morethanadoll:

I agree with this statement. I don't care how much money a guy has. If he can't make me laugh, be romantic without spending a dime, and I don't enjoy being in his presence, all of his fortune means nothing. I make my own money and can provide for myself. I look for a man to grow old and share life with, not for the dollars.

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Am sorry.Let this whole talk end.It was nice knowing u

brownlord:


Never, not now that I'm ready to stalk, please reply my PM

teabully:
hi babe, may I meet u pls, I hardly do this, but jst struck by ur pix

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lol.....Okay,I will

brownlord:


You sure you can? Even when I'm not loyal

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yes,I'm sure

anwo247:
Nigerian girl dump a rich guy with Bugatti?
















Sorry, na lie. No vex

brownlord:


Unable to PM, 11 digit or needle?

CharlesNneji1:
I don't write these articles to "impress people", i write it to educate "the right people".

SO....

if you don't like it, it is okay...enjoy

if you feel money can get you love; then enjoy....use money to get love.

If you feel that you don't have enough will power and that having someone you like around you will distract you and make you not to get rich, then i agree with you, please whenever you see babe you like close your eyes and pass.

BUT BEFORE YOU JUMP INTO conclusions that money can get you love, i said LOVE, not one night stands; first - read the comments of every girl that commented on this article.

Two; get closer to rich bachelors

Because sometimes; when we swim in fantasies we start believing them

Happy sunday ya'all, *smiles* If you like no go church

CharlesNneji1:
I don't write these articles to "impress people", i write it to educate "the right people".

SO....

if you don't like it, it is okay...enjoy

if you feel money can get you love; then enjoy....use money to get love.

If you feel that you don't have enough will power and that having someone you like around you will distract you and make you not to get rich, then i agree with you, please whenever you see babe you like close your eyes and pass.

BUT BEFORE YOU JUMP INTO conclusions that money can get you love, i said LOVE, not one night stands; first - read the comments of every girl that commented on this article.

Two; get closer to rich bachelors

Because sometimes; when we swim in fantasies we start believing them

Happy sunday ya'all, *smiles* If you like no go church

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I would have loved to but I can't drop it here. When I get your PM,I will drop d needle

sarmiie:
quite sensible...

i guess its dudes who have no sisters that get scared of gals

dryakson:
. Boss, I must say it you have change my dating life.... I have noticed significant change in my confidence and how I used the teasing and sarcasm to my advantage BUT SIR, can you give me practical examples on how to tease, sarcasm and the bedroom talk? I mean more examples k different scenario..... Am considering buying your ebook

brownlord:


I'd drop a number to SMS, deal?

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Deal

Pque:

mumu. U are through with ur higher institution nd u still live in ur father's house, a single old rag cos of ur dirty mouth. As 4 me through since 2013 even though I'am supposed to have been through since 2011. A Man is a Man whether in higher institution or not, employed or not. A Man always remains a Man irregardless of d circumstance he is in. A man lawfully is an adult ffrdeweymale sex, 18years and above.

sinizia:


You're confused. At one point you are arguing that money can't bring girls (not all girls) flocking to a guy and in the second embolden sentence you are acceding to the fact that money gets girls flocking unto a guy. you are just contradicting yourself.

Now talking about love, that's a different issue all together. It has nothing to do with the subject matter you are trying to argue against. When guys say money get girls coming at them like sugar ants to a sugar, they are not talking about love. They mean a good time - séx, flings, one night stands, etc. They know the ladies they're looking for are not rushing them for love. It's more like spend the money and get in between their legs. When such guys want to settle down, they play a different game. They search more carefully for that special person. So yes, money gets many girls (not all girls) flocking to a guy. It's sacrosanct!!

sinizia:


You're confused. At one point you are arguing that money can't bring girls (not all girls) flocking to a guy and in the second embolden sentence you are acceding to the fact that money gets girls flocking unto a guy. you are just contradicting yourself.

Now talking about love, that's a different issue all together. It has nothing to do with the subject matter you are trying to argue against. When guys say money get girls coming at them like sugar ants to a sugar, they are not talking about love. They mean a good time - séx, flings, one night stands, etc. They know the ladies they're looking for are not rushing them for love. It's more like spend the money and get in between their legs. When such guys want to settle down, they play a different game. They search more carefully for that special person. So yes, money gets many girls (not all girls) flocking to a guy. It's sacrosanct!!

