Its with a heavy heart I share the story of a lady dear to my heart who was raped by a heartless guy who had an STD and yet went ahead to rape this decent and innocent lady, not only taking away her virginity in such a cruel manner but also causing so much damage to her psych.

my question is:
Guys why do we rape/desecrate our ladies and young girls like this? if you so much need sex why can't you walk into a brothel, sex is as cheap as N200.

Am so pained

thats painful,its only a sex starved foool that will do that its not justifiable and most of this knida guys protect there sisters like kilode its not fair at all,btw ladies on the other hand need be watchful on the kinda dress the put on.in school u see a gurl going to night class with hot mini skirt and u expext a pycho guy to see u and start preaching for u Well in a nut shell #konji na bastard

Sex is as cheap as 200?
I guess they don't know that.
Also, I'm sure you know that it's hardwired into male mammals to exert power on the females to have sex. Normally, a normal man is not under this urge, but under special circumstances, they may break down and fall to this urge. And therefore rape women.
So, the answer to your question is, they rape women because they're bloody goats with a not so strange thirst for power and dominance on the opposite. Sex.

That's all.

A guy can kill to lower the height of his Konji... He won't mind raping

It depends

That guy is a real goat......any guy that has a conscience wouldn't stoop that low....he also just gave the lady a life time scar

ITbomb:
It depends

on what? there is no justification for rape

Do we have pervert speecialist in romance sextion

no stupid reason is accepted from a rapist....u rape, u get killed I think that should b d new rule.

Overdose libido

To prove an evil point, to get even with someone/lady, to show vengeance/ hatred/anger/displeasure

jamex93:
no stupid reason is accepted from a rapist....u rape, u get killed I think that should b d new rule.

stiffer measures should taken against rapist they're growing in numbers cause they get away with the callous act

Most times wen d gal is trying to mk u a mugu...
The difference btw Nigerian girls and American girls is as follows;
AMERICAN GIRL;
Day 1: hello can I take u out, after d taking out u probably end up with a hog or a kiss.
Day 2: u guys start getting close.
Day 3: sex...

NIGERIAN GIRL;
Day 1: hello can I have ur number,
Her reply: I don't have it offhand.
Guy: lemme dial it on ur phone so u can flash me.
Her reply: I don't have airtime.
Guy: lemme get u airtime.
She then gives him d number.
Day 2; when u call her or chat with her she tells u, excuse me can u do me a favor my bis just expired... u send her #1500...
Day 3; can I tk u out...
Her reply; yeah but am bringing my friends along.
Guy; ok...
Day 4; she brings like 4 friends along and they all get things but eatable and take away...
Day 5; girl I like u.
Her reply; I like u too but can u take care of me...
Guy; yes.
Day 6; she visits u u buy her everything buyable u try to kiss her war, hog civil war... u give her tp she goes.
Day 7; RAPE...lol

Men do fall victim to rape also. If na lie ask people from the central and southern Africa

Sex is one of the cheapest thing u can get any were around the world with very little amount of money. To me there is no any justification for rape. They are fu*cking bastard that doesn't have regard for ladies.

IMO, it's either they're really audacious or must have some serious mental issues.

I was almost raped back in 2002. My cousin's friend was throwing a party at her house & we were there celebrating with her. In the crowd was her neighbour, a guy called Themba. I'll never forget his name because he made me hate all Thembas. Anyway, this fool was busy showing off, flaunting money & gave the hostess money to entertain us with drinks. Mind you, I'm not much of a drinker, neither is my cousin. So all the alcohol went down other people's throats. All this time I was unaware that he had a thing for me. It started with a song. His "favourite" jam was on, he jumped up & started gyrating, looking straight at me. It was a bit uncomfortable but we all laughed at him because the dance moves were down right pòrn.

Finally it was time for us to leave because I was tired of him following me around & it was becoming really uncomfortable. OMG, HE BECAME UNHINGED like a psycho. This dude had the nerve to grab me & told me he's taking me home. His home. Two houses down. Everyone was telling him to let me go but he said he spent money on me & it was now time for me to pay up. Again, I DO NOT DRINK, so how can I "repay" him for something I didn't even enjoy? Themba went ballistic & started dragging me like a caveman. I'm not going to lie, I started crying because it was scary. Now everyone started getting involved & somehow I managed to escape. To this day, I do not do any kind of partying unless it's with family or very trusted friends. Some people are sick.

In 2011 I wasn't surprised when I heard from the same girl that invited us that he passed away from HIV. I've stopped going to her house after the incident so it was finally safe for me to go there because the wicked wizard of the west was dead. I was happy! Someone's death is nothing to celebrate but fùck it, I was happy he died.

The most painful part of this shit is that the lady is at risk of a terrible STD cos the heartless beast has one

abbey37:
The most painful part of this shit is that the lady is at risk of a terrible STD cos the heartless beast has one

Well said

i for one think that rapist dont move by konji dey move by going for punna that is hard to get cause if it was konji prostutie that are raped percentage suppose to be high. One incident happend last year in my church and the lady died of it ... I know the babe she was a decent girl but she was raped. So decenct ladies have more percentage to be raped than lose ladies

eghos12:
i for one think that rapist dont move by konji dey move by going for punna that is hard to get cause if it was konji prostutie that are raped percentage suppose to be high. One incident happend last year in my church and the lady died of it ... I know the babe she was a decent girl but she was raped. So decenct ladies have more percentage to be raped than lose ladies

Very valid point.....if she was a loosed girl I wouldn't even feel this much pain for her...it was just so obvious that she's traumatized

Death sentence not too harsh judgement for a rapist...

