There is this family in my street , for every argument in the the house the wife will scream to the extent of calling the attention of neighbors to their house . funny enough the husband is so quite that he would just be looking . in fact , sometimes you see the man with different kind of injuries on his body as a result of probably teeth bite and beating. just last week we learnt that the wife went to meet the man in the town to embarrass him while he was in the mist of his friends .
I was just wondering ,what will be the end of this kind of family . is it possible they survival it ?
I learnt the woman is always challenging the husband of infidelity which the husband most times deny and even go to the extent of using his life to curse .
Can anyone just predict what may actually happen if this kind of situation should continue .
If you were the man what will be the solution you will proffer?

Caution her

That woman nah irresponsible,useless one.Let the man move out elsewhere for long,maybe that'll cure her madness

LockDown69:
Caution her

People always do . in the neighborhood ,there pastors ,successful families that give different kind of advice but it won't change anything . the husband once said its in her blood . that before he married her that was how he used to see her mum fight her dad in their house but felt she was different until they got married

ademega:

People always do . in the neighborhood ,there pastors ,successful families that give different kind of advice but it won't change anything . the husband once said its in her blood . that before he married her that was how he used to see her mum fight her dad in their house but felt she was different until they got married

He should leave her a$$, life's too short to live a miserable life.

That woman na lousy market woman o

Witch

Oh plsss!
I remember a couple way back....they fight dirty! Pull each other in street et al....but dare separate them they will turn on you.

this one wey you carry am for head like gala.
how market?

I don't know why people endure such bad treatment.
I will leave her before she kills me.
There's no reward for wasting your life on a mentally unstable person.

Let him sit and wait. The next injury might be a pestle or bottle to his head and he won't live to tell the story.

ademega:

People always do . in the neighborhood ,there pastors ,successful families that give different kind of advice but it won't change anything . the husband once said its in her blood . that before he married her that was how he used to see her mum fight her dad in their house but felt she was different until they got married

That's the mistake he made. My mum has kept sounding this warning, that whenever I want to get married, I should look not at the girl, but her mom. 95% of the time it's true.


He should just learn to live with her. Avoid situations that will cause public embarrassment for him.

AfricanApple:
this one wey you carry am for head like gala.
how market?

That is not the issue . but always wondering ...you know that kind thing ? So, how market ?

vfactor:


That's the mistake he made. My mum has kept sounding this warning, that whenever I want to get married, I should look not at the girl, but her mom. 95% of the time it's true.

He should just learn to live with her. Avoid situations that will cause public embarrassment for him.

You are right even though I will reduce the percentage to 70%. Our parents taught us 70% of what we know about marriage either by their actions or inactions. Family background is very important.

I'm almost certain the woman you are referring to is an illiterate ,loud,immature and attention-seeking one.
Eventually, wise neighbors around would know her for what she is and would stop meddling.
It not your business OP so you pick the tip (an unhealthy relationship that you don't envy) from this one and look away

mystiqueDZ:
Oh plsss!
I remember a couple way back....they fight dirty! Pull each other in street et al....but dare separate them they will turn on you.

Lmaooooioo Funny couple. They fight as one

Hmmmm. My son, it won't end well if she continues like that. One day, that man will be pushed to the walls...you know the end.


But why sef? What's wrong with love and civility? Kai, I just plain dislike bringing third parties into my issues! It is well.

Just 5 slaps thats all,but i know the man is weak so he should just stare

ademega:
There is this family in my street , for every argument in the the house the wife will scream to the extent of calling the attention of neighbors to their house . funny enough the husband is so quite that he would just be looking . in fact , sometimes you see the man with different kind of injuries on his body as a result of probably teeth bite and beating. just last week we learnt that the wife went to meet the man in the town to embarrass him while he was in the mist of his friends .
I was just wondering ,what will be the end of this kind of family . is it possible they survival it ?
I learnt the woman is always challenging the husband of infidelity which the husband most times deny and even go to the extent of using his life to curse .
Can anyone just predict what may actually happen if this kind of situation should continue .
If you were the man what will be the solution you will proffer?

Trial separation should do wonders.

ademega:
There is this family in my street , for every argument in the the house the wife will scream to the extent of calling the attention of neighbors to their house . funny enough the husband is so quite that he would just be looking . in fact , sometimes you see the man with different kind of injuries on his body as a result of probably teeth bite and beating. just last week we learnt that the wife went to meet the man in the town to embarrass him while he was in the mist of his friends .
I was just wondering ,what will be the end of this kind of family . is it possible they survival it ?
I learnt the woman is always challenging the husband of infidelity which the husband most times deny and even go to the extent of using his life to curse .
Can anyone just predict what may actually happen if this kind of situation should continue .
If you were the man what will be the solution you will proffer?

