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Re: CHAI!!! See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Said NO To Sex! by ddaammyy(f): 10:17am On Apr 15, 2015
kraftykc:


By "beat", this poster means "self-service".
self service? Did u read the post at all? By beating I mean 'not giving in to the sex' nd by joining them I mean 'giving in to the sex because he luvs her nd can't do witout her!
Re: CHAI!!! See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Said NO To Sex! by stephenqueen: 10:18am On Apr 15, 2015
shinejackie:
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lmao..... grin grin grin

Re: CHAI!!! See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Said NO To Sex! by ddaammyy(f): 10:19am On Apr 15, 2015
Tjayjosh:

If can't beat them don't join them, by so doing, you are reducing their number by 1.
if u tink so, then why is the poster lamenting over his luv fr her? undecided
Re: CHAI!!! See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Said NO To Sex! by kraftykc(m): 10:24am On Apr 15, 2015
ddaammyy:
self service? Did u read the post at all? By beating I mean 'not giving in to the sex' nd by joining them I mean 'giving in to the sex because he luvs her nd can't do witout her!

Ha. You want to flog this issue? Well the fact that the OP prefers to beat it rather than join the progressives who straff like normal beings means that he his problem must stem from beating rather than joining.
Re: CHAI!!! See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Said NO To Sex! by thrix(m): 10:25am On Apr 15, 2015
Nneka123:
hmm, this your story eh undecided
e get as e be, make i help you talk am cheesy
Re: CHAI!!! See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Said NO To Sex! by cana882(m): 10:26am On Apr 15, 2015
ddaammyy:
Sori! Such is life! If u can't beat them u join them!
modified: if u cant beat dem, u call boys 4 dem grin
Re: CHAI!!! See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Said NO To Sex! by yinkeys(m): 10:28am On Apr 15, 2015
anigbajumo:
I respect u...@24 jst a single pus***......God 4giv me sha...
My brother in this era where you'll be seen as dull if you don't bone her. It's a miracle to hear an adult of 24 years has done that only with one babe. After now, girls will say we are all after the same thing
Re: CHAI!!! See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Said NO To Sex! by temi2013(m): 10:33am On Apr 15, 2015
You caused it bro! Sleeping with her before now had made her crave for sex again(You have launched her into sex),Ladies are more emotional and deep about love making .Sex before marriage is a sin whether you like it or not and unfortunately many guys or ladies dnt see anything in having fun but they never knew they are courting with Hell. I will suggest you let her go (Hard it may sound) and please be committed to God and infact give your life to Jesus Christ(if you have not) and make peace with the lady and make her understand your decision to wait after marriage(which is a good decision). Never let pre marital sex destroy your life and never fall to the antics of going back to her.A word is enough for the wise.God bless you bro!
Re: CHAI!!! See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Said NO To Sex! by OpraMenu(m): 10:34am On Apr 15, 2015
ItsAnderson:

Told her I wouldnt wanna have sex again until I Got
married (which will be, at most, three years from
now), and the next day she sent me a text message
ending the two year relationship. I'm now caught
between a cliff and a high wall. She never told me
why. I just hope it's not because of the sex issue.
Honestly, I feel used because she was my first and
only. I Am 24 and almost through with my bachelors
but I've never found sex that appealing. We've dated
for more than two years but had sex a total six times.
I now feel horrible. I am not very religious but I just
feel like sex before marriage is just wrong. But I dont
think I am willing to let her go either.

my brother i've had same experience as you . but what can i do?
Re: CHAI!!! See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Said NO To Sex! by Lgnok(f): 10:34am On Apr 15, 2015
Glad she left you before getting entangled in prison...I mean marriage with you. after marriage, u will be rationing it to once in 3 years!!! lipsrsealed embarassed

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Re: CHAI!!! See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Said NO To Sex! by Margauxluv(f): 10:38am On Apr 15, 2015
sex aiint evrytin.


