There was this friend of mine who was played emotionally by one guy well known to me. Despite the fact that this guy do call her names like bitch,and all sorts of heartbreaking names, she still found love in the guy. She cried in the closet. When she came to me, she told me they never dated tho' i understand it's a lie. I asked her when she fell in love, she made me understand the first time she set her eyes on him. Now i understand i told her. Love at first sight is not an easy love to get over. She even made me understand that no matter who she gets married to, she can't love the person as the guy. Isn't it glaring that she is deeply in love with the guy she doesnt seen as bad despite the treatment.

To me, love at first sight has no prevention nor cure. In preventing or curing it, you are nurturing it and it grows the more. Do you have an idea?

is this juju at one night just asking?

It often leads to obsession.

Check out the obsessive love wheel & you'll see that most obsessive relationships, the obsessed partner experiences love at first sight upon meeting the object of their obsession.

sure

PunkyOh:
It often leads to obsession.
Check out the obsessive love wheel & you'll see that most obsessive relationships, the obsessed partner experiences love at first sight upon meeting the object of their obsession.

no wonder I'm obsessed with you oooooooo

now I know..

PunkyOh:
It often leads to obsession.

Check out the obsessive love wheel & you'll see that most obsessive relationships, the obsessed partner experiences love at first sight upon meeting the object of their obsession.

girl......

I can smell an intelligent rat here....

Vixo:


no wonder I'm obsessed with you oooooooo

now I know..

Erm...well...

*scratches head*

I'm definitely not the type you should be obsessed with because mine will surely surpass yours Na bunny boiler things be that. Kikiki.

My current relationship which is as a result of love at first sight is blissful dnt know abt u guys

PunkyOh:


Erm...well...

*scratches head*

I'm definitely not the type you should be obsessed with because mine will surely surpass yours Na bunny boiler things be that. Kikiki.

I no go run like Dan even if you bunny boileric displays surpasses that of Alex in fatal attraction...

I like bunny boilers....*winks

Vixo:


I no go run like Dan even if you bunny boileric displays surpasses that of Alex in fatal attraction...

I like bunny boilers....*winks

Haha. You're naughty. Be careful what you wish for.

she thinks she can't love anyone like the guy cos she has nt seen a better guy. give her time, she will find som1 that love her and that she love in return and then she will discover what she had for the guy was infatuation not real love.

infatuation and love has the same symptoms all you need is time and exposure and you will differentiate the two. it is difficult to separate the two

there are cases of love at first sight but the question is, can u stand the test of time? you standing the test of time and excelling is what makes the true love not two of u falling over each oda.

PunkyOh:


Haha. You're naughty. Be careful what you wish for.

hmmmm....... I never wished that tho......

Ur attention is needed on a thread somewhere ....u need to enlighten a dude....

Vixo:


hmmmm....... I never wished that tho......

Ur attention is needed on a thread somewhere ....u need to enlighten a dude....

LOL, I'm not good at relationship stuff but I'll check it.

U just spoke my mind, especially with guys

Richhard:
There is literally nothing like "Love at first sight"


but there is "Crush at first sight"

PunkyOh:


LOL, I'm not good at relationship stuff but I'll check it.

I can't remember mentioning relationship tho.....so how come you knew that?....

shows you are good at it...so go do the good work..

BTW are you really Xhosa

Uyakwazi ukuthetha isiXhosa?

It exists! Love at first sight! Love him jux on seeing him... Some call it divine love...

Vixo:


how you take know say name relationship o?

lol

My understanding of Pidgin is not that good, so I'm not exactly following what you mean here

PunkyOh:


My understanding of Pidgin is not that good, so I'm not exactly following what you mean here

modified....scroll up pls

I can't remember mentioning relationship
tho.....so how come you knew that?....
shows you are good at it...so go do the good
work..
BTW are you really Xhosa
Uyakwazi ukuthetha isiXhosa?

Vixo:


I can't remember mentioning relationship tho.....so how come you knew that?....

shows you are good at it...so go do the good work..

BTW are you really Xhosa

Uyakwazi ukuthetha isiXhosa?

Ewe. Kakhulu lol.

Vixo, where did you learn to speak Xhosa?

PunkyOh:
Vixo, where did you learn to speak Xhosa?

nairaland is just filled with anonymous folks who you never get to find out how good and nice they are sha....or what makes them thick....

so I ain't surprised u asking....

maybe we should speak somewhere else without derailing this thread ....

Shit happens!!!!

I Neva believed in love at first sight until I set my eyes on ma Present boyfriend during ma first year in Skul....Thank God he also felt same way cos i knew I wud Neva have had d guts to walk up to him. Thank ma star i did nt miss d opportunity of saying yes to him wen he asked me nd nw we hv gone a long way...the gud tin is he is nw mine......

back to d topic...op, shit happens

ronald4lif:
There's nothing as love at first sight. Lust at first sight is what people confused as love at first sight. How can you love someone you know nothing about their personality, character, temperament etc. Go love disable at first sight na, or a bus conductor.

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ronald4lif:
There's nothing as love at first sight. Lust at first sight is what people confused as love at first sight. How can you love someone you know nothing about their personality, character, temperament etc. Go love disable at first sight na, or a bus conductor.

Come off it dear... there's a huge difference between these two words... Lusting only brings feeling of sexual desire to d mind at DAT point, but wen u r in love, gosh.....ur tots at DAT point is beyond sex bro..

Mind u, guys in love don't rush helplessly to woo a lady, they take their time to learn a few tins about her before taking d next step which then leads to growing in love.....

Vixo:


nairaland is just filled with anonymous folks who you never get to find out how good and nice they are sha....or what makes them thick....

so I ain't surprised u asking....

maybe we should speak somewhere else without derailing this thread ....

Smart guy.. Na So u toast the chick. I really need to learn a sexy language like spanish..

Kayoski:

Smart guy.. Na So u toast the chick. I really need to learn a sexy language like spanish..

I laff fall inside central bank vault......

u funny guy ...

she no be bread o....I didn't toast her...in fact she damaged my toasting machine in the process...

Vixo:


I laff fall inside central bank vault......

u funny guy ...

she no be bread o....I didn't toast her...in fact she damaged my toasting machine in the process...

Bro u don fall we hand be dat o..

Kayoski:

Bro u don fall we hand be dat o..

Lolz.....I no need online chick o....

wey one guy go dey service for me for yonder..

me go come dey sokoto......lol