what l want to write might look crazy and stupid,but instead this world is a crazy place,l am madly in love with a married woman and l have tried my best to stop this relationship but it seems l don't have control over it again.

Meanwhile ,this is the first time l have writing an article ,so please don't mind any wrong spelling or maybe l might go going out of point, most importantly is to understand what l am saying:

TRUE LIFE
MY STORY;

I got married say some 8 years ago,got married to a lady l would call my best friend because we had known each other for many years ,l have this crazy friends that are also married and they don't believe in one man,one woman,l do condemn the art of cheating so much ,to the extent of imagining someone dating someone else wife,so please if you wanna judge me ,l was once like you ,l remember those days my grand father would advise never to say sorts like I SWEAR I CAN'T DO OR DO THIS

I stay in Abuja ,l run my own business ,l don't joke with church programs, but l am not a worker in church,l might not be the prefect husband but l try to make sure l stand up tall as a man in my home, well it happened this way,l was at the shopping mall when l supply my products ,just left the hall,l was in the car park ,so l decided to check my documents in my car before leaving the hall ,then l noticed a car parked opposite me ,it was a very fine car,normally as normal Nigerian l looked inside the vehicle and l saw a very pretty lady ,l stared a while ,then she smiled back and ,then she gave me this looks like hellooo,then she walked out of the car,as a normal man l now noticed that she got beautiful body,l now smiled and decided to drive out finally from the premises,..

Then a voice in me said l should go and collect her phone number ,l was so sacred , l was now parked outside the premises,l was like will such a big babe will never answer me,l don't know where l got the courage from,(naturally l am very shy person) walked up to her with my heart beating very fast to the extent l was shaking,when l got there,she gave me this smile,the lady is so beautiful, l now told her l love her car,she started laughing and asked me why am l shaking,she later said she doesn't know the price, l now asked her if she help me with who sold the vehicle to her ,she said that she will give me her own number and l should call her later she will give me the dealer number,collected her number

As discussed, l called later in the day,she said she was at home,then l noticed a little girl crying at the background, she told me she needs to attend to her daughter that she will call back,so l thought maybe single parents because l didn't see any ring on her finger,she called me back and we talked almost 20minutes ,from that day we would WhatsApp ,talk on phone ,but she never agreed on a date with me ,at one stage she opened to me she was married and her husband was working abroad,l also told her l was married too,we become close but she never agreed on a date,at one time l decided to stop talking with her because l thought about everything that l also have a wife too,so l stopped the communications ,

Then one faithful day,she called and asked why l don't reply her whatsapp ,out of stupidity l said since you don't wanna go out on a date ,she then promised we will
go out tomorrow, then she have made up her mind,this was like 2 months after we met ,we met the next day and l was carried away with her looks,all of a sudden we agreed to be lovers and before you know we started having sex ,unprotected sex in hotels outskirts town,sex with her is so great,l fell in love with a married woman,she never asked me for money ,nothing ,sometimes she would even park loads of money in my
wallet,she buys me gifts ,she makes me comfortable like a dream,tells me wonderful words ,this relationship started affecting my marriage ,l don't give my phone to my wife anymore, l password my phone ,put it on silence so that it won't ring out ,l go out at strange hours
which l don't do before,l tell a close friend about my relationship ,he begged me to stop everything that formication comes with a curse ,l was so scared ,the next day l told her we should stop this relationship, she cried and begged that when she goes back to u.s ,we can forget about everything, l had no choice than to tell her l was sorry ,l am so confused ,l don't know what to do,l love my home and l love her too,...

This one strong oooo

Wow. Entertaining story.
So, what's your new STD status?

I just don't understand why people cheat on their spouse. Womanliness is the same whether fat or thin, white or black they all feel the same.

You don't love her, man! You re just lusting after her beautiful body. While she's using u to fill the vacuum has husband has created. The sex has beclouded your reasoning, such that you won't be able to think clearly. Until she gets pregnant and tells u she's keeping the baby. Or till your wife finds out.

Go and seek an advice from your wife. She will give you the best advice.

Hope it helps.

Distance marriages,Rubbish ,even Lagos Abuja marriage,couples do cheat

I was walking down the street this morning and somehow i dashed my foot against a stone! Pls NL'ders what should i do.
Plss am confused.

What i mean is this:
Advice is what we ask for when we know the answer but wish it doesn't exist ----erica jong

i dey come!