op if na market u dey sell...
owo ni koko


buh if u r real...go meet ur pastor or a REV. for solutionz..as for me..i dnt fnk u guys r meant to be.
Re: CHAI!!! See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Said NO To Sex! by souljaboi51(m): 10:39am On Apr 15, 2015
am sure she has had it. if she aint getting it from you, she would get it somewhere else grin. simply said. talk to her and ask her if its cos of sex she broke up instead of assuming.
Re: CHAI!!! See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Said NO To Sex! by HolyHero: 10:41am On Apr 15, 2015
guy abeg forget the bit.ch
Re: CHAI!!! See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Said NO To Sex! by Qudus1312: 10:44am On Apr 15, 2015
[color=#000099][/color]Sorry bro... U v bn assisting her ministry, you are Jst a contract boyfriend... coolSorry bro... U v bn assisting her ministry, you are Jst a contract boyfriend...
Re: CHAI!!! See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Said NO To Sex! by Wislet(f): 10:44am On Apr 15, 2015
Jose35:
you need to seek repentance for committing fornication. Then have a talk with her. I'm sure she will listen. Don't look down on yourself. Ask God for forgiveness. We all make mistakes. Good luck bro.

@OP

IF SHE STILL DOESN'T LISTEN TO YOU(to quit sex till marriage), THEN YOU NEED TO LEAVE HER AND CHART YOUR OWN COURSE.

NEVER COMPROMISE. NEVER ALLOW YOURSELF BE SWAYED BY SENTIMENTS/UNBELIEVERS' OPINIONS OF YOU(they would be the ones calling you names for your decision).
Remember: the flesh wars against the spirit.which do you want to rule you? Your decision.

SHE MIGHT ALSO HAVE EXHIBITED SUCH BEHAVIOUR THINKING 3 YEARS IS A LONG TIME/SHE CAN'T WAIT FOR YOU TILL THEN.

Women are not ones to make such promises to. A woman should marry in her prime. Don't try to hold her back. Never try it. You are 24, your focus should be on making something of yourself- finishing school and getting gainfully employed, and NOT going after/holding onto girls.

Men's choices change. By the time you clock 27, you might find that you are in love with someone else. Then, what story would you tell someone you chained by your side for 3yrs?


Set your priorities. Women have not finished. By the time you are ready for marriage, you will see more beautiful ones.

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Re: CHAI!!! See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Said NO To Sex! by iamord(m): 10:45am On Apr 15, 2015
Chiam55:
Satisfy He starved the poor girl. grin

At his age he should be at his peak and that should worry him more than sex before marriage bs. As men get older there drive declines so he should enjoy this time. She probably saw her sexless future and ran grin

this type of guy will end up not satisfying his wife either. And same thing or even worse will happen in the marriage. Like she cheating. Then the finger-pointing will start. I be girl.. I for Don commot from such relationship since. Its really a sexless future.. So Vague and opaque grin
Re: CHAI!!! See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Said NO To Sex! by Nobody: 10:46am On Apr 15, 2015
Exponental:
when next u copy n paste, try to back space!

Nailed it!
Re: CHAI!!! See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Said NO To Sex! by Mikwus(f): 10:49am On Apr 15, 2015
Goddex:


Madam, are you into marriage counselling?
Brilliant advise


Hehehehehehe........It's the voice of experience.

Thanks though
Re: CHAI!!! See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Said NO To Sex! by eaccyboy(m): 10:52am On Apr 15, 2015
Chiam55:


Your fat aunty angryj
Fools everywhere
hahahahaha i no get any fat sister. .. nawa for u ooo
Re: CHAI!!! See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Said NO To Sex! by Fourwinds: 10:53am On Apr 15, 2015
Nneka123:
hmm, this your story eh undecided
u don't believe it?
Re: CHAI!!! See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Said NO To Sex! by Tjayjosh(m): 10:55am On Apr 15, 2015
ddaammyy:
if u tink so, then why is the poster lamenting over his luv fr her? undecided
Based on experience. I once dated a girl whom i professed luv to, first, second and third month in the relationship no sex. On the fourth month she started to pressurize me for sex, i refused cos i luved her too much!. I cherished her and wanted the relationship to end in marriage. She threatened me, i refused. On the sixth month she broke up with me. One year latter i discovered she's a witch cos she planted something into my body through kissing her alone. The rest is a long story.
Re: CHAI!!! See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Said NO To Sex! by Bhella5(m): 10:56am On Apr 15, 2015
People be saying no sex before marriage. And I ask how many of you here on NL are virgins? As for me that guy should seek help from a doctor not a pastor or priest coz when he eventually get married and he is having problems with satisfying his wife it's same people that will turn on him and call him impotent.
Re: CHAI!!! See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Said NO To Sex! by malbro(m): 10:56am On Apr 15, 2015
Chiam55:
The poor girl is sexually frustrated >: undecided

sowiee u wasn't her
Re: CHAI!!! See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Said NO To Sex! by ddaammyy(f): 10:57am On Apr 15, 2015
Tjayjosh:

