My finacee and I had planned our intro/wedding sometime in august.which her mum is aware off. Now yestersday she came home looking worried.I asked my fiancee,which she said her elder brother in the USA has sent for her mom to relocated for health reasons,to the USA and she might be there for the next 2years or so. Now her mum called me to inform me that she is living Nigeria to the USA in May. That I should marry her daughter b4 she lives. My problem is I am not financially ready yet. As I just spent a lot relocating to a newer apartment.I told my fiancee that it can't happen,that her mum can go,after all her father is here in nigeria. Since I altered those words my finacee has kelpt malice with me.and giving me all cold feet..pls house I need more advise of response I shud give her mom when she asks me again. Though she is aware of some of my financial incapbilities for now.

They are many fishes in the ocean.

Both your fiancee and her mun are not serious. Don't tell me that is the type of lady you want to marry.

i've just got an headache reading your post

Op u be enemy of progress oo the girl wan go amelica u wan stop her

This thread should be closed

Tell her this "we are nothing but pencils in the hands of the Creator" if she doesn't reason well with you, forget her. The right person will come.

oloyolo:
Op u be enemy of progress oo the girl wan go amelica u wan stop her

This thread should be closed

go back and read the post then you can modify your post.






Thank me later.

Hmmm..... Eleyii lagbara

daimsy:
go back and read the post then you can modify your post.






Thank me later.

. God bless you for your reply.

Princecalm:
Both your fiancee and her mun are not serious. Don't tell me that is the type of lady you want to marry.

True

u are financially handicapped for nw,if she and her mom don't see reason to this then_make erybody go their separate ways

*in a few months time,after getting married_u ain't gonna lyk it bro cos that's when expenses gonna b flowing lyk garri + if she ain't working
#YouKnowWhatToDo

Princecalm:
Both your fiancee and her mun are not serious. Don't tell me that is the type of lady you want to marry.

trust me she is good girl.and I trully love her.my folks do too. But its just her mum that's an issue here. Its not the first time her mum has done somefin similar to this. Just recently her close friend who's my workplace junior said,the mum was actually the fault of her last breakup.and its similar to what just happend.

igwemoagbo:
trust me she is good girl.and I trully love her.my folks do too. But its just her mum that's an issue here. Its not the first time her mum has done somefin similar to this. Just recently her close friend who's my workplace junior said,the mum was actually the fault of her last breakup.and its similar to what just happend.

Then maybe you should talk to her dad.


11:21:56
Sun, Mar 8, 2015

igwemoagbo:
My finacee and I had planned our intro/wedding sometime in august.which her mum is aware off. Now yestersday she came home looking worried.I asked my fiancee,which she said her elder brother in the USA has sent for her mom to relocated for health reasons,to the USA and she might be there for the next 2years or so. Now her mum called me to inform me that she is living Nigeria to the USA in May. That I should marry her daughter b4 she lives. My problem is I am not financially ready yet. As I just spent a lot relocating to a newer apartment.I told my fiancee that it can't happen,that her mum can go,after all her father is here in nigeria. Since I altered those words my finacee has kelpt malice with me.and giving me all cold feet..pls house I need more advise of response I shud give her mom when she asks me again. Though she is aware of some of my financial incapbilities for now.

my guy,if the girl and her mom fail to reason with you leave her.There are many fishes in the river.

dis story get k leg. so relocating to usa means immigration will padlock her legs in usa abi. d father is still in nigeria. hmmm. to me dis tin is a plan work to make sure u marry her asap

Tell her to tell her mom to provide money for the marriage since she want to witness it before relocating. Bro this is a sign to show that the marriage may encounter problems because of the mother in law influence on your finance, my uncle's marriage is a good example of good marriage gone bad because of mother in law interference.

You don't need so much money for marriage na.

Let her understand,if she didn't,let her be..

Is she,and her mum expecting you to break a bank for them to do the intro?

Better still,if she's adamant,tell her to foot the bill then...

Nonsense.

I wish you can put your foot on the ground and maintain your stand.

Big time evil is approaching my brother, and the earlier you chase it will broom sticks, the better..

The mother in law will be the one to pilot the affairs of what is gonna be happening in your home, maybe how many times you must make love to her daughter etc.

I suggest you approach this thing on the father's angle. He is a man and will understand better except if he is ruled by the wife. Which I kinda believe.......

initiate the discussion about marriage with her dad!!
then only he can give a reasonable answer to this your present issue.if the mother and fiancee are still in malice mode
then shift!

They (ur fiancee and her mum) don't need to be selfish, they should consider ur general state if they want U to marry their daughter without putting pressure on u.

Richy4:
I wish you can put your foot on the ground and maintain your stand.

Big time evil is approaching my brother, and the earlier you chase it will broom sticks, the better..

[b]The mother in law will be the one to pilot the affairs of what is gonna be happening in your home,[/b]maybe how many times you must make love to her daughter etc.

I suggest you approach this thing on the father's angle. He is a man and will understand better except if he is ruled by the wife. Which I kinda believe.......

God bless you bro... I wouldn't have said it better