@op we're all d same.
You and who? undecided
Re: What Do I Do To Start A Real Relationship by Cutehector(m): 9:16am On Feb 22, 2015
alberto2k:
Hope u paid for this advert grin
lol yea she did. She don settle d gods

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Re: What Do I Do To Start A Real Relationship by Enegod(m): 9:20am On Feb 22, 2015
hippyzuki:

No it doesn't grin
don't you gerrit?!!! undecided
Any man that follows you sheepishly is a sheep
Any man that is stubborn to follow you(because of high level of chromosome) is a goat..
gerrit?

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Re: What Do I Do To Start A Real Relationship by Enegod(m): 9:27am On Feb 22, 2015
djeezy:
Lmao. Guy advice her na. grin
Viktoh:
bro u wicked grin
undecided undecided
Re: What Do I Do To Start A Real Relationship by Dubemkelly(m): 9:44am On Feb 22, 2015
By taking yourself more seriously
Re: What Do I Do To Start A Real Relationship by alberto2k(m): 9:46am On Feb 22, 2015
Tattooboy:
@op we're all d same.
You and who? undecided
Re: What Do I Do To Start A Real Relationship by Samiceman: 9:48am On Feb 22, 2015
Lemme send my acct number...

If u can credit me...

Then I promise u a mind blowing relationship

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