As in eh! The matter tire me. I think it's a psychological thing though, mostly birthed from low-esteem. Else I don't see why someone would believe he cannot get something unless he takes it by force.

Turn on all your seduction tricks instead. If it doesn't work, rest for the matter. Rape is a no no!

I pray the prohibition bill be signed soonest and all rapist shd be hanged by the balls in public . Dir shd be a public notice so dat all can witness his slow death. he-goat, ewu, rago , banza

Wendyslim:
I pray the prohibition bill be signed soonest and all rapist shd be hanged by the balls in public . Dir shd be a public notice so dat all can witness his slow death. he-goat, ewu, rago , banza

True

PunkyOh:
IMO, it's either they're really audacious or must have some serious mental issues.

I was almost raped back in 2002. My cousin's friend was throwing a party at her house & we were there celebrating with her. In the crowd was her neighbour, a guy called Themba. I'll never forget his name because he made me hate all Thembas. Anyway, this fool was busy showing off, flaunting money & gave the hostess money to entertain us with drinks. Mind you, I'm not much of a drinker, neither is my cousin. So all the alcohol went down other people's throats. All this time I was unaware that he had a thing for me. It started with a song. His "favourite" jam was on, he jumped up & started gyrating, looking straight at me. It was a bit uncomfortable but we all laughed at him because the dance moves were down right pòrn.

Finally it was time for us to leave because I was tired of him following me around & it was becoming really uncomfortable. OMG, HE BECAME UNHINGED like a psycho. This dude had the nerve to grab me & told me he's taking me home. His home. Two houses down. Everyone was telling him to let me go but he said he spent money on me & it was now time for me to pay up. Again, I DO NOT DRINK, so how can I "repay" him for something I didn't even enjoy? Themba went ballistic & started dragging me like a caveman. I'm not going to lie, I started crying because it was scary. Now everyone started getting involved & somehow I managed to escape. To this day, I do not do any kind of partying unless it's with family or very trusted friends. Some people are sick.

In 2011 I wasn't surprised when I heard from the same girl that invited us that he passed away from HIV. I've stopped going to her house after the incident so it was finally safe for me to go there because the wicked wizard of the west was dead. I was happy! Someone's death is nothing to celebrate but fùck it, I was happy he died.

~ Nice story ..

Darkrebel666:


~ Nice story ..

Hahaha. Really? Thanks

PunkyOh
post=31938102:
IMO, it's either they're really audacious or must have
some serious mental issues.

I was almost raped back in 2002. My cousin's friend was throwing a party
at her house & we were there celebrating with her. In the crowd was
her neighbour, a guy called Themba. I'll never forget his name because
he made me hate all Thembas. Anyway, this fool was busy showing off,
flaunting money & gave the hostess money to entertain us with
drinks. Mind you, I'm not much of a drinker, neither is my cousin. So
all the alcohol went down other people's throats. All this time I was
unaware that he had a thing for me. It started with a song. His
"favourite" jam was on, he jumped up & started gyrating, looking
straight at me. It was a bit uncomfortable but we all laughed at him
because the dance moves were down right pòrn.

Finally it was time for us to leave because I was tired of him following
me around & it was becoming really uncomfortable. OMG, HE BECAME
UNHINGED like a psycho. This dude had the nerve to grab me & told me
he's taking me home. His home. Two houses down. Everyone was telling
him to let me go but he said he spent money on me & it was now time
for me to pay up. Again, I DO NOT DRINK, so how can I "repay" him for
something I didn't even enjoy? Themba went ballistic & started
dragging me like a caveman. I'm not going to lie, I started crying
because it was scary. Now everyone started getting involved &
somehow I managed to escape. To this day, I do not do any kind of
partying unless it's with family or very trusted friends. Some people
are sick.

In 2011 I wasn't surprised when I heard from the same girl that invited
us that he passed away from HIV. I've stopped going to her house after
the incident so it was finally safe for me to go there because the
wicked wizard of the west was dead. I was happy! Someone's death is
nothing to celebrate but fùck it, I was happy he died.

Nyc Story. thank God,they did not rap you for me sha.


longest time,where hv you been?

danbrowndmf:
Nyc Story. thank God,they did not rap you for me sha.


longest time,where hv you been?

Kikiki. Thanks. I've been here daily, it's you that I haven't seen much of. Hope you're well, bud.

PunkyOh:


Kikiki. Thanks. I've been here daily, it's you that I haven't seen much of. Hope you're well, bud.

hv been around sha.
are u on whatsapp?
All this fight in SA how are u coping?

danbrowndmf:
hv been around sha.
are u on whatsapp?
All this fight in SA how are u coping?

No, I don't use social media lol.

As for what's happening here, I'm coping well because my city isn't part of this foolishness. It's business as usual for us. In fact, I didn't even know there were attacks until I saw it here on Nairaland. I do hope it ends though. Our celebrities & govt people have also taken a stand, urging people to stop this madness. We now have tv ads saying no to xenophobia & I hope those that are involved, get the message. Time will tell.

[quote
author=PunkyOh post=32907592]

No, I don't use social media lol.

As for what's happening here, I'm coping well because my city isn't part
of this foolishness. It's business as usual for us. In fact, I didn't
even know there were attacks until I saw it here on Nairaland. I do hope
it ends though. Our celebrities & govt people have also taken a
stand, urging people to stop this madness. We now have tv ads saying no
to xenophobia & I hope those that are involved, get the message.
Time will tell.[/quote] Ohhh your from SA? i taught ur a nigerian who stays in SA oh

danbrowndmf:
Ohhh your from SA? i taught ur a nigerian who stays in SA oh

I'm South African.