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My Girlfriend Is 4years Older Than Me. Pls Ur Advice by Samirana360(m): 7:10pm On Mar 12, 2015
She's abt 30years old while am 26 and she is pushing 4 marriage. What wil I do? Pls advice me
Re: My Girlfriend Is 4years Older Than Me. Pls Ur Advice by Tallesty1(m): 7:16pm On Mar 12, 2015
Your gf abi your aunt?

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Re: My Girlfriend Is 4years Older Than Me. Pls Ur Advice by LewisO: 7:19pm On Mar 12, 2015
[size=15pt] Can't u date a younger lady close to your age range?

Date her but don't intend to marry her, let her know u can't marry her.

Now she's forcing marriage on u... The best for you is to free her. [/size]
Re: My Girlfriend Is 4years Older Than Me. Pls Ur Advice by Enegod(m): 7:23pm On Mar 12, 2015
I am very attracted to older women. And if i get a chance i will marry older woman...12 or 10 year older . undecided

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Re: My Girlfriend Is 4years Older Than Me. Pls Ur Advice by Samirana360(m): 7:25pm On Mar 12, 2015
D only tin dat's confusin is her nature. Her age didn't show in nature and she's beautiful and dat's y I started datin her. And we've dated 4 abt 2years b4 she told me her real age. We've actully gone far

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Re: My Girlfriend Is 4years Older Than Me. Pls Ur Advice by sinaj(f): 7:25pm On Mar 12, 2015
she iz too young for u nau!

look for a gel dat iz 10yrs older m sure the relationship will workout jux fine... undecided
Re: My Girlfriend Is 4years Older Than Me. Pls Ur Advice by steppins: 7:27pm On Mar 12, 2015
Enegod:
I am very attracted to older women. And if i get a chance i will marry older woman...12 or 10 year older . undecided
Bro, it's like you like em with stretch marks?
Re: My Girlfriend Is 4years Older Than Me. Pls Ur Advice by damseyl(f): 7:27pm On Mar 12, 2015
Not bad
Re: My Girlfriend Is 4years Older Than Me. Pls Ur Advice by Nobody: 7:28pm On Mar 12, 2015
Knock your head on the wall. Let's see if you will do that.

You know very well within yourself how you feel about her and you are here asking for advice. 4 yrs is nothing, you probably just don't wanna marry her.
Re: My Girlfriend Is 4years Older Than Me. Pls Ur Advice by Enegod(m): 7:30pm On Mar 12, 2015
steppins:

Bro, it's like you like em with stretch marks?
stretch mark is sexy undecided
Re: My Girlfriend Is 4years Older Than Me. Pls Ur Advice by OkuDiOver1(f): 7:31pm On Mar 12, 2015
Age is just a number
Re: My Girlfriend Is 4years Older Than Me. Pls Ur Advice by eghos12(m): 7:32pm On Mar 12, 2015
bros i know u aint afraid to marry her na unforseen promblem that may arrise na dey fear you e.g
1 family
2 money
and things that comes with marriage


p.s foregin guys do marry older babes and leave happy ever after.
Re: My Girlfriend Is 4years Older Than Me. Pls Ur Advice by Hazardd(m): 7:34pm On Mar 12, 2015
age is just a number grin
if you love her and she have what you are looking in a woman, you can go ahead.

After all 4years gap is not much.
Re: My Girlfriend Is 4years Older Than Me. Pls Ur Advice by PunkyOh(f): 7:36pm On Mar 12, 2015
Samirana360:
D only tin dat's confusin is her nature. Her age didn't show in nature and she's beautiful and dat's y I started datin her. And we've dated 4 abt 2years b4 she told me her real age. We've actully gone far

I'm sorry but the part about her age not showing in her nature is kinda hilarious. She's 30! Not 80! Besides, there's not even that much of an age gap between you two for her to be showing "old lady" signs or something.

LMFAO it's like he expects her to carry a walking stick & coughing up phlegm at age 30.

You obviously have an issue with the age thing, so just tell her & say your goodbyes. What's the big deal?

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Re: My Girlfriend Is 4years Older Than Me. Pls Ur Advice by ronald4lif(m): 7:51pm On Mar 12, 2015
I know of a couple the husband is 5years younger, never seen a more happier couple. She respects him and the age difference has never been a problem.

In your case, you have to be sure if you're really willing to overlook her age provided you truly love this lady and want to be together with her happily ever after. She's got everything you want in a wife is what matters most. And you have to be ready to sail through and stand by her from every resistance that is likely to come from your family and friends. It will appear impossible at the beginning but when you're determined to spend the rest of your life with this woman nothing else matters, not even if the world is against your union.

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Re: My Girlfriend Is 4years Older Than Me. Pls Ur Advice by Feraz(m): 7:54pm On Mar 12, 2015
Samirana360:
She's abt 30years old while am 26 and she is pushing 4 marriage. What wil I do? Pls advice me
Are you ready for marriage/sure that you are going to marry her? If no, let her go. If yes, go ahead. . . I see nothing wrong dating a lady older than you as long as there's understanding and respect.

But bear in mind that you are going to face family and what not due to age difference.