This is how you fools keep spreading STD's and carrying infections from place to place. Big, old fool like you. If you are hell bent on cheating, protect your family from your stupidity or kuku leave your wife to have happiness and good health in peace. After 5mins of fun, If you cause your family a lifetime of pain, how will you feel?

LUST when not contained early is a powerful force... It clouds your taste and judgement.... If you love your family, cut off all connections before your family cuts you off.. Just my 10kobo

gaborhorvarth:
what l want to write might look crazy and stupid,but instead this world is a crazy place,l am madly in love with a married woman and l have tried my best to stop this relationship but it seems l don't have control over it again.

Meanwhile ,this is the first time l have writing an article ,so please don't mind any wrong spelling or maybe l might go going out of point, most importantly is to understand what l am saying:

TRUE LIFE
MY STORY;

I got married say some 8 years ago,got married to a lady l would call my best friend because we had known each other for many years ,l have this crazy friends that are also married and they don't believe in one man,one woman,l do condemn the art of cheating so much ,to the extent of imagining someone dating someone else wife,so please if you wanna judge me ,l was once like you ,l remember those days my grand father would advise never to say sorts like I SWEAR I CAN'T DO OR DO THIS

I stay in Abuja ,l run my own business ,l don't joke with church programs, but l am not a worker in church,l might not be the prefect husband but l try to make sure l stand up tall as a man in my home, well it happened this way,l was at the shopping mall when l supply my products ,just left the hall,l was in the car park ,so l decided to check my documents in my car before leaving the hall ,then l noticed a car parked opposite me ,it was a very fine car,normally as normal Nigerian l looked inside the vehicle and l saw a very pretty lady ,l stared a while ,then she smiled back and ,then she gave me this looks like hellooo,then she walked out of the car,as a normal man l now noticed that she got beautiful body,l now smiled and decided to drive out finally from the premises,..

Then a voice in me said l should go and collect her phone number ,l was so sacred , l was now parked outside the premises,l was like will such a big babe will never answer me,l don't know where l got the courage from,(naturally l am very shy person) walked up to her with my heart beating very fast to the extent l was shaking,when l got there,she gave me this smile,the lady is so beautiful, l now told her l love her car,she started laughing and asked me why am l shaking,she later said she doesn't know the price, l now asked her if she help me with who sold the vehicle to her ,she said that she will give me her own number and l should call her later she will give me the dealer number,collected her number

As discussed, l called later in the day,she said she was at home,then l noticed a little girl crying at the background, she told me she needs to attend to her daughter that she will call back,so l thought maybe single parents because l didn't see any ring on her finger,she called me back and we talked almost 20minutes ,from that day we would WhatsApp ,talk on phone ,but she never agreed on a date with me ,at one stage she opened to me she was married and her husband was working abroad,l also told her l was married too,we become close but she never agreed on a date,at one time l decided to stop talking with her because l thought about everything that l also have a wife too,so l stopped the communications ,

Then one faithful day,she called and asked why l don't reply her whatsapp ,out of stupidity l said since you don't wanna go out on a date ,she then promised we will
go out tomorrow, then she have made up her mind,this was like 2 months after we met ,we met the next day and l was carried away with her looks,all of a sudden we agreed to be lovers and before you know we started having sex ,unprotected sex in hotels outskirts town,sex with her is so great,l fell in love with a married woman,she never asked me for money ,nothing ,sometimes she would even park loads of money in my
wallet,she buys me gifts ,she makes me comfortable like a dream,tells me wonderful words ,this relationship started affecting my marriage ,l don't give my phone to my wife anymore, l password my phone ,put it on silence so that it won't ring out ,l go out at strange hours
which l don't do before,l tell a close friend about my relationship ,he begged me to stop everything that formication comes with a curse ,l was so scared ,the next day l told her we should stop this relationship, she cried and begged that when she goes back to u.s ,we can forget about everything, l had no choice than to tell her l was sorry ,l am so confused ,l don't know what to do,l love my home and l love her too,...

Sheet happens! Lordylordy...pls go back home. That's where your heart is.

gaborhorvarth:
what l want to write might look crazy and stupid,but instead this world is a crazy place,l am madly in love with a married woman and l have tried my best to stop this relationship but it seems l don't have control over it again.

