TAKE THE BLAME.
When things go wrong, instead of pointing fingers at who you think is at fault, ask yourself what you can do to repair things.
It saves time, and breeds responsibility.
You can only change yourself and pray for others

FORGIVE YOURSELF
You are human, you will make mistakes.
You might have messed, and you keep remembering your regrets, and imagine what would have happened if you hadn’t made the mistakes.
Well guess what, you did make the mistake.
Learn from it, forgive yourself and move on. The most important thing is that you learn from it.
You can’t go back to the past, not to talk of changing it, so stop dwelling on your past mistakes.

FORGIVE OTHERS
Many times, the hurt we bring on ourselves is because we refused to forgive.
Forgive not for the person that wronged you, but for your own peace of mind and, most importantly, because God asks us to.
Forgiving the other person is also an aid to leave the past behind. Let it go.
No scratch that, give it to God,
He alone is the rewarder of men.

FORGET THE PAST… IN TOTALITY
Leave the past where it belongs- in the past.
Leave every part of it behind- your past glories, your past mistakes, your past successes, your past failures, all of it.
Your past should serve as a learning tool, not as a dwelling.
The Lord focuses on doing great, new things for you.
Embrace it and move on.

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