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Re: My Girlfriend Is 4years Older Than Me. Pls Ur Advice by Nobody: 8:03pm On Mar 12, 2015
She probably charmed u o! shocked
Re: My Girlfriend Is 4years Older Than Me. Pls Ur Advice by chefremy(m): 8:20pm On Mar 12, 2015
if the LOVE is there, let it flow
Re: My Girlfriend Is 4years Older Than Me. Pls Ur Advice by Vision4God: 11:01pm On Mar 12, 2015
@OP u hv dated 4 2yrs b4 known ha age??
Beta b careful!!! It takes d grace of God 4 an older lady 2 respect d man altru marriage. Think if dats wat u really want!
Most important pray bout it.

sinaj:
she iz too young for u nau!
look for a gel dat iz 10yrs older m sure the relationship will workout jux fine... undecided

Hahaha..... u want mk op cry b dat o..
Funny u!
Re: My Girlfriend Is 4years Older Than Me. Pls Ur Advice by Samyj247: 11:29am On Mar 13, 2015
Samirana360:
D only tin dat's confusin is her nature. Her age didn't show in nature and she's beautiful and dat's y I started datin her. And we've dated 4 abt 2years b4 she told me her real age. We've actully gone far
Ehh wait here. U dated her for abt 2yrs b4 she told u her real age. Did she lie previously on her age?
Re: My Girlfriend Is 4years Older Than Me. Pls Ur Advice by lexyshady: 5:16pm On Mar 13, 2015
E wants advice if u can't offer 1 dnt insult

Dude av been in ur situation but got off it wit d fact we aint meant to be by destiny.u r up against factors such as family which myt not b kul wit d fact u datin som1 older dan u r,but if dey aint gat ani grudges against d age difrnces...u r 1 up,2 is d fact u kip askn urself if u r taken d ryt decision nd if it aint gonna b somtin u myt regret later in d future,dude I"f u r fuckn sure u wnt rgret,dude u r 2 up but if u aint sure...dude play along, neva promise her marriage tins nd am fuckn sure tym wil tel "she wil find her way or probly stick wit u if u r truely meant to b".u mentioned her being younger dan her age if am ryt...if u r denm sure u myt stil luk of dsame age yrs to kom...bro u r 3 up kos I pray u dnt b d typ seekin for advanture outsyd wyl uv gat a wyf @ home as a result of her nt lukn attractive nd u blame it on age.above all "age is bullshit...itz d level of undstndin nd tolerance dat matas" Bleep wat pips gada say.

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Re: My Girlfriend Is 4years Older Than Me. Pls Ur Advice by Samirana360(m): 8:29pm On Mar 13, 2015
Samyj247:

Ehh wait here. U dated her for abt 2yrs b4 she told u her real age. Did she lie previously on her age?
I won't call it lyin buh she was just hidin her real age thinkin I wil leave her if she open up
Re: My Girlfriend Is 4years Older Than Me. Pls Ur Advice by Samyj247: 8:37pm On Mar 13, 2015
Samirana360:

I won't call it lyin buh she was just hidin her real age thinkin I wil leave her if she open up
U askd her nd she said somtin else nd den u fell in lov for 2yrs. Assuming she told u d ril age, wld u hv loved her up to d extnt of marriage?
If no den stop bt ir yes den ryd on. For me, u loved her bcus she lyd abt her age, if nt u wont hv lovd her d way u do now. Ur love is on d foundation of lies. Ds is nt true love
Re: My Girlfriend Is 4years Older Than Me. Pls Ur Advice by Samirana360(m): 8:48pm On Mar 13, 2015
Samyj247:

U askd her nd she said somtin else nd den u fell in lov for 2yrs. Assuming she told u d ril age, wld u hv loved her up to d extnt of marriage?
If no den stop bt ir yes den ryd on. For me, u loved her bcus she lyd abt her age, if nt u wont hv lovd her d way u do now. Ur love is on d foundation of lies. Ds is nt true love
May be u ar not gettin it right...I luv her nt because she lyd. I met her as a young beautiful damsel and fell in luv wit. We've started datin b4 I brought up d issue of age.
Re: My Girlfriend Is 4years Older Than Me. Pls Ur Advice by Samyj247: 8:57pm On Mar 13, 2015
Samirana360:

May be u ar not gettin it right...I luv her nt because she lyd. I met her as a young beautiful damsel and fell in luv wit. We've started datin b4 I brought up d issue of age.
I get u, gudluck. Age shld nt b a barrier in a relationshippppp
Re: My Girlfriend Is 4years Older Than Me. Pls Ur Advice by chimerase2: 9:40pm On Mar 13, 2015
I knw most of dese commenting re above 30 but look at dem giving advice grin
Nawa oh romace sextion won't kill me grin
Re: My Girlfriend Is 4years Older Than Me. Pls Ur Advice by Samirana360(m): 9:24am On Mar 14, 2015
Tnx 4 ur advice
Re: My Girlfriend Is 4years Older Than Me. Pls Ur Advice by whizqueen(f): 9:42am On Mar 14, 2015
She is already in the "evening" of her life na grin
She jes has to marry.! Someone younger or orders, anytin goes grin

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