Meanwhile ,this is the first time l have writing an article ,so please don't mind any wrong spelling or maybe l might go going out of point, most importantly is to understand what l am saying:

TRUE LIFE
MY STORY;

I got married say some 8 years ago,got married to a lady l would call my best friend because we had known each other for many years ,l have this crazy friends that are also married and they don't believe in one man,one woman,l do condemn the art of cheating so much ,to the extent of imagining someone dating someone else wife,so please if you wanna judge me ,l was once like you ,l remember those days my grand father would advise never to say sorts like I SWEAR I CAN'T DO OR DO THIS

I stay in Abuja ,l run my own business ,l don't joke with church programs, but l am not a worker in church,l might not be the prefect husband but l try to make sure l stand up tall as a man in my home, well it happened this way,l was at the shopping mall when l supply my products ,just left the hall,l was in the car park ,so l decided to check my documents in my car before leaving the hall ,then l noticed a car parked opposite me ,it was a very fine car,normally as normal Nigerian l looked inside the vehicle and l saw a very pretty lady ,l stared a while ,then she smiled back and ,then she gave me this looks like hellooo,then she walked out of the car,as a normal man l now noticed that she got beautiful body,l now smiled and decided to drive out finally from the premises,..

Then a voice in me said l should go and collect her phone number ,l was so sacred , l was now parked outside the premises,l was like will such a big babe will never answer me,l don't know where l got the courage from,(naturally l am very shy person) walked up to her with my heart beating very fast to the extent l was shaking,when l got there,she gave me this smile,the lady is so beautiful, l now told her l love her car,she started laughing and asked me why am l shaking,she later said she doesn't know the price, l now asked her if she help me with who sold the vehicle to her ,she said that she will give me her own number and l should call her later she will give me the dealer number,collected her number

As discussed, l called later in the day,she said she was at home,then l noticed a little girl crying at the background, she told me she needs to attend to her daughter that she will call back,so l thought maybe single parents because l didn't see any ring on her finger,she called me back and we talked almost 20minutes ,from that day we would WhatsApp ,talk on phone ,but she never agreed on a date with me ,at one stage she opened to me she was married and her husband was working abroad,l also told her l was married too,we become close but she never agreed on a date,at one time l decided to stop talking with her because l thought about everything that l also have a wife too,so l stopped the communications ,

Then one faithful day,she called and asked why l don't reply her whatsapp ,out of stupidity l said since you don't wanna go out on a date ,she then promised we will
go out tomorrow, then she have made up her mind,this was like 2 months after we met ,we met the next day and l was carried away with her looks,all of a sudden we agreed to be lovers and before you know we started having sex ,unprotected sex in hotels outskirts town,sex with her is so great,l fell in love with a married woman,she never asked me for money ,nothing ,sometimes she would even park loads of money in my
wallet,she buys me gifts ,she makes me comfortable like a dream,tells me wonderful words ,this relationship started affecting my marriage ,l don't give my phone to my wife anymore, l password my phone ,put it on silence so that it won't ring out ,l go out at strange hours
which l don't do before,l tell a close friend about my relationship ,he begged me to stop everything that formication comes with a curse ,l was so scared ,the next day l told her we should stop this relationship, she cried and begged that when she goes back to u.s ,we can forget about everything, l had no choice than to tell her l was sorry ,l am so confused ,l don't know what to do,l love my home and l love her too,...

mumu cant u see u re just there to fill a vacuum?. so once shes back wit her hubby in US she will willingly let u go. Abeg use ur brain before u loose all.

Op,don't mind people telling you to stop,they are jealous of you because of
















The health risk you are putting yourself.

Hmmmm... Na wa oooooo

How would you feel, if your wife does this same thing to you?

Dunno what kinda advice you're looking for

Yeye man. Shame on you for being so lustful.

Brother, the devil has devoured your soul.

How will you feel if you heard did same to you? You just defiled your vows to her and God on your wedding day. You better seek her forgiveness before your life begins to derail for unknown causes. you are bound to that strange woman hence you will yearn for her. What if someone took the pictures of both of you and circulated it?

You can be worker and you dont fear God. If the strange woman was a wife to an herbalist you would have died instantly.

Because you dont fear God and you dare him than lesser God, you will not keep his commandment (thou shall not commit adultery).
Have you thought of what devil would have done to your soul both physically and spiritually.
HIV, unknown sickness in the family, Soul tie, unwnated pregancy, public shame

[But] whoso committeth adultery with a woman lacketh understanding: he [that] doeth it destroyeth his own soul. Marriage [is] honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge. Even the bible show how sacred marriage is: And the man that committeth adultery with [another] man's wife, [even he] that committeth adultery with his neighbour's wife, the adulterer and the adulteress shall surely be put to death. The love of Christ saves from death - Go and sin no more, going by the standard of the world, ye should be put to death with your partner; you were never with christ in body and soul, that was why you were easily enticed by the devil, Beware of the vices of the devil lest you fall.

