hey guys hope u'll help me out on this one.
during my 1st yr in sch i met a gurl call rose 4rm edo state.i fall in lv wit the gurl,she was actaully my 1st real love and she loves me too.we were always doing tins 2geter,take her out,help her finanacially,introduce her to all ma frnds and luckily they all like her except one but we never made lv but in our 2nd yr in the relationship i got a personal appartment so she always come to my place in that course we made lv guess wot? shes a virgin but after den shes always asking for more even wen on mensuration .then suddenly i discover that i dont lv the gurl anymore so out of lv i told her that we should give it a break but i later told her dat in d mean time i met a gurl and i want her but it doesnt disturb our relationship(truly) told her to trust me but she neva belived me saddly i lost the gurl cos of her stupidity,i was furious so i decided to treat her Bleep up and guess wot i did it neatly and she was so hurt but i ws desperate.b/4 i went for my IT she called me and told me dat she wants to know y i did all those things but i gave her a flimsy excuse,she said she will neva believe me again,later after much thought i told her to leave me but she neva did she still call me and come to my place smtimes,i told her several times dat she shuld leave me at 1st she will agree but she will later come back.i dont know y but my heart is divided.in the course of the miss-understanding i met a gurl dat am deeply in lv wit though ive neva made lv to her and i neva planned to cos i dont wanna make the same mistake.she has alot of qualities dat i lik so much shes even 4rm my state but my hrt still longs for rose but am scared cos i told her dat the only reason y she doesnt wanna leave me is dat she wants to pay me back but she deny the fact. please i need some help here.

well, i must admit that i did not understand the way you wrote your story. i had to read it over & over again to be able to say this. anyway, i think you are the one who needs to sort things out with your emotions. evaluate your relationship with your 1st girl and the one you are with now. who gave you the better treat? who did you feel comfortable with more? do not be carried away by the love making (that aspect has a way of blinding one's reasoning when you least expect it to). try to tell your self some home truths about the both of them. and finaaly, which of the two girls tries to bring out the best in you? i mean, encourage you to do some thing worthwhile with your time? by the time you are through with these questions, you will be able to tell which girl is good for you.

I think it's better to have a lot of experience with friends of the opposite sex.

dvampire thanks for the help i think i will say the 2nd gurl fits more than the 1st one but on the other hand the 1st one is also having some of the qualities, but i tink i will still study them very well.the problem am having is that am very much free wit the 2nd one than the 1st one.even after ive ask the 1st gurl to brake up the relationship she still wants me?