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The Case Of A Frustrated Young Man by lanrekoya(m): 9:43pm On Sep 01, 2006
What advice will you give to this boy?
He was born in a wealthy home and there was a problem in the family(Polygamus) and since the end of primary school, hes been all alone, doing odds jobs to pay till hes out of secondary school (almost fraustrated). After graduation from secondary school he tried getting a job with his cert and he was able to get one in a Cafe where he worked for bout a year, all because of the fact that the money he was earning wasnt much he tried taking exams JAMB, GCE, SAT but all bleeped up, he kept working, and somehow became a compitent in computer works and he took that opportunity to get A+ CErtified but wasnt able to complete is course all cos of Money, 2003 he had admissions to Uk to study ICT, from several colleges, same thing 2004, same applies 2005 now this is 2006, and hes now so fraustrated as theres no support from no one even for the fact that hes the second to the last born of eight in a family, but others of the brothers arent nice people even the father, though mother is trying but lil old and could only feed herself.

This is a guy that has serious mins of becoming something but doesnt want to use unpleasant means. He cried out today thats he fraustrated and needs help he even had a visa so South Africa but all because of money he wasnt able to take it up, he requested Loan from people but no one was ready to help.

This same guy has a brother that works with guiness as one of their manager but that brother happens to be a very mean and selfish person.

this case is too heavy for me to address please good people of Naira Land your Opinion is needed urgently.

Thank you
Re: The Case Of A Frustrated Young Man by lanrekoya(m): 9:51pm On Sep 01, 2006
What advice will you give to this boy?
He was born in a wealthy home and there was a problem in the family(Polygamus) and since the end of primary school, hes been all alone, doing odds jobs to pay till hes out of secondary school (almost fraustrated). After graduation from secondary school he tried getting a job with his cert and he was able to get one in a Cafe where he worked for bout a year, all because of the fact that the money he was earning wasnt much he tried taking exams JAMB, GCE, SAT but all bleeped up, he kept working, and somehow became a compitent in computer works and he took that opportunity to get A+ CErtified but wasnt able to complete is course all because of Money, 2003 he had admissions to Uk to study ICT, from several colleges, same thing 2004, same applies 2005 now this is 2006, and hes now so fraustrated as theres no support from no one even for the fact that hes the second to the last born of eight in a family, but others of the brothers arent nice people even the father, though mother is trying but lil old and could only feed herself.

This is a guy that has serious mins of becoming something but doesnt want to use unpleasant means. He cried out today thats he fraustrated and needs help he even had a visa so South Africa but all because of money he wasnt able to take it up, he requested Loan from people but no one was ready to help.

This same guy has a brother that works with guiness as one of their manager but that brother happens to be a very mean and selfish person.

this case is too heavy for me to address please good people of Naira Land your Opinion is needed urgently.

Thank you
Re: The Case Of A Frustrated Young Man by ebubepaul(m): 12:58am On Sep 02, 2006
Very pathetic story!First he need 2 consider a giant move which going 2 the final solutn(JESUS).IF he is a christian,hope he knows the passage of the bible that says come unto me all u dat labor & re heavily burdened,I shall give u rest,learn from me 4 my yoke is easy & my burden is light.in dis mess only God can intervene.he cant go on with only his struggles!psalm46vs1 says God is our refuge and strenght,always ready 2 help in times of trouble.psalm119vs41-43.psalm71:19-21.GOD almighty is everloving father.his case is not impossible 4 GOD 2 handle.Note dis,if he can do it 4 Abraham which if the best medical doctor ve been consulted would ve said no yr wife is post menopause!Guy JESUS is alive he is ready @ all time 2 resurrect evry dead situatn in his life.Let me advise him 2 give his life 2 JESUS.Tell him 2 go 2 redeem church & SPEAK 2 a man of God.as d LORD liveth his problems re ova.i PROphesy peace 2 his life.my email is p25paulo25@hotmail.com.mail me regularly.NO is 08027519105
Re: The Case Of A Frustrated Young Man by kg(f): 8:01pm On Sep 12, 2006
Stop looking to man for help, trust God and He himself will put men under pressure to do you good. They will be falling over themselves to favour you.

Also don't insist your blessing has to come in a particular way, be open and allow God direct you, stop trying to do it all by your might

Don't worry you can start small and end BIG, real BIG ----- a living dog is better than a dead lion, to him that is joined to the living there is hope.

Weeping may endure for a night but joy comes in the morning

DON'T GIVE UP! NEVER GIVE UP!! REFUSE TO GIVE UP!!!
Re: The Case Of A Frustrated Young Man by Ibukun2(f): 9:54am On Sep 13, 2006
Just keep on praying!!! That's my advice for you! Pray for blessing. There's nothing GOD can not do. He will help you even in the most hopeless situations. Put all your trust and faith in HIM. I will also include you into my prayers cause I think it's really a pity when somebody wants to do something good in his life but is not given a chance.
So many children in this country I am living are opportune to learn something good and get a good job but they are just too lazy and interested in too stupid things and when I see somebody that really wants to study well but is not given a chance, it really makes me go mad. It's the same in my home country. The government does not support your studies.
The only thing somebody has to do in this kind of a situation is to believe in GOD'S support and help.

And just like KG said: DON'T GIVE UP! NEVER GIVE UP!! REFUSE TO GIVE UP!!!
Re: The Case Of A Frustrated Young Man by kg(f): 7:18pm On Sep 13, 2006
I believe this will inspire you, your problem is not as big as you think it is or would you prefer to be in this guys' shoes?

I dare say "even the devil could be inspired to repentance with this!" grin

No arms, no legs yet praising the lord!

Re: The Case Of A Frustrated Young Man by MP007(m): 5:42am On Jul 02, 2007
buttom line, olowo laiye mo, Family, bless ur poor heart poster, Keep ur head up and keep trying ok, This just shows how terrible family and so-called friends can be sometimes.I wouldntl be surprised at the dramatic turn around of family and friends when u eventually hit it
Re: The Case Of A Frustrated Young Man by spora(m): 6:51pm On Jul 02, 2007
@ Kg,

God bless u 4 those pix.

Men! It is really inspiring. A great message, I call it.
Re: The Case Of A Frustrated Young Man by MILITIA(f): 7:24am On Jul 03, 2007
Na wah oh! sad
Re: The Case Of A Frustrated Young Man by moondust(m): 3:25pm On Jul 03, 2007
How can u say that u got a VISA, but getting the money is now an issue,
My brother wake up O! looks like ur view of life is still restricted, more like
a keyhole view, kick the freaking door down and have a broader look. nuff said!
Re: The Case Of A Frustrated Young Man by TOYOSI20(f): 5:04pm On Jan 30, 2008
spora:

@ Kg,

God bless u 4 those pix.

Men! It is really inspiring. A great message, I call it.


Well said. smiley

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