Hey i understand you perfectly well. Well, if u really wanna cut her out, i think you should reduce physical contact with her to the barest minimum, as they say, out of sight is out of mind. If it works for you pls let me know....i might need to try it too.

I read posts like these,and I sometimes get scared of men. You know what u're doing isn't right,yet u're still asking for advice or are u expecting someone that will give you biblical quotations that will prove to you that u're right? You had better stop incurring the wrath of God. Don't u know that having sex is like a covenant,so my dear if u don't stop,all the setbacks in her life will always affect you and vice versa!

Tell her to marry you. Then And Only Then will She back off since she is the one inserting money in your wallet instead of the other round. You Ain't Got Nothing Else To Offer Except A Well Used Shrivelled Ddick. It is high time you stop filling that hole while yours languish at home. Hole Filler Like You. Feel Like Wacking Some Sense Into Your Gray Matter.

Prettiepearlz:
I read posts like these,and I sometimes get scared of men. You know what u're doing isn't right,yet u're still asking for advice or are u expecting someone that will give you biblical quotations that will prove to you that u're right? You had better stop incurring the wrath of God. Don't u know that having sex is like a covenant,so my dear if u don't stop,all the setbacks in her life will always affect you and vice versa!

You are only scared of men? You are not scared of the married woman who also has violated her marital vows begging and insisting to continue?

You are not scared of a woman who refused to stop her ungodly sexcapades despite the man in question having a rethink?

Anytime you read story, don't go the lane of "ignorant generalisation", it is not good for sanity.


And I am not excusing the man's reckless attitude.

story dat touches the heart.
I feel ur wife's pain. pls stop already..

you're a married man cheating on your wife. you're having unprotected sex with a married woman. her hubby is abroad, she might hv other men she's sleeping with unprotected.

your poor wife doesn't deserve this and she doesn't deserve to be infected with any infections or disease. if you don't love her, leave her alone and continue your nonsense with this married woman. if you love your wife, you need to cut off all communication and visits to this married womam, all sexual activities, everything!. then tell your wife the truth. this isn't a secret you shouldn't keep from her, it will eat you alive and your marriage will not thrive. once you tell her she can do as she wishes in terms of staying to work on your marriage or leaving.

THE MAN'S LOOKING FOR ADVICE NOT INSULTS. JUST MOVE ON IF YOU CANNOT CONTRIBUTE INTELLIGENTLY. THE WORST HUMAN BEINGS ARE THE ONES THAT WANT TO APPEAR LIKE SAINTS, SO SAD.

+1

maclatunji:
Yeye man. Shame on you for being so lustful.

abi ooo

baby124:
This is how you fools keep spreading STD's and carrying infections from place to place. Big, old fool like you. If you are hell bent on cheating, protect your family from your stupidity or kuku leave your wife to have happiness and good health in peace. After 5mins of fun, If you cause your family a lifetime of pain, how will you feel?

if this were a woman, you won't be saying that. we're going to tell him the truth and nothing less. should we congratulate him, give him a pat on the back for cheating on his wife, having unprotected sex with another woman continuously? he's a liar, cheater and a man-ho. these are not insults but facts, based on his actions. if you don't like what you're reading, pls click that [x] on your top right corner.

tiredface:
THE MAN'S LOOKING FOR ADVICE NOT INSULTS. JUST MOVE ON IF YOU CANNOT CONTRIBUTE INTELLIGENTLY. THE WORST HUMAN BEINGS ARE THE ONES THAT WANT TO APPEAR LIKE SAINTS, SO SAD.

My only contribution is this;
Why fall in love with a married woman?
To what end?

If you can't control your lust, learn to chop and clean mouth then repent of your sins... that love can not work.

Aflyingbird, you're much rotten a person than he's. You lack logic and no amount of your pretenses will convince any one here.

you're probably a man-ho like the op, the truth hurts, ehn? do me a favour, will ya? cry me a river, build you a boat and sail away, abegi!

tiredface:
Aflyingbird, you're much rotten a person than he's. You lack logic and no amount of your pretenses will convince any one here.