RAKITIC:
A broke guy can never be ROMANTIC

CharlesNneji1:
I was driving back from my office this afternoon when the idea for this article hit me. For a moment i thought about parking my car by the side of the road to pull out my laptop and write this but thought against it; stopping to type by the road seemed too "crase-manish" for my liking...

But still;

THE EXCITEMENT TO WRITE THIS WAS THAT STRONG...

Now, stay with me - this is very important. The thing about these reasons i will list out in a moment is that they are not really a secret, i tagged it "secret" because guys hide these problems of theirs and keep it to themselves

I spent the whole of last night replying tons of email from guys who are going through hell in the hands of Girls they like; reading those emails was really a painful experience - nothing pains me like seeing a guy been treated like he is nothing by a girl he is crazy about.

This is why i do this; to make sure that as many guys as i can reach with my articles would never make the same mistakes that get girls to take them less seriously.

*smiles*

Of course, not everyone will like these articles - infact, most people won't agree with them. But it's fine - na so life be - everybody must not agree with you and you mustn't say things just to impress people.

Now; lets get to business.

#1: THE "MONEY WILL GET GIRLS FLOCKING TO ME" MENTALITY:

Trust me, i have come to find out that when a guy says: "get money first and girls will come flocking around you", such guys usually say this because they have been frustrated by girls in the past. such guys get so frustrated that, to console themselves, they "wish" for a time when they will have a fat bank account and girls will come rushing into their arms.

THIS IS PURE FANTASY - Wake up, bro.

Also, most of these guys freak out when they see a girl they like, some of them cannot even hold a conversation with a female for 5 minutes.

See, don't get me wrong - having money is cool, pull up with a Bugatti to a party and girls will look at you like "who is that boy". Some would even want you to get them pregnant.

But here is the hard plain truth...

At a point in time you start wondering if these girls really like you or if they like your money.

Money brings you lazy, materialistic, cheating, "no dream" kind of girls who just want to stay at home and make babies and eat. If that is the kind of girl you want, then i agree with you - money will get them flocking to you (For sure)

But when it gets to getting a girl who has real value, who has a job, rides her own car (My type of girl) - you have to show her something else; money alone can't get her interested in you - you have to dazzle her with your personality and when your personality is wack - guy, nothing for you.

I have very rich friends, when i mean rich, i mean - RICH. I have worked with over a dozen extremely wealthy guys and they all have the same problem, which is: "How Do I find a girl who is not just interested in my money", "how do i find a girl who will love me for who i am"

*Go and listen to chorus of Iyanya's Orei - he is presently having that same problem too*

I hear alot of guy say things like: "be ugly, have a bad personality, have pot belly, have mouth odor - but once you have money girls will throw themselves at you".

This maybe true, gold digging girls will scramble over such a guy (I no go drag am with una).

but the question is this...

- Do they really like him??
- Will they be faithful to him if a better guy shows up?
- Will they stay on if the money dries up?

Think about that.

If you are the type that tremble when you talk to a girl, getting rich won't solve that fear - you are still the same guy, bro.
If you are a boring guy when you are broke, get rich - you are still boring, bro.

Moreover, the richer you get the more quality women you will meet. This women will have their own money and won't give a damn about yours. This women meet guys who are way richer than you everyday; the competition go still dey bro.

You need something more than money - You need a charming personality. Simple and short. If you Like console yourself from today reach tomorrow, money won't erase your lack of a charming personality (for those who don't have one).

Funny thing is that most broke guys go after girls with this mentality - they buy her gifts, pay her school fees, send her recharge card upon recharge card - and still get dumped.

Haba na


www.facebook.com/attractbabes

brownlord:


Wonderfool

engrkenny:


U don't ever address a man as such, please it's immature, we all have challenges, albeit u might even be worse than he is.

SkinnyDude:

lol. what do you suggest i do?

nortcentrallord:


I totally agree with you but gold diggers exist still.
But With the many rings on your fingers, one would have a second thought @ your first sight. Another reason why men don't get interested in ladies I guess.
No sane man goes after people's wives. If u aint married give some freedom to the marriage finger.

brownlord:


How did I address him?