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| Am I The Wrong Choice? by LexaP(f): 10:04pm On Mar 09, 2015 |
After a breakup over a year ago, I stayed off relationships or should I say relationships scares me kind of. Few months ago, I met a guy and we got talking. The vibe was strong and my resistance fell off completely. The relationship started few weeks back and since then, we haven't been doing fine. It's like I am not good enough, I feel so bad cos he has to correct me over and over. I've not always being like this , I find it very hard understanding myself either. Is it that I'm still not ready for a relationship or I'm not just the right person for him.  Pls, help a girl out... The situation is bad already, pls don't make it worse with insults. |
| Re: Am I The Wrong Choice? by Cutehector(m): 10:17pm On Mar 09, 2015 |
I think you aint ready yet. Or berra still, ur d typ dat can't stay single. 1 Like |
| Re: Am I The Wrong Choice? by Nobody: 10:22pm On Mar 09, 2015 |
You've given up on yourself already, that's the good thing about a relationship we correct one another with love. Can you tell me some of your mistakes? if you want to. 2 Likes |
| Re: Am I The Wrong Choice? by ronald4lif(m): 10:22pm On Mar 09, 2015 |
For a start, it will be nice if you could drop some examples on the things he's had to correct you about over the past few weeks |
| Re: Am I The Wrong Choice? by 1stola: 10:23pm On Mar 09, 2015 |
LexaP:What are you not good enough for? Fûcking? 1 Like |
| Re: Am I The Wrong Choice? by Nobody: 10:28pm On Mar 09, 2015 |
Go on a break girl, stay away from anything concerning relationship or dating for a while, when you're back, you will identify your flaws and deal with them appropriately |
| Re: Am I The Wrong Choice? by Nobody: 10:29pm On Mar 09, 2015 |
1stola:you just added insults bro.. Bad guy |
| Re: Am I The Wrong Choice? by Enegod(m): 10:32pm On Mar 09, 2015 |
LexaP:don't you know how to cook, nyash, sweep the house, pound yam, wash...?  We don't really gerrit?  |
| Re: Am I The Wrong Choice? by LexaP(f): 10:38pm On Mar 09, 2015 |
ronald4lif: He says I act like I don't av any regard for him, better still I behave like I don't regard him, lik picking up his his fone to see who he's been talking to, sometimes shout at him wen I'm obviously wrong brito: He actually corrects me bt I still do somefin else that he'll av to complain. It's like he sees me as ds girl that can't change. Bt I love him and wanna be the best I could for him. |
| Re: Am I The Wrong Choice? by Nobody: 11:05pm On Mar 09, 2015 |
You cant be ready overnight Yiu have to work towards that. Make him understand that you need his help Help yourself too by being romantic small let go of the past This is something new |
| Re: Am I The Wrong Choice? by justmag(m): 11:14pm On Mar 09, 2015 |
Maybe your feelings packed it's bag and left u. You sound like you don't give a f**k about relationships. |
| Re: Am I The Wrong Choice? by ronald4lif(m): 11:19pm On Mar 09, 2015 |
LexaP: It's safe to assume that you usually sneak in to his phone, invading his privacy which is not nice. You're scared you could lose him and that's why you are making way to his phone to confirm your worries but there's no need for that. What if you see stuffs you won't like then what next? Create troubles and quit the relationship? Let his phone be to save yourself from such wahala. And if you also raise your voice on him stop it too. There are better ways to convey a message without nagging. Please stop already no guy love a nagging woman. If you truly love this guy, and don't want to lose him, stop doing whatever that makes him upset and be quick to apologise for every wrongdoings of yours. 1 Like |
| Re: Am I The Wrong Choice? by ivyT(f): 11:23pm On Mar 09, 2015 |
Enegod: oh c'mon b serious *rolls eyes* *runs away*b4 u attack a pweddy gurl lyk me |
| Re: Am I The Wrong Choice? by LewisO: 11:29pm On Mar 09, 2015 |
[size=15pt]U didn't make this understandable, let's know what really make your ex's leave u and what u did he's correcting u about. U lay it as if those guys treated u bad, and as if u are pure. Without that this post gat no point. [/size] |
| Re: Am I The Wrong Choice? by Enegod(m): 11:43pm On Mar 09, 2015 |
ivyT:  |
| Re: Am I The Wrong Choice? by Nobody: 11:52pm On Mar 09, 2015 |
What sorts of mistakes were you making? Throw more light on them too. Thanks. #TeamNeverAgain. ........................................buy 1GB MTN Data plan for N1,200 only. 30 days duration. Works in all devices (Andriod/iPhone, Phone or Modem). 24/7 services available. Also Convert Airtime to Cash (20% Processing Fee). Call: 08107873795. Thanks & God bless. |
| Re: Am I The Wrong Choice? by Hawlahscho(m): 8:37am On Mar 10, 2015 |
Sister, our advices here can even make u go wrong way cos the post sounds a bit ambiguous. We don't know your age, @ least age range, we don't know d mistakes you make, we don't know if you make d same mistakes over and over or different mistakes, etc if u can provide some more details, maybe I'll say smth better but for now... LISTEN and PICK out of what others are telling you. ***am out*** |
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