Based on experience. I once dated a girl whom i professed luv to, first, second and third month in the relationship no sex. On the fourth month she started to pressurize me for sex, i refused cos i luved her too much!. I cherished her and wanted the relationship to end in marriage. She threatened me, i refused. On the sixth month she broke up with me. One year latter i discovered she's a witch cos she planted something into my body through kissing her alone. The rest is a long story.
wow! U ar a real survivor then! Thank God

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Re: CHAI!!! See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Said NO To Sex! by Bhella5(m): 10:57am On Apr 15, 2015
Tjayjosh:

Based on experience. I once dated a girl whom i professed luv to, first, second and third month in the relationship no sex. On the fourth month she started to pressurize me for sex, i refused cos i luved her too much!. I cherished her and wanted the relationship to end in marriage. She threatened me, i refused. On the sixth month she broke up with me. One year latter i discovered she's a witch cos she planted something into my body through kissing her alone. The rest is a long story.
Bros u kan lie o!
Re: CHAI!!! See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Said NO To Sex! by Nobody: 10:58am On Apr 15, 2015
Nneka123:
hmm, this your story eh undecided
You mean you can't find a guy that will willing abstain for sex.
Re: CHAI!!! See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Said NO To Sex! by Nobody: 10:58am On Apr 15, 2015
I believe the guy's story. most Nigerian girls like sex like mad but they will be forming they need 'care and love ' in a relationship.

my advice to the guy; stick to your concept, after your degree then you can get a true lady who is ready to be with you beyond sex matter.

my own first time as a guy was after school too, I was 24. I don't even believe in sex before marriage but my greedy body wanted it.
I'm not perfect!!!
Re: CHAI!!! See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Said NO To Sex! by JayJustus(m): 11:09am On Apr 15, 2015
konji konji konji konji konji konji...
Re: CHAI!!! See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Said NO To Sex! by bjcuntis(m): 11:18am On Apr 15, 2015
Jose35:
you need to seek repentance for committing fornication. Then have a talk with her. I'm sure she will listen. Don't look down on yourself. Ask God for forgiveness. We all make mistakes. Good luck bro.
u jst told him the bible truth bro.
Re: CHAI!!! See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Said NO To Sex! by temi2013(m): 11:30am On Apr 15, 2015
Bhella5:
People be saying no sex before marriage. And I ask how many of you here on NL are virgins? As for me that guy should seek help from a doctor not a pastor or priest coz when he eventually get married and he is having problems with satisfying his wife it's same people that will turn on him and call him impotent.


sometimes i wonder why people compare their lives to others.That others are not virgins does not mean you should join the bad wagon bro!.Dare to stand out
Re: CHAI!!! See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Said NO To Sex! by silentboy26(m): 11:35am On Apr 15, 2015
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Re: CHAI!!! See What My Girlfriend Did Because I Said NO To Sex! by Toks2008(m): 11:35am On Apr 15, 2015
ItsAnderson:

Told her I wouldnt wanna have sex again until I Got
married (which will be, at most, three years from
now), and the next day she sent me a text message
ending the two year relationship. I'm now caught
between a cliff and a high wall. She never told me
why. I just hope it's not because of the sex issue.
Honestly, I feel used because she was my first and
only. I Am 24 and almost through with my bachelors
but I've never found sex that appealing. We've dated
for more than two years but had sex a total six times.
I now feel horrible. I am not very religious but I just
feel like sex before marriage is just wrong. But I dont
think I am willing to let her go either.


If you are sure you love and and she feels same way then go do the engagement and introduction then do legal wedding.

When u are ready you can do the main traditional wedding. This is no issue at all.

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