This is what happens to a man when he's weak.

When a man constantly tolerates reprehensible behaviour from a woman, this kind of situation is inevitable.

the woman will end up killing the man if care is not taken.

DukeNija:


Lmaooooioo Funny couple. They fight as one

i tell you funny ones!

ademega:
There is this family in my street , for every argument in the the house the wife will scream to the extent of calling the attention of neighbors to their house . funny enough the husband is so quite that he would just be looking . in fact , sometimes you see the man with different kind of injuries on his body as a result of probably teeth bite and beating. just last week we learnt that the wife went to meet the man in the town to embarrass him while he was in the mist of his friends .
I was just wondering ,what will be the end of this kind of family.

the man is weaker than his wife. there's a limit to how a man can let a lady trample over him. she can never respect him unless he does something to arrest the situation.

is it possible they survival it ?

if nothing is done, one of them will end up killing the other. a man this quiet is likely to be bottling up the pain he has been suffering from the wife. one day, he might flip & trust me it is always fatal.

I learnt the woman is always challenging the husband of infidelity which the husband most times deny and even go to the extent of using his life to curse.

obnoxious wives are mostly paranoid or pretend to be. they need an excuse to ferment their troublesome nature. it's not surprising she accuses him of infidelity.

Can anyone just predict what may actually happen if this kind of situation should continue

at least one of them may die in the hands of the other.

If you were the man what will be the solution you will proffer?

very simple matter....

arrange fëmale cultists from IMSU to roughen her up. for N50,000, they would do a thorough job on her that would keep her mouth shut for few years.

I endorse this suggestion.op here is your answer



in the history of humanity it has been discovered that violence quells violence. Keeping quiet is like putting more oil in the woman's car to fire on.same goes for men too

coogar:


the man is weaker than his wife. there's a limit to how a man can let a lady trample over him. she can never respect him unless he does something to arrest the situation.



if nothing is done, one of them will end up killing the other. a man this quiet is likely to be bottling up the pain he has been suffering from the wife. one day, he might flip & trust me it is always fatal.



obnoxious wives are mostly paranoid or pretend to be. they need an excuse to ferment their troublesome nature. it's not surprising she accuses him of infidelity.



at least one of them may die in the hands of the other.



very simple matter....

arrange fëmale cultists from IMSU to roughen her up. for N50,000, they would do a thorough job on her that would keep her mouth shut for few years.

This sounds like the woman is an emere or possessed by water spirit. Goggle these things.
Those possessed by Emere are very cunning until they are legally wedded before they show their true violent character.
Women possessed with this kind of spirit are known to throw themselves down a well or into fire.
Such women are violent for no established reason and can only be cured by exorcism.
That husband don enter one chance.

Emere
An emere , in traditional Yoruba culture, is a child who can travel between the spiritual and physical world at will. A negative connotation is associated with the word, as it implies that a family's child may disappear and reappear at will. The impatient emere wants the best of heaven and Earth. An emere is a spirit in disguise, misrepresenting death as life, and is clever enough to disguise his objectives. Believed to be more powerful than witches, they most often die on a particular day of joy. On wedding days, when having their first baby, graduation from university etc. depending on the degree of happiness the event might cause. They are also believed to be extremely pretty, and have seductive powers.
The emere gives unconditional support to heaven whileon earth, distorting the balance of power, betraying Earth and its followers, annoyed that Earth did not allow visitors from heaven.
An emere is usually considered a female.

slimyem:
I'm almosHe definitely isn't a man yet ,his father seems just that and is taking advantage of the situation. the money.t certain the woman you are referring to is an illiterate ,loud,immature and attention-seeking one.
Eventually, wise neighbors around would know her for what she is and would stop meddling.
It not your business OP so you pick the tip (an unhealthy relationship that you don't envy) from this one and look away

Is it not obvious that the OP is the man in question. I mean it would have been difficult to admit from onset because he seems to have been on NL for a while.

To the OP, that woman is already cheating on you, either emotionally or physically, and might possibly kill you if the situation warrants it.
She is already killing your image in your community, doing it physically will just take things a step further.

ademega:

People always do . in the neighborhood ,there pastors ,successful families that give different kind of advice but it won't change anything . the husband once said its in her blood . that before he married her that was how he used to see her mum fight her dad in their house but felt she was different until they got married

It runs in the family