There is this guy at my job that I like so much and I think he likes me too cos he's been flirting with me at work. He is American and I am African.

He wants us to hangout for the past 4 months but I keep turning him down all the time. I am almost 28 but can't keep a steady relationship all my life. My worry is we work together and our colleagues are already spreading rumors about us dating because we are kinda close☺️

Another thing is I am a virgin and most American guys are obsessed with sex. Fact is I like this guy a lot and would like to start something with him but I'm scared of failure. Any advice would be much appreciated!!

You tend to worry too much,, why not enjoy the moment and stop thinking about failing,, and if you are not ready to loose your virginity don't go into the relationship as most Americans are sex freak...virgin@28 is so cool..

Teagirl:
You tend to worry too much,, why not enjoy the moment and stop thinking about failing,, and if you are not ready to loose your virginity don't go into the relationship as most Americans are sex freak...virgin@28 is so cool..

Word @ "you tend to worry too much" Thanks for the sound advice sister!!! Too many "what ifs" going on my Mind right now

victor2008:
opportunity comes once this ur time, office relationship don't last, enjoy the sex

virgins don't have sexual fantacy, so sex is out of it.

Just chance him a give

Teagirl:
virgins don't have sexual fantacy, so sex is out of it.

Virgins don't have sexual fantasies? For real? You must be talking about aliens and not humans. Virgins have sexùal fantasies, have sexùal urges, all the damn time!! It's only their self-control, determination and religious beliefs that keeps them in check.

@ OP, I think you should stop worrying about what others think of you and live your life. If you love him, give it a try. Fùck what the world thinks. If you don't want séx, clearly spell it out for him before you agree to date so he will decide if he wants to go along with it or not. Wish you the best.

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sexyHR:
There is this guy at my job that I like so much and I think he likes me too cos he's been flirting with me at work. He is American and I am African.

He wants us to hangout for the past 4 months but I keep turning him down all the time. I am almost 28 but can't keep a steady relationship all my life. My worry is we work together and our colleagues are already spreading rumors about us dating because we are kinda close☺️

Another thing is I am a virgin and most American guys are obsessed with sex. Fact is I like this guy a lot and would like to start something with him but I'm scared of failure. Any advice would be much appreciated!!

stay away from office relationships!

baralatie:

stay away from office relationships!

My dear, would you like to share why you said that?

sexyHR:
There is this guy at my job that I like so much and I think he likes me too cos he's been flirting with me at work. He is American and I am African.

He wants us to hangout for the past 4 months but I keep turning him down all the time. I am almost 28 but can't keep a steady relationship all my life. My worry is we work together and our colleagues are already spreading rumors about us dating because we are kinda close☺️

Another thing is I am a virgin and most American guys are obsessed with sex. Fact is I like this guy a lot and would like to start something with him but I'm scared of failure. Any advice would be much appreciated!!

give him a chance my dear. go on a date with him,listen to what he's got to offer. Also, don't forget to set your boundaries. don't forget to pray about it too.

my1cent

I don't want to talk like a racist,if he is a black guy raise in big city,am crying for ur virginity if it's true u are a fagin

Luv your happines first. Give him a chance and see what happens next . Goodluck

[color=#990000][/color] i wish if i can confirm that, virgin @27+

sexyHR:


My dear, would you like to share why you said that?

It so happens that I have seen lots of office romances.I worked in situations where the female staff(the gifted ones) were bombarded with all sort of offers.
of course I saw the preferential treatment given until either the lady or the man got tired.then manipulation start before you know.someone name has been dropped or a scandal erupts and management has to make a decision or the lady sits down and swallow all kind of backyard talk about her personal life!
it is a big mess!!!
except for one of the heads(foreign),as promiscious as he was he made it clear that the female deliver professional ethics.their personal life should not and never follow into his office!